Question Posted Friday September 30 2005, 12:42 pm
Well as you have guessed i got some bullshit going on and i am fixing to tell a few people off. I dont know who to trust or believe anymore. This one girl me and her used to be the best of friends and then another old friend of mine is back in the picture that i have already told off twice. Well the girl who is my friend i have sit here and not exactly trusted her for a couple of weeks now, and finally she asked if i trusted her and i said to a point and soon as she got the answer...i told her on the phone by the way...it got quiet for a minute and then she said well im going to get off here bye and hung up. So i said to myself ok i aint even going to call her back i will let her make the love she wants to talk then she can call but if not so be it. Another thing is she says everybody usually comes running back to her sometime later on and well me im not one who is going to run back to nobody if they want to talk or whatever they have to run back to me. And this girls friend i aint got nothing against her friend but from the sounds of it her friend dont know how much longer she can take it and i said i understand. And i think my fuse is fixing to blow cause of hearing to much bullshit. They are the only people i really talked to and that why i havent went off on the deep end yet, My question is do you think i should go ahead and tell her and whoever off or wait and see what happens?
EvilCheshire answered Friday September 30 2005, 3:46 pm: I'd tell them off, but do it in a civil manner. Try to be the bigger person in the conversation. They just can't keep walking all over you, you don't have to take that. Let them run back to you, but be like "Look, I'm not dealing with all this BS anymore if we're going to be friends." [ EvilCheshire's advice column | Ask EvilCheshire A Question ]
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