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okay i want a guys opinion or answer since its about a guy. how can a gurl tell if a guys likes them. like my ex boyfreind said we broke up b/c he thinks of me more as a bestfreind than a gurlfriend and he like is always looking at me and like teasing me and stuff like that but he has a g.f. and i have another freind that i likie but i cant tell if he likes me..there r 2. like a games and stuff we joke around and he puts his arm around me and stuff. HELP! i rate 5z for good answers!!! (link)
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Obviously there is such a thing as lingering feelings, but do realize that guys are different. There is differences in every guy. But it sounds like to me that he's just doing things with you that friends do. My ex and I are best friends and I am dating his friend and we act like that. I don't like him and he doesn't like me either. We are just playful people who just happen to act playful. So that's my opinion.
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i have this rly good friend. but now....shes different?? she always blackmails me. 'if you dont tell me this i'll tell everyone ....' and now shes like best friends with my worst enemy!! she always talks about my enemy behind her back even though shes friends with her. and i have a feeling she talks behind my back too. i dont really wanna loose a friend, but if i talk to her about it she woould just make up excuses or say something rude. 'oh? so what i blackmail u? at least im not ___ like u' shes also a spoiled brat! she wanted an ipod , a laptop, a flat screen tv, and she got it all. and she tells me every single day 'did you know i own 6 other houses?'
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This is what I call a toxic friend. You don't want to lose them because that creates tension. What you want to do is kind of keep it at an acquaintance level. You will still talk to her but you won't confide in her. Just normal friendly conversations should do it. And don't worry about her bragging, she'll get a dose of reality eventually that tells her people don't like people who brag. But I would serious try avoid talking to her for awhile until you can stop necessarily being "friends" with her, but more of on an okay level. I hope I helped.
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My friend, Allie, is my best friend..lol. but we once went on a field trip and we had to sit in an audatorium and she held out her hand as if we were to hold hands. :[ I dunno if she's a lezbian or not! She has had a boyfriend and she's dating this guy named Matt G. and its all weird. Cuz in chorus, we sing a song and we stand next to each other and the one part in the song says "come put your hand in mine, let's make the whole world shine" and she holds out her hand in front of me!!! (i kno its a retarded song) So..Does anyone think she's a lezbian? or am i wrong? (link)
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Hold on! She is not a lesbian just for hand-holding. Some girls are just affectionate and are not creeped out by touching the same sex. I'm sure she's just trying to be friendly. I do that sort of thing with my friends all the time. I even kiss them. I'm not a lesbian. The fact she has a b/f is clear proof that she is attracted to the opposite sex. You can be friendly with the same sex without having an actual attraction for them. Just talk to her about it. Don't make any assumptions, just tell her how you feel.
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Hey, you know Nelson Hardy right? Well he really likes me, and it's sad, because I really don't like him that way, he's sweet and all, but I just wouldn't ever go out with him. I know I should tell him, but I just can't get the guts. I went to a dance once with Amanda, and he asked me to dance. He's like, "I'm glad you said yes, cuz if you would have said no, I might not have ever asked anyone again." I felt so bad, now I'm afraid that if he asks me out and I say no, his self confidence will run even lower. What do I do? (link)
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People have to learn to accept rejection. He must come face-to-face with it as well. It's a part of life. He needs to find out. But you can help by doing it gently. People shouldn't be as hurt if you are truthful with them. Tell him exactly how you feel, he should understand.
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My friend always texts me on my phone! And we were on the phone w/ a boy the other nite! So yesterday i got this text from my friend saying that the boy we were talking to ( that i like ) said i was annoying! i was like no! She then texts me saying i was jk! I was like ooooo! SHe does it a lot and it is really annoying is it normal 4 me to be mad at her! cause she does it at least twice a day!
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It is perfectly fine to be mad at a friend. I've been friends with this one girl for like 9 yrs. She drives me absolutely nuts sometimes and I get really mad, but I'm still friends with her. And you should tell her how you feel. She should except your feelings, otherwise she's not worth being friends with. Rate Me!
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There is a girl I know and she thinks of me as a brother or a friend more than a boyfriend. But she used to like me as a boyfriend, yet I didn't see it. I feel really attached to her now through some stuff we have done(no, probly not what youre thinking). Do you think she will go back how she was? I don't want to lose her to someone else. What can I do to get her to like me more?
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A girl never really loses her feelings toward someone, they usually go to sleep. If the guy's a jerk then the feelings goes in to a long sleep, but since you guys are friends I'm guys the feelings are probably still there, they just haven't woken up yet. You should definately tell her that you don't want to lose her to another guy. That would definately help the feelings wake up.
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I have a friend and his really special for me, his a guy. And I want to help him , cause I care for him. He smoke weed. I keep telling him to stop but he wont. what should I tell him to stop. Please help me. (link)
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Well, it all depends on how you are approaching it. If you are just saying "stop it" then that's not good enough. Get some facts on what it does to him. Scare him out of it. If that doesn't work, tell him you care about him and don't want anything bad to happen to him. I hope I helped.
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my friend doesn't even know where he wants to go to college. he's a junior in high school and let's just say he's not doing all that well and his GPA is the proof of that. he doesn't seem to care about this school stuff but he's constantly getting stressed out. what should i do to help him in this situation?! or what should happen?! (link)
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Does he want to go to college? If not, then I'm afraid there is nothing you can do. You can't force someone to care about something, but I would bring it to his attention. Tell him you are worried about him. And offer him your help. Say you'll do what you can. That is all you can do.
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when ever my freind comes around me she gives me this look like she like "likes" me or something and i dont know how to tell her about it but shes freakin me out! what do i do?
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Oh God, not another homophobic person. Honestly, why would a look freak you out? I mean people do look at people, unless they are blind. I actually have a lesbian friend, and I shared a bed with her. It's no big thing. If they know you are straight they won't do anything. If you honestly think she's gay talk to her, but if you stop being friends with her because of it you are an idiot cuz lesbian friends are awesome.
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hi i'm 14 year old girl and my friend has this boyfriend who she's been dating for 11 months and he totally cheats on her! i;ve told her about it many times! finally she asked him about it when i told her he frenched one of my friends! after she talked to him about it she said it was ok cause he said it was only a friendship kiss cause she was down in the dumps! i told her that it was on the lips tounge and all and she was like i know! she believes EVERYTHING he says! wut should i do? she won't listen to me! can't just sit there and watch him cheat on her!help plz! (link)
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In situations like this you simply think Karma. What goes around comes around. One day he'll get caught and your friend will realize she needs to trust you more. Now you have two options. 1) You wait until he gets caught. That way you don't look like the nagging friend. 2) You can sit her down and use the relationship to sway her. Look her in the eyes and say I have seen him cheating, and if you don't believe me then it is your down-fall. Who are you going to believe, your best friend who has excepted you even when you were at your worst or your b/f who doesn't plan on being serious with you. I mean he'll have to date you for 4 more years until you are legally married. So, I think our relationship will last longer and has lasted longer than you and him.
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