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friendship problems--help, PLEASE!!!!
ok,me (Amy, 13), and a friend just got over a fight (her friends who are very popular, said that I said some stuff about her, but I really didn't say it and her friends said she shouldn't be my friend because they don't like me and so she broke the friendship) well we got over it about a month ago and the fight lasted for about 2 months. Since then she apoligized and said she didn't know who she was without me being her friend, we used to be the best of friends but ever since that fight, even though she apoligized, we don't talk as often and aren't as good of friends anymore. I don't know why since she was the one who apoligized and wanted to be best friends agian, but now she doesn't talk to me that often, I am willing to be best friends agian, too.
Please help me,
Amy
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anyone willing to drop you at the drop of a hat for some other people wheo couldn't care less for her isn't your friend. i say you go out with new friends , have a blast and she will come running back to you. when she tries to make plans with you say, "well i will have to see what me and jill are doing." then call her back and say "this is what jill and i are sappost to go do, but i would rather hang out with you." i am not saying "USE" other people to get back at your friend. i am saying get your best friend back and make new friends at the same time.
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Well maybe she isnt completly over it even though she said sorry...give her some space and time and shell come around....Hope I helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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Ask her if she has something on her mind or something else she wanted to discuss. Tell her you want things to go back like they used to be and you miss your old friendship.
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Call her up and ask her to hang out at your house or at the movies. Just you and her. If she doesnt want to hang out, or insists on bringing her "popular" friends..then she might not want to be your friend anymore. But if she does hang out with you, then great..your friends again. Fights like that usually having a lasting effect and things wont be the way they used to anymore. You could be close again, but you'll always remember that one fight. I hope she wants to hang out with you because if she doesnt, I think she thinks shes too cool for you now with her new, popular friends. Tell me how it goes if you can...??
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