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prom date
My so called friend only wants to hang out with me when she wants to. She is two-faced and treats me like poo. Her ex boyfriend is taking me to prom and we eventually might be going out. Would that be wrong?
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Perhaps one of the reasons your friend isn't being a good friend to you right now is because of the possibility you might go out with her ex. If he dumped her, she was quite possibly very hurt by the whole thing and might feel more hurt if you then went out with him.
If you are certain this could not be the reason, then it might be worth talking to her about the way she treats you. Explain to her, calmly, that you don't feel she is being a good friend to you lately and you are worried that she might be upset with you about something. See what she says to this and then try to work the problem out. Her behaviour would suggest to me that there is something on her mind and that perhaps she is taking it out on you.
If talking to her doesn't help the situation, you may have to reconsider having her as a friend. Friends are meant to be there for each other and she doesn't appear to be doing this.
As far as her ex taking you to the prom goes, this is really something you do need to speak to her about. There are certain unwritten rules about things like this and one of them is that you just do not date a friend's ex. The only exception to this rule is where a friend has agreed that it is okay. So speak to her about it first and check she doesn't mind.
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tell her she isnt a real friend and you have better things to do like hang out with her ex boyfriend maybe that will get her thinking
hope i helped
kristin
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I think that you should talk to your friend about it first, just so there is not some major fighting.
Even if she doesn't like the idea, then you should just go ahead with it if it is what you want.
But you should deffinately talk to her about it first.
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If you and your friend are having problems, maybe you should try sorting them out first and seeing how your friend feels about you dating her ex.
I know that you wouldn't have to listen to her if she didn't want you to be with him, but it's common sense to respect your friend's wishes when they are still into their ex. So you should be asking your friend about that. Try confronting the issues that you are having with her and see if you can get to common ground on the matter.
-TheTeenGirl
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