Heyy Everyone! My Name is Samantha Lynn. I'm 13 years old. I wouyld like to be a Physcologist in the fiture so I can help people out with their problems so I'm starting with Advicenators! Ask me a question and you can garentee it will be answered! You can IM me on GaudQueen490 or email me at Batontwirlers_26@yahoo.com if you don't want it to appear in my coulum....Heres a little bit about me...I LOVE Music! I'm absolutly obsessed with Elvis Presley! I love Green Day, All American Rejects, Simple Plan, Fallout Boy, and many others! My favorite type of music is rock but i also enjoy rap, rock n' roll, a little country, a little gospel (( only Elvis Presley gospel )), and that's all. I'm in seventh grade and I do pretty well in school... I'm in gifted but I have no common sense haha...I LOVE my friends! theyre so frickin awesome... Kori, Jordan (( H )), Chelsey, Acacia, Taylor, Rachel, Karissa, Holly, Meghan, Emily, Domenique, Chelsea, Jordan (( B )), Ian, Eric, Joanna, Allyson, Erika, Joe, Tyler, Mike, Destinie, Rachel, Lindsay, Sabrina, Shelby, Maria, Courtney, Miranda, Jessika, Jessica, and many others
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I brought my friend to church with me, becuase i talk about all these people, my "best friends" at church, so i wanted her to meet them. When we walk in, all of my "best friends ever" completly ignore us, even while im introducing them. It takes the friend that i brought to come up to me and say "did i do something wrong?!" before i completly loose it. I start crying and just break down. then, my "best friends" get all concerned, and even more concerned when i ignore them. what do you think i should do about them? (link)
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I think you should ask them what is going on or at least one of them (( the one you can trust the most )) . If that doesn't work then you should try not talking to them for a while and see how they like it.
Hope I Helped! =)
-Samantha Lynn
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My best friend likes me and says he is in love with me and i dont know what to do. I like him but just as a friend even a brother. i dont know what to do and its hard because i dont want things to change between us. so can anyone help me? (link)
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Well maybe you should explain to him how you feel. This will straighten him out and he'll come to realize that he can't have you as more than a friend. If you do this though, you may not be as close but don't worry! You'll become close again after time goes by!
Hope I Helped! =)
- Samantha Lynn ♥
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ok so me and a friend are really upset and tuesday shes in my lunch and i sit with her but i dont want to because im mad i dont have anyone else to sit with b/c everyone else im friends w/ either eats lunch w/ her too or got there lunch changed to the one after ours. anyways what should i do? plz help! (link)
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Maybe you should sit with those people but not beside your friend. If not that then you could ask one of your friends that sits with her to go sit somewhere else with you...
Hope I Helped! =)
-Samantha Lynn &hearts
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my "friend" is being a b**** to me i was just walkin down the hall and with her and my other friend and i was talkin about sumthing and right in the middle of it she says: "shut up no one likes you!" i was flabberghasted and then i pushed her cuz i was mad and she didnt really get it and i really wanted to call her a fucking bitch but it was too late for me to say anything then she walked off. and i dont get why she is saying things like that too me i always make her laugh and we have fun together and then she says sumthin like that it just doesnt make any sense to me...so wat should i do? she really shouldnt treat me this way but i still want to be her friend cuz we have been friends for a really long time...
*hurt*
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okay this happens to people a lot...the next time she says somethingjust stop her and say WHAT THE HECK IS YOUR PROBLEM!? She'll then realize that his has been bugging you and you can see why she has been doing it.
Hope I Helped!! Happy Holidays!
-Samantha Lynn ♥
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Hey Guys, I have a HUGE Problem, I know you guys are probably gonna say "You shouldn't care what people thinks!". Well I need to answer that. I can't help it. It all started when Me and My best friend Amber. We Arn't Like That (Lesbian). She has a Boyfriend and yeah I am Single. We act like sisters though. We 'Sometimes' share a drink (pop, etc.). What I mean by that is. She could be drinking something and then I would ask her if I could have a drink and I would take a drink. Now everyone thinks I'm a Lesbain!! What Can I do To Get Them To Shut Up? I'm Not That WAY!!!!! (link)
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well if you like someone maybe you should try asking them out but if you're shy that might be a problem...whoever is calling you a lesbian you should try to tell them who you like or you should prove it to them somehow. You should really think about asking someone out though
Hope I Helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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Me and my friend are very close and we have been friends since first grade I get jealous when she hangs out with other people but yet I want to and I do hang out with other people. I feel bad and want to stop being like jealous of her having other friends. Please help me. Oh and I'll rate and give comments.
xoxpamela (link)
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well maybe she just wants other friends...thats not saying she doesnt want to hang out with you though...maybe you should try the same and become friends with other people...you wont be as jealous that way...Hope I Helped! =)
♥Samantha Lynn ♥
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(I'm 16 and a girl) Okay three years okay I dated this guy for almost a year. Well ever since we dated and broke up my friend Jon will say stuff about my exboyfriend to make me mad. Jon would say stuff about him atleast 2 times a week last year. Does anyone have an Idea of why he is doing this? (link)
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maybe he's jeaous...maybe he really likes you and just wants to annoy you and doesnt want you to know he likes you so he makes fun of your ex boyfriend. He could also just be trying to annoy you or to get you mad just to play around...if you dont like it then tell him to stop or think of a way to get him back...Hope I Helped =)
Samantha Lynn
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What does it mean to "fall for someone" i get the general idea but could anyone explain it better for me please? thanks i'd appreciate it! (link)
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it simply means to fall in love with someone or be in love with someone...thats all .... Hope I helped =)
Samantha Lynn
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ok,me (Amy, 13), and a friend just got over a fight (her friends who are very popular, said that I said some stuff about her, but I really didn't say it and her friends said she shouldn't be my friend because they don't like me and so she broke the friendship) well we got over it about a month ago and the fight lasted for about 2 months. Since then she apoligized and said she didn't know who she was without me being her friend, we used to be the best of friends but ever since that fight, even though she apoligized, we don't talk as often and aren't as good of friends anymore. I don't know why since she was the one who apoligized and wanted to be best friends agian, but now she doesn't talk to me that often, I am willing to be best friends agian, too.
Please help me,
Amy (link)
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Well maybe she isnt completly over it even though she said sorry...give her some space and time and shell come around....Hope I helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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My best friend, well, both of us, have dealt with death alot in the past year. and now her mom is incredibly sick! i dont know how to help her or give her advice! i'm so scared, for the both of us,..and her mom is someone that i'm really close to as well and when she dies, my best friend is gonna need me but i dont know what to say,...anybody got any idea?! i need them ASAP
GIVE ME SMARTASS ANSWER, YOU'LL GO TO HELL I SWEAR! (link)
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Just be around her a lot but leave her some space whenever she needs it...let her know that youre there for her anytime she needs someone to talk to...i think shes gonna need you and i mean really need you so drop what youre doing and help her out ...hope I helped...my deepest sympathy
Samantha Lynn
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My friend played a joke on me and I know she was kidding..but I took it too seriously.I yelled at her in class..and then she was trying to talk to me after school but I ignored her and got in my car..I feel so horrible but I'm still mad..What should I do? (link)
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thank of an AWESOME prank and prank her back!
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I write poems about a lot of thoughts that go on in my head. I want to share them with my friends, but I know if they don't appreciate them I will feel horrible. Once my friend found my journal filled with poems and she was just like, "Hmm. Do these all mean something to you?" and she just gave the idea of my poems were crap, which I know they aren't. I guess what I am asking is what should I say to my friends to make them understand how important these are to me? (link)
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well i keep my poetry life pretty much secret because i love writing poems too but if one of my friends would ask me about them and tell me it was dumb i would just say its my way of letting out my anger or sadness and to get through things like a broken heart and stuff so just stay out of it unless you can appriciate it...just say something like that
Good Luck! Hope I Helped!=)
- Samantha Lynn
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me and my friend were best-friends since we were 4. we're 13 now and since we were 9 she's been hanging around with other people at lunch time.It didn't bother me that much .She became way more popular but it was like nothing had changed outside of school.When we 1st went into 1st year in secondary school (in Ireland)and i was really happy that she starterd hanging out with me in school again.Now we're in 2nd year and we don't see each-other outside school that much and we don't hang out in school and we're only in three classes together.she still talks to me like everything is fine.She doesn't sit beside me in two of the classes unless her friends aren't there!Sheonly sometimes sits beside me in the other class but lately she hasn't even been doing that!I think she's using me but if I tell her then she might not be my friend at all.What should I do?HELP!!!P.S. I'm a thirteen year old girl. (link)
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im not sure about this but i think you should just let me go...i mean apparently shes making new friends so you should probably do the same but still keep in touch with her...the reason why im saying this is because if you tell her that you two are growing apart all the time then it will speed up the process because shell snd up getting annoyed or mad...maybe if you dont wanna do that you can schedule a lot of activities like you could go to the movies on friday or somewhere else
Good Luck! I hope that I Helped! =)
-Samantha Lynn
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hey guys! please help me, i don't know what to do about my best friend. she has been really depressed and recently keeps bringing up how she wants to die. i know she won't kill herself but she DOES need help. please give me advice.... help me with what to tell her, inspirational quotes... anything! thank you so much for all of your help i appreciate it so much! (link)
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Okay, you need to talk to her rly quick! if my friends tell me they want to die this is what i do....first find out the reason and then tell them not to worry about it! tell them how much you love them and how much EVERYONE would miss them if they died...dont let them commit suicide...tell them that they just have to forget about it and MAKE SURE they know that you are DEFINATLY there for them! If worse comes to worse, you have to tell their parents...sure theyd be rly mad but would you rather have them die?
Good Luck!!! I Hope I helped bunches!!! =)
-Samantha Lynn
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It's about a girl. What else? The backround story; we've been in the same insanely close group of friends since 2nd grade. I haven't liked her for THAT long. Some point last year I had one of those "whoa..." moments, and realized how I felt about her. I never really asked her out, per se, but at one point I had explained how I felt, blah blah blah, she didn't feel the same way but still loved me as a friend, etc.
Not that long ago I did ask her out, again, to find the same results. I only did it because she had been acting a little differently. "Interested", I suppose. I'm not too torn up about it, I moved on before and can do it again. But should I ever bother with asking her out again? Twice seems like enough, I mean, should I just wait for the impossibility of her "coming around" (while considering other girls, of course) ? (link)
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Hmm...this one is tough but try to move on...if you get more interseted in someone else youll forget about her! I think shes tryin to make it pretty clear she just wants to be friends...
Hope I Helped! =)
- Samantha Lynn
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i moved from my city(we'll call it A),to a town(call it B) and im really sad.I moved to B in the middle of august last year.Well,last year in B i had a lot of friends.This year,everyone HATES me for some reason.I've NEVER liked B.It was gay..and i know i changed from when i lived in A,and that makes me really sad.I want to move back to A soo bad,because i had all my friends that actually liked me there.But the more i live in B,the farther apart i feel i am getting from my A friends.I also have this..weird jealousy of my friends in A because i live in B.I've been crying my eyes out,and im not eating well,thinking of how bad my life is in B and how good it was in A.Im a big mess,and the truth is i dont want any friends in B.Im stressed and i dont know what to do.If the prices go down in A,we'll move back {{Maybe}}.And i'll be so happy. I just want to move back to A and forget i even moved to B.Here,i feel like i will get no where in my life,no dreams,just..an avrage person.I really want to move back,where my dreams are.But how can i cope with this siuation for the time being that i live in B? (link)
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well just think about what you have to look forward to someday in A! I mean enjoy this place now because if you really set your mind on it, someday youll move back! It helps with friends so really try to make good friends! maybe your not going for the right people, get involved in things and try to make friends there....itll make life a lot easier!
Hope I Helped! =)
- Samantha Lynn
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ok, well theres this guy and i just met him at the beginning of the school year. we are really good friends and he has a girl friend. he's always flirting with me and i know we are just play flirting but would these kind of be REAL flirting too? today in social studies we were watching a movie (he sits behind me) and he was playing w/my hair... then my hands were cold so he "held my hand" b/c his were warm... he wanted me to move my seat in Math so i could sit next to him... but other times it seems like he's ignoring me completely... (not when his g/f around but he does when she is too) like regular times... (link)
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i sense some serious flirting girl! the only prob is...well he has a gf...if i were you id just keep it back till they break up and then wait like 2 or 3 weeks then tell him how you feel if you really like him! and if you dont like him just set him straight right away!
Hope I Helped =)
-Samantha Lynn
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thnx in advance for answering this.. i rate high.. 15/f... well i like my really good frend... and im getting mixed signals from him.. and i want to know how you tell if one of your frend likes you.. PLEASE HELP.. ILL RATE HIGH!!! (link)
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hmm...well these situations are very hard...I liked one of my friends before...just tell him! Maybe instead of wanting to be friends he used that excuse just to hang out with you! (( I use that excuse a lot =) )) but the only bad thing is he could say he just wants to be friends and thats the hard part...you need to say something like " I know were just friends but...i really like you and cant stand JUST being friends!" something like that should get them! =)
Good Luck Hun! Hope I helped! =)
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ok my best friend (hes a guy) was hangin out with 2 of his friends. he said to his friends "swear to god not to tell anyone but me and (my name) banged last night" and they believed him! and they were aaskin him a whole bunch of questions and he didnt even bother to say he was just kidding. Why would he tell them that when nothing would ever happen between us? he eventually told them that he was just kidding but rumors coulda started off of that! why would he tell them that though when it wasnt even true? (link)
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Guys are idiots...they always wanna lie and brag...it sux!!! Just set people straight if they start talkin ! Even if they do start talkin, Dont Listen! Dont worry hun, basically the same thing happened to me and that is what I did!
Hope I helped =)
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