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My friend won't come to something with me because someone she doesn't like is going to be there. She just thinks he's weird so now she won't come. She doesn't even have to talk to him! How should I get her to come?
signed ♥ troubled friend ♥
Okay, obviously that friend is a jerk. Get closer with the guy, he may be one of your new best friends! But if you want to make her come comfront her, maybe she actually likes him and is too embaressed! You nevr know! But if she just blows you off she's not a true friend and isn't worth it! BUT if you want to stay friends her just forget about this! Hope I helped, sorry if my answer is confusing!
...i have a problem..me and my best friend..are extremly close..i mean, we own a beach house together..and she comes to my house every morning to go to school...but i have a problem..as the years have gone by..our friendship is really balencing on jelousy..im ALWAYS jelous of her..she gets the guys..and all..what can i do to talk to her? what should i do?
sencerly..
lost in jelously
What it probabky is is that your getting sick of her! Honestly, my friends and I do that too, you just need to take a little bit of free time away. Since you see her in the morning and whenever you go to your beach house, and prob. whenever you leave school, don't spend much time together other than that. Don't ignor her or anything, but don't invite her every palce you go. Get some new close friends and hang out all together including the girl your jealous of. Maybe she'll even get jealous of YOU! But that's not the importance of course! Also, if you want to tell her about taking the 'break from eachother' go ahead! All more right to ya'! If you need anymore help, I'm always here!
New Years Eve, aka tomorrow night is my friend Lisa's birthday. She is throwing a small party that starts at three thirty. My friend Jenny and I want to go to another party that is kind of late at night. Lisa never really articulated when her party was over and doesn't really seem to express interest in late night stuff. So me and Jenny are confused if it's rude to leave her party at 11 or so to go to the other one because we really, really, really don't want to hurt Lisa's feelings.
Ask her if it would be alright! She might even say, 'Oh, my party ends at 10 anyway!' you never know!
I'm 15/f in highschool and I know this girl who is pregnant. This isn't about wether its right or wrong, but, she's 15 also, and in my grade. I've known her since 4th grade(just about). She just found out she was pregnant, and I'm on good terms with her and everything, but were not best friends. Y'know? I was thinking I should go up to her and tell her that if she needs anything, I'd be there for her. Should I? Would it be inappropiate? -Sarah
That is a GREAT idea! Maybe to cheer her up you could bring her her favorite candy sence she'll be very very hungry! You only want whats best for her, she'll understand:)
I have this friend and she is really nice on weekend
But when we have school she id do mean to me and using bad words. She sometimes can be nice but not
all the time. Help me
Rachel
She is obviously too snobby to be your friend in person. Forget about her, and make some new friends! Make her know how it feels to be ignored, but if hse apolizes accept! :)
14/f my friend got mad at me because of something i said. i didnt mean for it to hurt her at all, and actually i dont think its rude in any way at all. i told her i was sorry and she refuses to talk to me now. what should i do
Try to make it up in baby steps. Invite her over, give her gifts for the holidays, give her her favorite candy, anything for her to smile. Hope I helped! :)
What are some really good movies to watch with friends..im 14/F?? Thanks
Some good ones to laugh are Shark Tale, it may be rated G but it's great and fun! Also, if any of your friends might have read any of the Lemony Snicket books the movie was alright, and Elf is another great one!
I just met a girl named Lindsay this year we're not very close but we still talk. We went to the consession stand and she just bought a water. I told her she needs to eat..but she says she doesn't eat lunch. She told me that she hasn't eaten lunch or breakfast since the 6th grade and we're in the 9th now. She also told me that she takes diet and energy pills over the counter..which is really bad. She wants to be 100lbs and she's like 120 right now and she's about 5'3 or something..which is healthy I guess. She also told me her parents don't notice or care..but I don't beleive that. I'm afraid this might lead to anorexia or some other serious disorder..but she said she wouldn't..again I don't beleive that. I don't know what to do..every time I tell her to change she's like "What are you my mom!?". What should I do?
You are totally right! First off, ask her why she wants to be that skinny? Find out the reason first! Also, tell a doctor, they might know whats going on, and maybe you can even get her to come into the doctors office! Obviously, something is worng with her, talk to someone who does have power. Good luck!
ok...my ex b/f told me yesterday that he liked me again..hes a year younger then me and i dont see him that much anymore..we are supposed to go to the movies together on friday, but i dont want it to be akward for him...i dont mind that much cause i dont like him like that, but i dont know what to tell him...how do i make him feel better?
When you're there,have a great time! But give off hints like saying 'I'm so glad we're FRIENDS again' or 'Being FRIENDS has been great' but hang out with him, don't go farther :)
those names are not the real names of people. i just made them up since you don't really want real names revealed. but anyway...
i'm gwen and my best friend in the whole world's name is sally. she has another best friend, molly. molly and sally have known eachother since they were born! their families are really close. they go on vacations together, they go to eachother's house practically everyday, and if you're wondering, they obviously live on the same street. they've been great --- no, BEST --- friends for a very, very long time. they've lived near eachother all their life, and they've gone to the same school all their life (i'm pretty sure). as you can see, they're incredibly close. aside from all that, they have lots of common likes and dislikes. one thing i know they both like is sports.
as for me, i don't really like sports. i do things like dance and lacrosse has always seemed really fun to me (though i've never tried it), but i know that i'm a real girly-girl at heart. anyway...
in 5th grade i, gwen, met sally. i knew we were perfect for eachother...because sometimes sally can have that really girly side of herself revealed. so we clicked just like that and became really really really good friends.
now molly isn't very happy about this; she LOVES sally and will never let her go. she doesn't believe in two best friends. she does like me as a friend, but she surely won't let me take sally away from her. so we grew apart a little. then over the summer, we remembered how great a team we were, and became...believe it or not...best friends. she even said so herself. then molly got a little frustrated, not mad, but frustrated. so she always said things like: "i know you have gwen, but you will always be my best friend and nobody can take that away. but i know that deep down you believe that, too..." and then molly and sally started to fight. the reason was that sally thought that molly was too controlling, she was always bossing sally around and telling her what to like or to not like. that's when sally really clinged onto me, trying to make molly feel bad. and she did! but molly said the same thing: "you'll always be my best friend."
today, molly and sally aren't fighting anymore. sally asked me for help in the problem and all the two slowly and carefully worked things out with my guidance. but in my heart i know that i really love sally, she's the greatest person, i can talk to her about absolutely everything, and she's just the perfect best friend that anybody could have. how am i supposed to keep in touch [stay best friends] with sally if she's too busy hanging out with molly?
Wow, you must really feel so confused! First off, get to be good friends with 'Molly'. Don't invite yourself over or anything, but invite her places, just as much as you do with 'Sally'. Then she'll she what a great person you are and let down the gaurd a little bit at a time! Before you know it, you, 'Molly', and 'Sally' will all be best friends together!
I am an 11 year old 6th grader and I have a really close friend. When we are together we have a bunch of fun. But at Recess she plays with other friends and ignores me like im not even there. She sometimes even pushes me out of the way and acts like a snob.And then when we are together we have sooo much fun. Does she think i am a loser and dont have friends? Should I talk to her? please help me!
Well, many people are like this. Some times you need to confront them or do the very oppisite! Sometimes the best thing to do is ignor her. Most of the time you guys are just getting tired of eachother! Take a break, but DO NOT IGNOR HER! Just don't be w. her 24/7 ya' know? But if she's at a friends house be friendly. If she ignors you still then @ whosevers house than just keep on being friendly. Don't ask 'Why did you...' just get off the subject! :)Good Luck!
i know its stupid but all my friends and other guys in my grade keep giving me crap about the guy i'm going out with. i love him so much. and he means the world to me. i hate it when people give me this crap though. and one of my friends that i thought was my friend did something that she "claims" she didn't do. its a long story, but i didn't think she'd do it. i don't know how to handle it. please help me. i need to know what to say to people when they give me this crap. thanks in advance. i rate high.
Just shoot back 'At least I have a boyfriend! And I love him!' or if thwy have a boyfriend say 'I can't control who I love'
I am an 11 year old 6th grader, and i have these 2 really close friends. I try my best to sastify them, I really do! And they are nice to me, but sometimes it just feels like we're not as close anymore! Like when they go places, they ask other people, but rarely me. Sometimes they tend to ignore me. It's not like they pretend they hear nothing when I talk, but they dont really listen to what I say. Don't take me the wrong way, here! They are GREAT friends, but how do i make our relationship better? One of my friends has a guy liking her, and she denies that she likes him but she spends waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more time talking to me about how "annoying" he is than to me about us. My other friend, i'm not sure if she likes me anymore. I constantly ask them if I am being mean or annoying, but they always say I am not. Please give me advice on how we can get a stronger relationship, how I can find out if they think I am being a bad friend and how to become a better friend. Thanks!!! :-D p.s. i already have many diaries, but they never help.
I am very flattered that you picked me to answer your question! I know exactly, I mean exactly, how you feel! Diaries don't work for me either!
First off, don't ask them if you're being annoying, that IS annoying :) Next, invite them over more, or if you see them all the time take a break from them. You might be getting tired of eachother! Don't totally ignor her, but trying getting some new friends. After a little bit, get a little par-tayyy going with your new friends and old. See if they still ignor you. I so just ask me again and I'll ill you up with more suggestions! :) Good Luck!