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Friend problem.
Me and my x friend areant talking anymore!! We used to be best friends and tell everyone that we were cousins and stuff... and now in middle school were not talking and we always get in fights. What do I do...because Ill have dreams that were friends then I wake up relizing it was only a dream...its really upset! HELP?!
From girl with friend problems.
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♥ Forget about her..if she was your real friend she would stay friends with you NO MATTER WHAT!
x3-Janee'
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my friends were the same way! and i was the one in the middle of the fights. since i didn't want to be in the middle, i stoped talking to them for two weeks! Man i got calls!
but any ways sometimes you grow out of being friends, its natrual. and i go to junior high too and i'm best friends with the person who HATED me in the 5th grade, so what i'm saying is that you grow out of being friends, and i just think that u should try, really try hard to say ur sorry and tell her that you might just be growing away from her in the nicest way you can. ok?
Cass
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Did anything happen that would make her mad at you? Was it sudden, or did you just grow apart? Making the transition in middle school can be tough-all of a sudden there's lots of new classes, new teachers, and unfortunately, new friends. Ask some of her other friends if she badmouths you, or thinks about you, or what. Maybe your problem isn't as big as you think it is. Try talking to her and apologizing for whatever you did. Say you miss her and value her friendship, and you want her back. If all of this doesn't work, try talking to your mom. Moms are amazingly good at this kind of stuff. Good luck!
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You know what I had the same problem and I am in middle school. It depends why you guys got in a fights and stuff and what they were about. I really can't help you without that information but I know everyone might say this but its the truth you have to confront her because I haven't confronted my x friend and you know we all went on and then when you pass her in the hall and she just stares at you and you stare at her you it hurts to see her with someone else cause you would do everything together and it would just be really akward. Confront her before its to late you will be sorry. Hope this helps.
x0x0
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I know this is going to sound harsh but alot of times, you and you're friends will slowly separate as you mature and get older. It's just how things go. She'll get other friends and so will you. The same thing happened to me and one of my good friends so i'll tell you what i did. I waited!!! I told myself that eventually she'll talk to me once she cools down. Things might never be the same but at least you wont be fighting and that's important. So give her some time and space and she'll come around. Just have to be patient and you'll see. Good luck and hope i helped!!!
4Him, Disciple
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well you can talk to her just saying that you want to be her best friend again if she doesnt want to be your BEST friend you could always go for friend and work your way up to best friend.
hope i helped
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you and your friend need to get over whatever you've been fighting about and forget about it. if you really want to be friends again you should talk to her and ask her whats been goign on. -audreyy
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yah I had the same problem I was friends with this girl and some how it just went rong but we are friends now and its great to have her as a friend I think the best thing for you to do is just talk and see what went rong and who knows mabie shes feeling the same way so just see if mabie ya'll can start fresh it worked for me soo..
hope I helped!
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ask her what went wrong and see if yall can make up
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Talk to your friend and try to work things out. See what happen and what went wrong. Let her know how you feel. Explain that you guys should still be friends and try to start over. Hope this helps!
-Manda
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