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Hey, So I screwed up really bad. I stole 3 pairs of pants from one of my friends. But then I gave them back, I said sorry and explained myself and everything. But now I don't feel like any of my friends like or trust me. What can I do to get our friendship back? PLEASE HELP!!
bitch noone wants to be friends with a someone who steals. Get over it. Your friendless. now cry to your self cause i don't wanna hear it.
ok...im like one of the most popular girls at school but my friend is known as a "almost geek" and i love her to death shes like my sister...and i have been so popular since elementary school and i cant give that up but i also cant give my bestfriend up...Why is this so hard for me to decide on?What should i do give up popularity or help my friend become popular 2? please help!!
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bitch i doubt that your all that populare. Plus who gives a fuck if your friend isn't. God i can tell by the way you wrote that you were whining. Being poplare is so hard @@. If you loved her and she was like a sister to you than you wouldn't care that she was a almost geek. Plus to add the more poplare you think you are the more people secretly hate you. don't you watch teen movies. So get over your self. If your friend is happy just the way she is then leave her be. You'll be a fat ass women in 12 years thinking about how cool and beautiful she was in her younger years.
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ohk well im sick of people hating me because im a "slut, hoe, whore, or skank" the thing is dat im really not any of that ... how can i make people see who i really am, or just get da image of being a hoe out of my life?
i rate high so please help
Thats what people think of me too.But the best way to erase that is to not care. they see i don't care anymore so they stop(well most of them). But if someone calls you a slut, or a hoe, don't get mad just say calmy "i'm not a hoe, nor am i a slut. i don't call you that so you shouldn't call me that". when they see it doesn't phase you. you'll see the rumers ride out.
And i really don't know you so i can't just be like "change the way you dress". And the image of a hoe is not how she dresses but how she acts and what she's done (sexually of course).
I wrote in about a month ago, asking for advice about a friend of mine that treated me badly (called me names, made me look stupid in front of others, etc). I finally confronted her about it, so now we don't talk anymore. I'm so much happier; but now I have a few more problems...
1) She always stares at me! And when I walk down the hallway (and she's in a classroom), she is always by the door (like she's waiting for me), but she never talks, she just stares. Is that normal, because it sort of freaks me out.
2) I REALLY want to go to a camp, but she might be going too, and I really don't want to run into her (because then she'd beg for forgiveness, and I don't think that she would change, which is why I didn't give her a second chance in the first place). Should I go or not, and why?
Thanks in advance! Sorry it's long, but I will rate!
Ok first of all you shouldn't let your ex-friend control your life.And your probalby thinking she's not controling my life. But think about it she is. Her staring at you and basicaly following you is holding you back. you want to go to that camp...then go!!!! If she beggs for forgiveness tell her stright up that she's full of it.She's out of your life so act like it. What was the point of breaking the friendship up with her if she's still ruining your life.
**PIXIE**
we'll call her leslie...we used to be best friends, until this year, i made a ton of new friends(being involved in a lot of stuff helps) and well she doesnt get involved in anything, and she complains about people all the time and talks trash about people, and is obsessed with really retarded things, like TPing is like her favorite thing and she keeps asking me to go TPing or spray painting with her, and well shes kinda childish...we're both 16 but im the only one who has the liscense and if we hang out i always have to drive and gas is really expensive, and overall shes just really annoying. how should i let her know that we're not really best friends anymore?
Wow. Um let me see. You can be like "we were once real cool. But now were growing apart. I'm growing up but you still seem to be a child. I don't want to seem cruel but I don't want to be friends with you anymore". It's short, simple anad too the point. I hoped I helped.
I have the bestest friends in the world. but i cant help but feel left out sometimes. i know im just been stupid half the time but it really bugs me. I know that having 3 best friends will always be hard but its so awful been left out. Like they will sleep at each others house etc. I told my friends about this and my other friend said sorry i just feel more close to her than i do to you. and that just made me upset becuase i have known them both longer than they have known each other. So i dont know what to do, they will think im trying to split them up or something which im not! so what can i do because i have already told them but they just carry on. thanks
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if you've told them that you feel left out and they act like it's no big deal then there not really being good friends to you. I mean it's rude to invite one friend to sleep over and not invite the other that's all i'm saying. But if they act closer to one another then they do to you then they must not be considering you as a best friend. Why don't you make new friends who won't leave you out of the loop.
wow, I don't really know what category to put this under, so I guess it works under friendship.. kinda. Anyway, I started cutting, I don't know why but I did. I don't want to, but it's really addicting.. 0.o so it's hard for me to stop. Only on of my friends knows and I just met him and I like him alot.. he cuts to, so I feel conferdable talking to him about this.. he doesn't do it so much anymore but I wonder if he is worried about me, I know my step brother is.. he knows to. Well he doesn't really know he just thinks I do it and he knows that I have a BiG possibatly of doing it.
When I look at my scares.. I cry, and I think 'is this really who I am?? is this really me??' cause I don't seem like this kinda girl who would do this.. I am real caring and nice and funny.. so I don't get it.. how do I stop.. do you have anything to tell me about what I wrote? just anything, please.. I wana stop.
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Cutting kills if you lofe your self then tyou'll stop.thats all i can say
Okay my friend is kind of lets say gothic... everyone picks on him at school and sometimes they get down right cruel. He has rocks, footballs, popcans(full),anything they can find thrown at him. He is also now afraid the go to school because of everything that goes on. Well anyways I was talking to him tonight and he told me that he almost lit a house on fire and he is thinking about homicide.. to the kids that are mean to him.. should I tell someone so no one is hurt... but then wouldn't he get mad at me.. I dont want him to get sent away cuz all his mom has left is him.. but wouldnt it be wrong not to tell anyone and have someone get killed.. plz help and fast before he does anything stupid.. thanks
i think you should atleast tell his mom of his plans. Think of it this way if he kills the kids he get's in mad troubel but if you tell his mom than he might just get talked to.since your his friend i think you should talk to him and tell him that theres no reason to go that fare and its totaly messed up how those kids are treating him, you could atleast report that to a teacher or the principel.
my best friend Kelleye is like 15 n i try to be there her as much i as i can...i hadn't seen her in like 3days till today (shes been in ISS) well i saw her n i kind of looked down at her arm n saw scares on her the 1st thing i did was grabed her arm n was like wtf is this...n she jst looked at me n left i grabed her n i was like Kelleye are u cutting ur self again...she jst looked at me n she jst walked away from me n i was like Kelleye come here...she wouldn't come back n i'm so scared...cuz i was talking to her ec-boyfriend n we think she might try n kill her self....i'm so scared for her...cuz shes knew to our skool...all her friends go to LHS n she goes to GHS w/ me...n i don't know wat to do...i jst need to know how i can help her?..
well you should talk to her ( if you can about what she's doing to her self). you can also tell her that theres so much to live for and that there are so many peopel that love and care for her. Cause she might feel like theres nothing to live for and when you think that theres nothing to live for whatever anyone says doesn't really matter so i think you should try to talk her out of her perdicament and if that doesn't work tell her parents maybe they can get her some perfessional help.
my best friend flirts with my boyfriend all the time and I think hes flirting back..She has a boyfrined tho..she flirts with everyone but its really bothering me..I dont wanna be like "I dont wanna fight but I've notice your flirting with my boyfriend" becuase shes like one of my best friends..what should I do? I dont wanna talk to her bout it but I want it to stop...what do I do..? =(
I'll rate high..
I.M.O. she's not a real friend if she flirts with your boyfriend. i think you should diffinitly tell her how you feel about her flirting with your boyfirend because trulley you shouldn't watch your so called friend flirting with your boyfirned and then seeing him flirt back.