Q: I was in a mental institution and I got really close to one of the staff members that worked there, she helped me in every way possible and I thought of her as my mom. Since I have been out it seems like everytime I call the hospital to talk to her, they make an excuse for me to NOT talk to her. Last night my sister looked her up on the internet and come to find out, she lives a mile away from me, and I have her home phone number, I mailed her a christmas card this morning to her home, but I dont know if I should actually call her at home. I miss her so much and she made such a big impact in my life, what do I do? I don't want her to think that I am like stalking her or anything! ???????

Q: Last night my best friends parents got into a car accident. Her dad had to spend the night in the hospital because he broke his ribs and lost a lot of blood. Her mom is doin ok, she has internal bruises but is taking everything well. The doctors thought that her dad was going to die, but he made it through the night. Ive never been in this sort of situation before. I dont know what to say or what to do. Please help, i really need to be there for my friend!!!!!!!

Q: I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 days now, and before that we were really close. Well, he's living with me now, and he's taking up the majority of my time. My parents are not okay with him staying here, and I'm grounded for them catching my boyfriend here a few times. So, I don't have much time for my friends, the only time I really have, is with my boyfriend, but that's only because he lives with me. I've tried talking to my friends, but it doesn't get anywhere. What should I do? Please help, I'll rate.

Q: theres this really cool guy that i met. i talk to him all the time and we talk for hours on end. i talk to him more then i talk to my boyfriend! my friend doesnt like my boy friend thou and i was talking to him the other day and he was like "y dont you dump him? you can do alot better" and then he said "and you can get a guy sooner then you think". he flirts with me alot. would you say he likes me? i dont really know if i like him thou.

Q: my "best friend" is changing sooo much. and every1 notices it. shes not very skinny (5ft 2 inches and 160 lbs) and she wears clothes taht r waaaay to tight on her. thats not the bad part tho. all my guy friends make fun of her b/c shes got "gramma tits" (the kind taht sag) and lets em hang out and she thinks shes hot. me and my other 2 best friends r considered the most popular grls in the grade. and i just won homecomin queen a few weeks ago and i could tell she wuz sooo jealous. and her bf just dumped her so all she duz is flirt and shes like "o i wuznt flirting i dont even no how to flirt" while twirling her hair. ughhh...i hate that! and she exaggerates EVERYTHIN!!! i just dont no wut to do. ive tried talkin and giving her clues that ppl dont really like who shes turned into but she duznt get it. she just says ugh y would they say that about me?? and its PISSING ME OFFFFFF!
plllzzzz help me out!!!!
*I NEED HELP!!

Q: ok...my very close friend told me that in her study hall class allll the guys wouldnt shut up bout my ass and my tits and thats all they talk about. and i no that 3 of them definitly like me...but she said the other 3 were sayin they do to. its not a big deal that their talkin bout me but they talk about me in front of me!! and thats kinda pissing me off. yea, their sayin good things but its just ew...lol. a lotta ppl tell me that i should b happy that im a "pimpette"but their all my close freinds and its just makin me kinda mad.

Q: What would you do if your boyfriend that you really like hates your best friend, and he cursed her out for no apparent reason? What would you do? This is my situation. please help. I will rate!

Q: Over the summer I got really close with my ex and his best friend. Me and my ex were thinking about getting back together, but it never happened. My ex's best friend started having feelings for me and everytime I would talk about my ex to him or get advice from him, he would act different and get quiet. I knew he didn't like me talking about him and I knew I couldn't talk to him about my ex anymore so when he asked questions or began to talk about him I either didn't say anything or I just lied about my feelings for my ex. Was this a good thing to not hurt my ex's friend? or was it not?

Q: well..okay. i like this guy and he has a gf..oh wait. it gets better..haha well he's always leading me on and hinting that he likes me.. well i talked to his gf and she said she isn't really interested in him anymore. well what do you guys think? should i tell his gf(my friend) that i have feelings for him and if she doesnt have feelings for him then she should let go? or whatever else you guys think! please help!

Q: Hi My name is Nicole, Well most of my friends do drugs and well i dont because i have head on my sholders.Anyways so i told my bestfriends boyfriend that she was still smoking and later on she came up to me and yelld at me. And well her and her bf broke up because she lied to him and i guess there was more to the story so yea.....anyways so now she got allof myfriends agenst me for some stupid reason and i dont even know what i did to the rest of them....Do you guys think i made the rigth choice by going to her boyfriend and not teacher because she would be grounded for the rest of her life if her parents found out..... so what can i do to get my friends back..
PLEASE HELP PLEASE

Q: Hi well like u know i lost prety much the friends that i was really close to before and well laitly i have had hard times of making new friends and well usually i'm really good about talking to people and introdusing my self to them but i just dont know what to do anymore.....what do you think is wrong with me..? and well i hope this site will help me to make some new girls/guy friends that i can talk to when i need some one to hear me out!

Q: I had a dream about my bestfriend (he's a guy) ok well i had a dream about my bestfiend this is what happened:I the dream we are like 17 or 18 still i high school.(but we really ar 13&14)we were on the phone then he asked me to come over and i did.Then we were in his apartment hanging out.Then this wome around the age of 40 came over.I openedthe doorand then he(my bestfriend) asks me to leave so i do but i come back and i see them 2 having sex!!And when i see him at school (in my dream the next day)im am so mad at im and i yell at him and push him but he is still there then h grabsmy shouldes and looks me in the eye.that all im cofued i dont know why i was s madcn you tell me what this might mean.thanx

Q: My friend moved out to Colorado a year ago. I'm 15/f and he was my best friend. Yesterday he told me he had sex for the first time. Which is totally different from when he lived here. He never would have done it. I understand that he changed because of the different people. I get that. But, its just the fact that sometimes, when I talk to him online, he's drunk. And alone. When he's sad, he tells me he WANTS to be drunk. I'm afraid I'm going to lose my best friend.
What should I do? Just get over it?

Q: Ok, I have this friend who I've known since like kindergarden, and she started to hang out with the people who I absolutly despise. They (I'm sure of) are using her, just to get back at me. Becasue they hate me to. So one of the girls she is haging out with, started to call me a Lesbian because me and my friend (who is a girl) were walking down the hallway locked arms (which I think is harmless). So my friend started to belive it. I thought she knew me well enough to know I'm not. I love boys I flirt with boys not girls! OMG she got me so mad. Well anyway the rumors stoped because I set everyone straight, but my firned is acting like nothing happened! She didn't even apoligesed to my face! How am I supposed to deal with such a back-staber!?. Plus I don't want to loose her as a friend. But right now, we are kinda on the edge of ending the friendship! PLEASE help!

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