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My best friend, well, both of us, have dealt with death alot in the past year. and now her mom is incredibly sick! i dont know how to help her or give her advice! i'm so scared, for the both of us,..and her mom is someone that i'm really close to as well and when she dies, my best friend is gonna need me but i dont know what to say,...anybody got any idea?! i need them ASAP
GIVE ME SMARTASS ANSWER, YOU'LL GO TO HELL I SWEAR!
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No no you're going through it too just tell her its all good
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Just be around her a lot but leave her some space whenever she needs it...let her know that youre there for her anytime she needs someone to talk to...i think shes gonna need you and i mean really need you so drop what youre doing and help her out ...hope I helped...my deepest sympathy
Samantha Lynn
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Hey ♥
When her mother dies, give her a few days alone to be with her family. Unless she's the type of person to do harmful things to herself, then you need to be with her as much as possible. I've never had to deal with death yet in my entire life. So I can't give you advice on something that I did, but if I were in your situation, I'd give her a few days to cool off & then about a week later or so, just invite her out to try and take her mind off of the death of her mother. Talk to her and tell her you'll always be there for her ANYTIME, she needs to talk - reassure her that you're her best friend and no matter what happens you'll always be there for her. Just make sure she knows that she can talk to you anytime she needs to. I'm sorry -- I hope everything goes okay for yall.
♥♥ naimee
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Think positive & keep your friend thinking positive. Do things with your friend to keep her mind off of everything going wrong. Have fun with her. And there isn't necessarily something you should say to her if anything happens. Just being there for her will do it. Just ALWAYS be there if she needs you or just needs a shoulder to cry on. You don't have to talk for her to understand you care. Hug her when she needs it. A simple hug can do a lot =)
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