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heyyy!! my name is kristin and im 16 years old. i love to give people advice and help them. i myself have been through many expierences that have made me a stronger and better person.
ok enough with the mushy stuff...
I have five best friends they are:
Natasha,Amanda,Nicole,Pam and Trisha! I love them all like they are my sisters and i dont know what i'd do without them. they all come to me for advice about everything. They always know that i will keep their secrets.
Although i am only 16 i feel like i am a lot more mature then most teens my age.
I love to play volley ball and tennis.Have sleep overs with my girls, take a million stupid pictures, laugh until i cant anymore, and tell jokes that arent funny but i say them anyway.
I have been in love and he broke my heart but he doesnt relize what he is missing. i dont feel i need to have a boyfriend to survive.
I guess thats all for now!!
*muah muah* and Mucho love*
Kristin








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My so called friend only wants to hang out with me when she wants to. She is two-faced and treats me like poo. Her ex boyfriend is taking me to prom and we eventually might be going out. Would that be wrong?

tell her she isnt a real friend and you have better things to do like hang out with her ex boyfriend maybe that will get her thinking
hope i helped
kristin

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Okay, I'll try to make this short.
My best friend introduced me to this boy, and we all decided we want to be best friends. Well, him and her got super close (they go to catholic school together; i go to public school) and he and I aren't so close. She and I are because we live very close. We've hung out quite a but, and my best friend told me she likes him. Well, of course, after liking her brother for over a year, I decide to like newboy. My friend understood, and was happy that I didn't like her brother anymore. She and I even kind of came to the conclusion that we're taking the "May the best whore win" route of who gets him (if he even likes one of us) But the problem is: I really am getting fond of this boy. We have lots in common and he's everything I could ask for. And we're kind of throwing hints at each other that we like each other (well, that's what it seems like to me). I don't know what to do! I don't want to loose my best friend, but I really like this boy!

if you are joking around with ur (girl) best friend and he likes one of you and not the other in the end it wont be worth it. you will have eachother and boys will always come and go out of your lives..wut im saying is lose the guy or lose both friendships.. sry
i hope i helped
kristin

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I am over my ex, and I have fallen hard for another guy. We have been broken up for over 4 months, (we were together for almost 3 mons., and saw each other all the time at school+outside) but it doesn't feel like it has been that long ago since we have broken up. Even though I'm over him, is it normal to want to avoid watching him move on? I haven't started dating anyone yet so that may be one reason. Plus, it's not really the girl he has moved on with even though she is completely different from me. I just want to know if anyone has felt this way too, and how to deal with it. Why is it hard to watch him date someone else when I'm over him and I know I have no future with him (nor do I want to)? Plus the fact that I have fallen for someone else. 17/f

hey hunni i've been in the same place you are in and i just ignore him when he talks about all his new girlfriends. its all you rly can do and take your time when HE sees you with a new guy sometime soon he'll be the one to get jealous!!
i rly hope i helped
kristin

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I'm writing my friend a letter about why she should not smoke weed. She wants to try it because her best friend at another school got high. What should my letter say?
NOTE: I want to avoid the following things...
1. Sounding like a parent
2. Sounding like a Hallmark card
3. iF YoU TyPE LyKe ThIs then don't answer my question or give me advice
4. I want to make her THINK sincerely

just write it she wont know if it sounds any certain way she is your friend and you should show her that smoking is bad. write in the way to show that you care bcuz she is your friend.
i hope i helped

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I have a really cute guy friend name"Brock Bumbarger" & we have been friends for 3 years now. We hang out all the tim, and go to the movies together!! Last august on my 15th b-day he kissed me, like making out wise & ever since then I have been confused. Everyone says we should just admit we like each other. I so want to tell him how i feel, but i am scared he might reject me & I would know what to do if he did. What should I do?

if you trust him enough to tell him how you feel you should soo go 4 it!! he won't reject you bcuz hes been oyur friend 4 soo long!
i hope i helped and keep me posted!!

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Ok, well i have this friend named heather. and we both like eachother as a boyfriend and a girlfriend, but we live about 30 minuets apart.. so were just friends. And i'm over weight, and im really thinking about not going to see her because of it.. She says my appearence dosen't matter but, i've just been made fun of and stuff soo much i can't believe her until i see her reaction. Someone please help me.

-Nab-

if she likes you as a boyfriend and a friend she won't care about what you look like as long as she gets to see you!
i hope i helped and please keep me posted!

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i recently kissed one of my best mates ex boyfriends. they had only broke up about 2 weeks earlier and the reason they broke up was because he cheated on her. she was so upset when she found out he cheated, i was one of her shoulders to cry on. then a week later, whilst talking 2 her ex boy friend, he starts asking me if i would ever be with him. I must admit i did have feelings for him but i understood that i really shouldnt pursue it if i wanted 2 stay friends with my friend. he was emailing me and telling me that he thort he had feelings for me.. i wasnt really sure wat to do, i didnt want 2 lie and tell him that i had no feelings 4 him but at the same time i was constantly thinknig of my friend. then at a party that wknd i had a few drinks and me and this boy got rather close. he told me that if we hooked up we would keep it a secret and no one would ever know, at the time i thort that it would work and i wasnt thinknig clearly. i kissed him 4 about 2 minutes before realising that i would have 2 pay for my actions. we agreed 2 not tell anyone but naturally we both couldnt keep it 2 ourselves. My friend then confronted me and asked me about it, i didnt want 2 lie seeing i new taht would be worse in the long run. i told her the truth but didnt really get a chance 2 tell her all the details and appologise in fully. From that day on she has been avoiding me, we did have a brief talk about it and she said she didnt hate me she was jsut really really hurt, but deep down i no that i have ruined our friendship and taht it is my fault. i really want 2 talk it threw with her and get things back 2 normal but i understand that she needs time and may not ever want 2 forgive me. i really want 2 make up and i regret doing it so much, even tho i have very strong feelings for the boy. it was really stupid of me now thinking back, sacrificing such a good friend for a boy who cheats on his girlfriends and plays girls. i dont know how i could have been so stupid. please help me what do i do 2 not hurt her anymore and not hurt him?

you should have made a better descion and now you have to talk it out with your friend and stay away from that boy.. all he would do if you guys got 2gether would break your heart and that would not have been good! make a mense with your friend and say you will do wutever she wants(in terms of that boy)
i hope i helped and please keep me posted!

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