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Q: About a month ago i met this kid. One of my best friend's friend, Ashley is in love with him. After I started to talk to him, i started to like him alot. He started to like Ashley. Then we started hanging out and we were hooking up pretty much. After my friends friend found out i liked him she pretty much wanted to kill me and hates me now. I just let her have him. Now his birthday is coming in a few days and i want to get him a present. He invited me over his house just to hang out on his birthday. Ashley said if I went she wud dump him. I dont know if he cares but I feel bad. I feel terrible if his girlfriend broke up with him over me. In the past he had said he would choose me over her but im over him I just want to be friends. What should I do?
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♥ go out with the guy.. and tell the bitch to get over it
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Q: Hey,..like lately i have been inraged at guys. even my friends. Expecially my best friend's boyfriend ((he's my friend as well and my ex.)) And one minutes i'll be laughing and the next i'll either be screaming or giving him ((or any other guy)) the silent treatment. It may be I just start my period for the month ((i've had it before)). And i just dont know what to do so i'm not so angry. i'm usually not. i'm usually very perky and flirty. Tell me something that helps and that i dont know and i'll rate 5's!
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♥ wel you could be bipolar..im not saying you're crazy but that could be it..or it definitely could be pms..sry if i didnt help much :(
xOxO--Janee`
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Q: hi i like this boy. i want to be freinds with him and talk to him with out him knowing that i lke him.i kno were his locker is (right acrass from mine if i could do somthing with that)help
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♥ well..you can always talk to him..and just be cool..pretend like hes your bestfriend..and just start a conversation..boys are pretty dumb..so like they wont know if u like them unless you tell them or if you tells omeone who tells them..so yeah..OR you can talk to his friends and you know..make friends with his friends which will make you be in with him..besides i dont think he will notice unless you say anything about it..so DONT SAY ANYTHING ABOUT IT TO HIM OR TO SOMEON WHO HAS A BIG MOUTH! and youll be just fine when you talk to him..
xOxO--Janee`
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Q: ok my best friend (hes a guy) was hangin out with 2 of his friends. he said to his friends "swear to god not to tell anyone but me and (my name) banged last night" and they believed him! and they were aaskin him a whole bunch of questions and he didnt even bother to say he was just kidding. Why would he tell them that when nothing would ever happen between us? he eventually told them that he was just kidding but rumors coulda started off of that! why would he tell them that though when it wasnt even true?
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♥ He's insecure about his manhood or maybe he likes you or he wants to impress his friends..
x3-Janee'
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Q: Me and my x friend areant talking anymore!! We used to be best friends and tell everyone that we were cousins and stuff... and now in middle school were not talking and we always get in fights. What do I do...because Ill have dreams that were friends then I wake up relizing it was only a dream...its really upset! HELP?!
From girl with friend problems.
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♥ Forget about her..if she was your real friend she would stay friends with you NO MATTER WHAT!
x3-Janee'
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Q: Well as you have guessed i got some bullshit going on and i am fixing to tell a few people off. I dont know who to trust or believe anymore. This one girl me and her used to be the best of friends and then another old friend of mine is back in the picture that i have already told off twice. Well the girl who is my friend i have sit here and not exactly trusted her for a couple of weeks now, and finally she asked if i trusted her and i said to a point and soon as she got the answer...i told her on the phone by the way...it got quiet for a minute and then she said well im going to get off here bye and hung up. So i said to myself ok i aint even going to call her back i will let her make the love she wants to talk then she can call but if not so be it. Another thing is she says everybody usually comes running back to her sometime later on and well me im not one who is going to run back to nobody if they want to talk or whatever they have to run back to me. And this girls friend i aint got nothing against her friend but from the sounds of it her friend dont know how much longer she can take it and i said i understand. And i think my fuse is fixing to blow cause of hearing to much bullshit. They are the only people i really talked to and that why i havent went off on the deep end yet, My question is do you think i should go ahead and tell her and whoever off or wait and see what happens?
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♥ Cuss them bitches out..and slap the shit outta them..that may help too..
x3-Janee'
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Q: ok well i have this best friend. i love her to death but she gets annoying. she thinks that all the guys love her, and she lies to make people think she is telling the truth. for instance she would be all like "Yah he hugged me and he grabbed my ass" and i would be standing there watching the whole time and that never happened. this happens ALLLLL THE TiME!!!! i dont want to say anything to her because i kno she will take it the wrong way and blow it out of purportion(sp?) it just makes me soooooooo mad because i would be standing RiGHT THERE and she would say sumthing happened to a group of ppl and it never happened and if i say anything she will be like, "uhm yes it did!!!" and say something to embarass me. what can i do!!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?! i rate 5's!!
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♥ I think what she needs is for someone to tell her about herself and I think YOU should be the one to do it becuase..if you're standing right there YOU know the truth..so callher out IN FRONT OF THE PEOPLE SHES LYING TO! and if she says something embarassing say atleast I ddont have to lie about guys grabbing my ass..only sluts lie about that..or say something embarassing about her even if you have to lie..
x3-Janee'
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Q: Omg help me someone please.. i am in 8th grade and there are these 2 girls in 9th grade that hate me.. they hate me because last year i put prep by one of their picture in the year book.. but i put kewl by her picture also.. i didnt mean "prep" in a bad way at all.. i mean even i a prep.. this girls friend i was never really close wit but now she hates me cuz i did that to her friend.. the girl who i called "prep" was my friend before.. not really good friend but friend.. i have tryed sayin sorry and tellin them i didnt mean it in a bad way but they still hate me.. what should i do!?!?
signed,
hated*
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Hunni,
dont apologize to them....its only 2 girls..now if it was the whole 9th grade then i would tell you to explain to them what you meant by it...but its only 2 girls...who cares..just leave it alone, it'll blow over eventually.
-HOPE I HELPED:)
x3-Janee'
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Q: Okay my ex-best friend and i are fighting, more like her fighting with me. Over the summer she started a fight with me and threatend me for no reason, so i was the mature one and i didnt say or do anythiong hurtful to her. then ifound out recently that she had been lieing t o me about dating my recently exboyfriend for 2 months. so she asked if it was okay that they went out i said it was. but ilater decieded that i didnt wanna be her friend because she isnt a good one to me. now she insults me non-stop, and has taken someof my friends away from me. and i still havent fought back. and i need someone to help me figure out a way to expose her, or something. She deserves worse than that to be honest. So does anyone have any ideas?
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Hunn,
I know this sounds immature but...
Spread rumors about her steal her your ex b/f back,call her out, bring out the worst of her to the public, if shes a slut tell everyone...if shes not tell everyone she is..spread whatever you have bad about her,tell her b/f that she's cheating on him and make up other lies to get him to break up with her.. and one more thing.... SLAP THAT BITCH! shes nothing....shes gonna get whats coming to her....and a whoole lot more.
-HOPE I HELPED!:)
x3-Janee'
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Q: ok. so my friend always takes pictures of herself and she like says that she has fat thighs and she has cellulite n stuff and she keeps weighing herself and keeps saying that shes going on a deit n crap. I KNOW that she thinks shes beautiful and she's a cheerleader with me so i think that she shouldn't worry about her weight at all. please help me. HOW CAN I GET HER TO STOP SAYING SHIT?!?!
P.s. sorry about da cussin...i got a lil mad.
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Honestly,
I think you should just say look you're pretty and ur not fat so get over urself.....n/p bout tha cussin
-HOPE I HELPED!
x3-Janee'
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Q: well, school is over for the summer, and im not that great at keeping in touch with everyone. most of my friends get upset at this, but then again, only 2 of them have tried to keep in contact with me too... i just dont understand why they get so upset when they arent trying either. i understand it is hard to go with out talking to your friends that have been there for you, but i just moved, and im around a different crowd, and i have to go to summer school, and some of my friends think im going to forget about them, and make new friends. i will make new friends, but i wont forget my old. i tried explaining this to them, but they just seem to get mad. what am i supposta do??
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Hunn,
Dont just explain show it call them everyday and check up on them u cnat just say things and automatically get your point across u gotta put effort into it and show it too..
-HOPE I HELPED
x3-Janee'
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Q: Well today I had a fight with 3 of my friends, It was about them saying I am tooo bossy and annoying. Well me and 1 of them are friends again, and another one is almost back to being my friend, but 1 just wont say sorry or anything, she is just acting like a b!tch!How can I be friends with her again, or should I just leve her bee?
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Don't waste ur time on ur dont beg her to be your friend either if she doesnt wanna be your friend then leave that bitch alone she wants YOU to beg her thats why shes being so stubborn.
-HOPE I HELPED:)
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Q: i have this friend and we are really good friends. I am a 15 year old guy and she is a 14 year old girl. She wants me but i feel if we go out and something happens between us that we might not be friends afterwards. I dont want that to happen. How can i tell her this without hurting her feelings?
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OH MY GOSH TELL HERT HOW U JUST TOLD US DUH!!!LOL. simply say . . ."i feel if we go out and something happens between us that we might not be friends afterwards and I dont want that to happen."
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Q: my frend been acting like a totel cow the last few weeks in school just leaving us and dropping us,talking bout us behind our back.i had a go at her and she just turned on the tears and made the people who she was hangng round her go against me now i dont know what i can do cos when her mate hugged her when she was crying she smirked at me.what can i do.?plse reply swn xx
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Well,
I think you should tell her about herself.Tell her that she's fake nad about how much she needs to stop being so childish and she needs to get a life and stop talking shit about people.And then just let her be and find someone new to hang out with.
-HOPE I HELPED!!!:)
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Q: I am a freshman in high school and i recently lost my virginity and i know to use protection but my question is can you only get pregnant when you are on your period? or only when u are not?
help if you i rate!!!!!!!!
~Blundered blonde~
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Dear Blunderes Blonde,
You can get pregnant either time whether you're on youyr period or not and its easier when you're on you period too because your eggs become more easier to fertilize.
-HOPE I HELPED!!!:)
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Q: My best friend dated my ex. It was a tough thing for me to see.They are totally over and you would think everything is fine. Wrong. I still like him. At least I think I still like him. I even have a boyfriend who I love very much. But then I read a note from my ex that was about me that was to my best friend when they were together, and now I feel sad. He liked her a lot. And I feel like a bitch. I need to know what is going on! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!
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Well you are just not over your ex and you are so not a bitch, your bestfriend is the bitch.And I think your ex still likes you too.But you have to get over your ex if you know that there is no chance of a next time, Because u have a boyfriend that you love.Like I had a similar situation and my ex boyfriend was like leading me on, like making me think he liked me but then he went out w/ my friend and now I am like over him and lovin it! Because I finally woke up and got over it and now I have a boyfriend and everything.SO U GOTTA GET OVER IT EVEN IF YOU DONT WANT TO, YOU GOT TO!!!
-HOPE I HELPED!:)
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Q: i used to have this friend named stephanie and she thinks she's all that so i stop being her friend.i told her that im not her friend but she can still talk to us but she asked if i can stop talking behind back but like i mean we arent friends anymore so i was like why?!?!then she said because it's not nice!i was like your not that nice either so and she said she didnt talk behind my back but i bet she did a million times and i really wAnt her to leave me alone but i dont know how im afraid i might make her cry!wat do i do?
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Well,
First of all you are so shallow and I dont think you dropped heras a friend because she thinks shes all that.I think you dropped her because shes more popular than you and now your getting like jealous.And if she doesnt say shit to or about you don do it to her.And whats the point of talking to her if you're not gonna be her friend and If you're gonna talk shit about her behind her back?Since you big and bad enough to talk shit behind her back talk it in her face!So I have no advice for you except to get a god damn life and grow the fuck up!
-HOPE I DIDN'T HELP!
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Q: hey there, some of you know that I answered a LOT of questions in this site. My friend doesnt have internet in her house so she asked me to ask for your opinion.
She likes her best guy friend, a lot, she cant stop thinking about him and she always gets upset when hes around other girls. I know he considers her as his sister, HE TOLD ME!
What she wants to do is let him realise she likes him more than a friend but I told her it would screw up everything! things would get awkward and stuff. So what she's asking is, should she tell him? Personally I dont think she should.
And she also asked why he hangs out and fools around with other girls instead of her?
I told her because you dont have the same interests and he thinks youre too calm (he told me). So do you agree with me or do you have another opinion?
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Well,
Maybe she should lighten up and let loose a little.Then tell him I mean either way they'll still be friends right?
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Q: i'm in middle school and we have the popular cheerleaders. Everyone tells me how thin and beautiful i am. And the popular girls aren't that pretty, but all the boys love them. I'm not a cheerleader but i think i'm just as good as those girls. why don't the boys notice me?
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ok... well u have a serious problem that i call innocence.... u need to turn into a slut like those cheerleaders... like start giving head and stuff like that then all the guys will line up to just talk to you
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Q: my friend name is Brittany she has a b.o. problem and ervery1 hates it. i dont kno wat to say ta her wit out hurtn' her feelns' but can somebody pleaze help me out thanks.
i rate very high.
signed confused friend.
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Dear Confused Friend,
Well if she reeks of b.o there are 3 simple answers for that....Dont be her friend anymore or very collectively approach her and say Im not trying to be mean or anything but can u please start putting on more deodorant or perfume,or tell her that everyones talking about how bad she smells and then she should get incouraged to start grooming herself properly if that doesn't work than theres pretty much nothing else you can do..... :(
-Janee'(SxyLilPoo47)
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bio
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My name Is Janee` I'm 17 years old. im in love & its the best. Just ask me a question, and i will try my best to answer with help :)
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Info
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Lawrenceville,Georgia Occupation: Student Age: 17 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: November 6, 2004 Answers: 169 Last Update: February 27, 2008 Visitors: 13273
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