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Circle of Friends... not anymore
Over the summer I got really close with my ex and his best friend. Me and my ex were thinking about getting back together, but it never happened. My ex's best friend started having feelings for me and everytime I would talk about my ex to him or get advice from him, he would act different and get quiet. I knew he didn't like me talking about him and I knew I couldn't talk to him about my ex anymore so when he asked questions or began to talk about him I either didn't say anything or I just lied about my feelings for my ex. Was this a good thing to not hurt my ex's friend? or was it not?
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it's generally a good idea to not hurt anyone, especially when they didn't do anything wrong.
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well u wanna be friends with him too right...so tell him you know im really sorry...but i like (you didnt mention his name) and i wanna be with him.. but i hope we can be friends...let me know how it works!
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Well..this is kind of a weird situation..you don't want to hurt your ex's friend but at the same time you don't want to lead him on. I think it would be best if you let him know that you still have feelings for your ex. If you don't he's just going to get lead on and will wind up being hurt in the end. Hey, who knows..maybe over time you'll feel the same as your ex's friend..but in the meantime you have to tell him so that he can move on..Hope I helped!
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