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is it ok if your boyfriend looks at porn? i thought it was, like i had nothing wrong with it. but today i found out that he sent a message to some girl on myspace asking for pictures of her "down below" is this ok? should i say something to him about it? what should i do? it was some girl that was not from around here.. and you know how like there's a lot of girls on myspace that only have like naughty pictures on there? it was one of those girls. i don't know what to think :-/
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the thing is guys look at porn i dont think it should bother you too much unless he becomes an addict or something and it starts to affect your relationship its really up to you to decide if its ok if he looks at porn if you dont like ther fact that he does tell him guys are just strange like that but then again its one thing when hes on websites its a totally different when he seeks someone out on myspace
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People have different attitudes to porn and it's place within relationships, so I think it's something you have to agree between you and your partner. The bottom line is, if it's making you uncomfortable, it's healthy to talk about it with your boyfriend and set up some guidelines that work for you both, such as saying that you don't mind him looking at some images, but you do mind him seeking out things from a particular girl who he's also conversing with. Decide what you want to say and where you want to the lines to be drawn before you talk to him about it: it may well be a touchy subject for him and you want to have a sensible discussion about what is acceptable and what isn't rather than a row where accusations are thrown about, so try to stay calm and stick to your point. Good luck.
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I adore porn, and watching it with my significant other is a huge turn-on. However, the fact that he's looking for pictures of girls he's talking to online is a bit creepy - but I wouldn't dump him for it. However, I'm not you.
If it's truly making you uncomfortable, I'd ask him about it - but he might get defensive & angry with you, be warned.
Remember, though - it's completely healthy for guys to be interested in porn.
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Okay, personally I think it is not bad if your boyfriend looks at porn. I wouldn't care. I'd rent porn movies and watch them with him. But if I found out he was actually asking girls for pictures...ew...something about that is just NOT right. It's disrespectful to you and your relationship with him, and it's majorly disrespectful to her. And I'm pretty sure on myspace you're not allowed to have actual pornographic pictures. Cleavage is okay, but I think nudity and porn isn't allowed. Anyways, tell him how you feel about it and that you think he should stop. If this continues over a long period of time, you may have to end your relationship with him.
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eh its ok, would you rather he look at porn or flat out cheat on you? id say its ok, as long as he doesnt do it TOO often. now as for messaging some girl and asking her for pictures, well thats a little iffy. does he talk to her alot? if so id talk to him about it. if he just messaged some radom girl then its fine.
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