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Hey guys its Taylor... aka T Fro! hah well i love giving people advice and im sure i know a thing or two about it so ask me anything and i will give you my best answer!!

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Okay, so basically my friends think that I can't keep a secret. The ironic thing is that I have NEVER told anyone about their secrets. I mean I talk a lot but it's not about things that are suppose to be hush hush. It kinda obivous stuff like tests coming up or that new tv show and stuff. Yet when it comes to telling secrets, they always exclude me saying that I'm going to tell someone about their secrets. GAh! What do I do?

Try talking to your friends in a "serious talk"
tell them that you have -never- told a secret and ask them why they are excluding you from these. And if they still think that you are not trustworthy, ask them to give you reasons on why they hide things from you!
i hope this helps

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I have a friend who cant keep her mouth shut! She tells everything I say and I always try to remember tp tell her stuff but sometimes i am just itcing to tell someone. I really wanna be her friend but then again I dont NEED her! any suggestions? 5 points for anyone who helps! xoxo

Dont tell her! She doesnt need to know! If she doesnt keep her mouth shut, then dont tell her! The best way to get your secrets out is writing in a journal! You can write everything in it and no one will go tell everyone!! Unless you show some one. Well i hope this helps! xoxo BLONDE911

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My friend is moving away.... and my other friend was gonna have a party for her but i didnt no it was gonna be a surprise so i kinda told her... now all of my friends are mad at me and no one wants to be my friend! i was gonna go to this party but 4 of the girls who are mad at me will be there so now im not going i dont even wanna go to school on monday bc everyone will be mean to me and i have no friends bc none of them wanna talk to me or anything and i dont no wat to do to make them be my friends again!

When you get to school, just tell them how bad you feel and keep apologizing until they get the point! Your only human and no one is perfect! All of us make mistakes! So my advice is just to apologize and explain to them what happens.. or you can call all of them and explain and tell them how sorry and stuff so it wont be so akward for school tommorow! I hope this helps!
xoxo BLONDE911

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ok i used to be really good friends with this girl across my street but we havent talked in forever and i wanna be her friend again but im afraid she might not wanna be mine.....any ideas?

Omg im soo sorry! i thought i asnwered you along time ago but i gues i didnt! Ok well if this is late im so so so sorry!!!
Ok wel this happened to me too. I just got the guts to go over there and talk to her, after awhile i noticed i had talk to her for the whole day!!!! Ever since then we couldnt be torn apart if ya tried! So the point is, all you need to do is get some guts and just go for it and talk to her. Say hey *name* i havent talk to you in soo long, and i feel really bad. We have alot of catching up to do.< it doesnt have to be that cheesy but hey! lol. The worst senario is that she wont like you and thats that.
i hope this helps and im soo sorry this is late!
-BLONDE911

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ELTAYLORENTA..(haha..its cody's word!)..you are SoOo cool!! i love you..your soo good at polevaulting!! i cant wait until the meet tomorrow! love ya!
--becca

omg thanx! i love you 2!!!! Hah and yeah your the BEST at polevaulting and your the coolest person ON THIS EARTH!!!!!!!!!!! :) Ill talk to ya lata!
xoxo-RENFRO :)

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ok i asked about the games for my party earlier..and if they were too babyish..most of you said no, so thats a good sign. My next question is how many games per hour should i have? i dont want to overwhelm everyone with games..should it be once every half hour? every hour? thanks you guys

Just play the games when the party gets down or when you get sick of something. Dont have schedules for a party i mean, come on, they just wanna have fun! It will be fun when you just pop up and say hey lets play.......
hopes this helps
xoxo BLONDE911

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Hey. My best friend has been ignoring me lately and I don't know what I should do. On her website she shows who shes talking to and shes talking to alot of people and being all happy. But when we talk its just not the same and she barely says anything, if anything at all. Please help!

This is common, the only way is to hang out with your other friends. Dont let her know you care! Just act like nothing is happening between you. If you really care you have to call her and tell her whats up, she might not even realize shes leaving you out! I hope this helps!
xoxo BLONDE911
if i confused you in any way just IM me *its in my column*

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Hi im vanessa. im 14 years old and i am in 8th grade in ohio. My qwestion is that i dont really have any frends in my school. school will be over in 3 monthes so im kinda happy. all my friends go to the other school acadamies so i see them on the weekends. i dread going to school without friends. sicne the year is almost over should i just try to get through it? i will be seeing my other friends from the other school in my secondary school (highschool) so i am excited. Help?

omg the more friends the better! I love friends! there the coolest thing in the world! Just see some one that you thought was nice and start a conversation, do that with everyone! Be that person that everyone will remember who was nice!
Even if you dont be best friends with them, you wont dread the last 3 months. Plus its a character builder thing. I hope this helps!
xoxo BLONDE911

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so im planning a sweet 16 and i made a guest list and came up with 66 people so far. This was without crossing off the "questionables." what i mean by that is those people who you dont really talk to..but you dont hate either..and the couple of people who had a sweet 1 in september but didnt invite you..and now it seems we are a little more friendly. Hope i didnt confuse you guys..any tips on what to base who you invite on? anyone ever been in my place before? how did you decide who to cross off? i dont usually talk to the "gangsta" group..but i figure inviting them would spice my party up..is this the wrong idea? i need help lol so dont be afraid to critisize
5's for everyone who isnt obnoxious

sounds really fun! umm i would go with how much money your planning on to spend. If i was like super rich i would invite everyone i liked. If ya dont care of the money, the more people the better your liked! :) I would definitly invite my closest friends. Im not really familiar with the *gangsta* group but from what i heard there pretty harsh. So i would just be careful who i would invite. For instance if i guy is known for lets say *bad* things, i wouldnt invite him. lol well have a GREAT sweet 16
-xoxo BLONDE911

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13/F Going On 14 =)
Okay...my so called best friend Vallorie,Hannah,and Becca...in school the other day ditched me! I always wait for them in classes but i was walking with them and they just ran the other way. It was so sad. I dont know why they did it but im very confused. So i didnt see them the rest of the day. We are supposed to have an easter party tommorow but i dont know what i am going to do? HeLp Me tY =)
~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~Kristie*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~

Its simple, all you need to do is ask them. You never know what they are up to but i bet its not a big deal. Maybe just act cool about it like it never happened, but if they do it again, you need to call them and ask them whats their deal. I hope it works out :)
xoxo-BLONDE911

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i went on a cruise this summer and met a lot of new friends and still keep in touch with a few. but heres the thing, my friends at home get really mad if i even mention them. i dont think its because they are jealous because they are always exclusive to me and never have me over, ect. they also get mad if talk about a boy a like. its not really them getting mad, they just role they're eyes or sigh or look like really annoyed. i constantly feel like i have to watch what i say or they'll get mad at me. what shoudl i do?!

i think they are jealous. Next time they roll their eyes ask them why they always do that. Or you can just call them and tell them whats up and exactly what you said in your question. If they keep it up, just keep calling them and sooner or later they will get the message that you wont let them treat you like this. I hope this helps! xoxo BLONDE911

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Me and my friends want to see The Ring 2. Well, originally I told my friend Lauren that her, Sarah and I could go. Recently Sarah and I have been hanging out a lot, with another girl, Krystal. I don't know who I want to go with. I would just invite both, but it's not that easy. Lauren is your typical preppy, VERY girly girl. Krystal is more like goth. As much as I hate labels, that's basically the only way to put it. Sometimes I wonder how Lauren and I get along.

Honestly, I'd rather go with Sarah and Krystal. But I just don't know what to say to Lauren, because I think she really wants to go with us. But Sarah and I both kinda get annoyed with her sometimes.

Who should I go with?! Sorry if it's long =(..

Maybe go with just one friend. Thats always fun! Try going with just one friend or seeing the movie twice with each groups. Its the only way to see it with out a fight, anyways, how do you know they dont get along? movies are in rows so they are basicly divided, you probably sit in the middle when everyone is on each side of you!!

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I have a friend and she bosses me around. Sometimes she talks to me in a mean way. Once she asked my why I was talking in a negative voice. I hate that because she acts like she is my mom. I not sure if I even want to be her friend any more. Right now she is one of my best friends. I need a wasy to tell her with out actualy hurting her feeling or making her mad at me. How should I tell her?
Signed,
Angry but sad

Wow, I think alot of people have this type of friend! First try to call her and tell her whats up and how you think she is treating you. This might work for a little bit and then it will come back. If it doesnt work, Try telling her in person, have a talk with her 1 on 1 and just tell her the blunt truth. Tell her if she keeps treating you like this then maybe its not a good idea to be friends. Hope it works out
xoxo BLONDE911

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Me and my friends, (L), (S), and (E) are planning to perform in a lipsync. The song (S) picked out is highly innapropriate!! We all agree except her. We still haven't told her. We don't want to hurt her so what do we do?? I rate high!!!

List all the songs you rather have and let your friends agree the ones you want. If S doesnt like it then you have to tell the truth that her song is inapropiate. You better be safe than sorry. Hope this helps and isnt confusing! If ya want to you can IM me on renfro sayS. xoxo BLONDE911

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i used to have this friend named stephanie and she thinks she's all that so i stop being her friend.i told her that im not her friend but she can still talk to us but she asked if i can stop talking behind back but like i mean we arent friends anymore so i was like why?!?!then she said because it's not nice!i was like your not that nice either so and she said she didnt talk behind my back but i bet she did a million times and i really wAnt her to leave me alone but i dont know how im afraid i might make her cry!wat do i do?

Ok well first of all it is mean to talk behind someones back and people are going to remember that and are going to hate you. Tell stephanie your sorry and tell her the truth about how you feel and all that. Seriously, thats the worst thing you can do is talk behind someones back. If you want to be that kind of person and be mean go ahead but it will ruin your repetation if you do. If you nice everyone will like you if your not then your screwed and its hard to make up to that.
Hope this cleared your mind! sorry im harsh, but its the truth! xoxo BLONDE911

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When I'm on my piriod, my friends ask me to do something, and I always say no, becuase well, I'm embarrassed that my blood is going to leek through. So my friends get all mad at me becuase, well I don't tell them why, but I really don't want to tell them that I am on my period.. what do I do so that they won't be mad at me when I say I can't??

You cant be embarrased, all girls go through this so you shouldnt be embarrased. If you have a tampon your ok. So if you wear one then go out and have fun and dont worry. Keep some spares in your purse incase if you need them. If you need any questions on it just go to www.beinggirl.com it gives you alot of info you probably need. So if you dont wear a tampon i would advise you to wear one. So tell your friends and if your not ready just tell them and they will understand! good luck! xoxo BLONDE911

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Well my bestfriend and i are fighting a lot. i am moving now and i don't want to leave on a bad notice. She said to me "i don't care if you are moving.' That really hurt my feelings what should i do
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You need to sit down with her and tell her that really hurt your feelings. Tell her you dont want to leave with us fighting. Tell her how you feel and tell or just "say" how much you will miss her and how sorry you are. I hope this all works out with yall. Remember you will feel so guilty if you leave and you are still fighting w/ her. Good luck with your friend and moving! xoxo BLONDE911

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My friend just told me that my other two friends were knocked down by a car earlier today. One of them is one of my best friends, my friend says she didn't get badly hurt but I'm still worried. Her mobile phone is switched off and no one is answering her home phone. I'm quite worried, I want to check that she is definitely okay but I can't get hold of her. What should I do?

Get all the info and see what happened. call her house and ask if shes ok. If she is in the hospital, go visit her. Maybe get her a card a little present for her. If you see her try not to act scared so she wont get scared and tell her she will be ok. I Hope she gets better! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911

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i think my best friend is either bulemic or anorexic. she weighs about 119 pounds, wears a size 0 jeans and she constantly goes on about how shes fat. SHE IS NOT AT ALL. she graphs her weight on a chart (i saw it) and it's REALLY starting to scare me. what should i do? talk to somebody about it, talk to her...? please help!!

This is a scary suituation. You need to talk to her one on one and tell her she is not fat and you are scared something bad is going to happen to her. Tell her if you ever NEEDED to lose weight that you are their for her and you got her back.

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ok my friend is really mad at me because we joke around and she took a joke personly so her mom called my mom and her mom told my mom wat i said.now im really in a bad situation /wat shud i do???should i joke around anymore???

sincerly,
xxmystary-girlxx

You should call her and tell her your really sorry and didnt mean for her to take it like that. Tell her you wont make any more jokes like that. If her mom answers and is really mean or something, tell her your calling to appologize. Try not to joke around like that any more or just think before you say anything to her. Its happened to everyone! I hope everything works out! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911

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