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It's about a girl. What else? The backround story; we've been in the same insanely close group of friends since 2nd grade. I haven't liked her for THAT long. Some point last year I had one of those "whoa..." moments, and realized how I felt about her. I never really asked her out, per se, but at one point I had explained how I felt, blah blah blah, she didn't feel the same way but still loved me as a friend, etc.
Not that long ago I did ask her out, again, to find the same results. I only did it because she had been acting a little differently. "Interested", I suppose. I'm not too torn up about it, I moved on before and can do it again. But should I ever bother with asking her out again? Twice seems like enough, I mean, should I just wait for the impossibility of her "coming around" (while considering other girls, of course) ?
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Hmm...this one is tough but try to move on...if you get more interseted in someone else youll forget about her! I think shes tryin to make it pretty clear she just wants to be friends...
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Don't worry about it unless she starts giving signs that she likes you. Believe me, you will be able to tell. It won't win her affection if you ask her out all the time when she dosen't like you. You could lose what you DO have. A great friendship.
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ive seen my friends in this situation before..and my opinion is you should move on to better things. there are lots of other girls out there who probably find you attractive and want to get to know you..so get out there and mingle with the ladies and forget this girl (in the romantic sense) Dont wait around for her, its the worst thing you can do because your missing out on so much. If she comes around in the future, then yeah go for it..but you persued it and she turned you down..so i would move on.
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Mabye you could try a different approach...try acting like your not interested or mabye try acting interested in another girl. If that doesnt work then mabye you could just sit her down and explain, again, that you really really like her and at least want to give it a chance, that it won't ruin your friendship, and that you don't wnat to go through life without knowning what would have happened if you had the guts to ask her out, again. Asking her out only shows that you care enough to keep asking her out.
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Good luck!
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