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i need help in my spirtul life with god. im a christian an all that but i wan to grow mor with god!
how can i get closer to god?
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Start getting really involved with your Church. Go on sunday nights and sunday mornings.. if you are a teen go to your church's youth group, start reading the bible more often, get a devotion book to do every day, and just pray to God and ask him to help you out!.. If you dont enjoy your church.. start visiting other places and find a church you really enjoy!
I hope this helps!
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Why should people become Christains? Like what iss the purpose in it? (link)
The purpose in becoming a Christian is to gain eternal life.. and go to heaven when you die. When you become a christian all the sins you commit and have commited will be forgiven!.. Eternal life means that you never die.. you may die and be buried but you go to heaven and live a great life.. and mentally never die!
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Many religions believe that the world is going to end soon, and we are living our last days because of all the crime, hate, and everyone being open about their sexuality, what are your opinions on this? (link)
No one knows when the world is going to end.. so dont believe what people are saying!!.. Yes, it may seem like the world will end.. but that doesnt mean it is.. I think that the things happening could be a sign.. but God says in the Bible that no one knows the coming or time of Jesus.. and that it will only happen when no one is thinking about it!!.. We will know when Jesus is coming.. so dont worry about it!
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this may sound scary but lately i have these thoughts like a voice in my head saying im a satanist. i don't want to be and i try to force the thought out and think that god is my only one though it always comes back. i got this book and it had a list of all the warning signs of a satanist and i had all of them except for one. i think i am becoming a satanist. i also do witchcraft but i never did anything involving the devil. now all i can think about is becoming a satnist i need serious help. i am originally catholic. and i am a girl. (link)
Satan is tempting you.. and you need to draw close to God, He is the only one who can help you!.. Drop all this witchcraft and practices you are doing.. and go to church.. ask a pastor for help.. do everything you can do to draw close to God once again. I dont think you need to go to Catholic church.. try an Independent Church!!
I hope this helps!
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ok to day i went to a bible study at school, I used to go to church and youth group but the youth minister left the church and i havent been back since....but anyway today when i was there things where really emotional...people were crying and they asked us to bow our heads and asked who wanted to be saved...the asked us to raise our hands and then the leaders came over and prayed over them...But I felt scared to raise my hand....Im regreting it now....I want God in my life but I'm afraid Ive missed my chance.
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You dont have to have someone pray over you or be in a church to be saved.. all you have to do is pray to God!! You can just say a little prayer like this:
Dear God,
I know that I am a sinner, and that I need you in my life, Lord. I want to be able to call on you in my happy and sad times.. and be able to know you are there for me when I am going through tough times. I want to be able to know that I have eternal life, and will go to heaven and be by your side when I die. Lord forgive me of my sins of the past, come into my heart Lord God.. make my heart whole. I love you Lord!
In Jesus Name,Amen.

If you arent comfortable doing it yourself.. go back to church and after bible study ask them to pray with you!
I hope this helps!!
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hey i'm 13 and i'm a Christian! i would really like to know more bible verses for i'm going through so much (parents are like yea...and my friends are failing me...and i have like 2 major issues of being easily angered and jealous, i'm praying about it too) so if you know any bible verses that might help me with the above or just any good ones tell me!! thanks soooo much *i rate* (link)
I have a bunch of bible verses that could help you out!!.. Just IM me sometime and ask me what they are for the situation.. alliecatta911! Or email me.. allschapman@yahoo.com!.. It might work to get a good teen devotion book cause those will give you bible verses.. a devotion book that talks about a subject and gives you verses!.. I like the Chicken Soup forthe Soul teen books.. and Light for my path for teens!.. I really like that!!..
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Does anybody know any good bible scriptures? I know that Psalms is good.. but anybody know any on wisdom? (link)
Wisdom Bible Verses:
James 1:5-8
Proverbs 16:16
Proverbs 10:1
Isaiah 33:6
Proverbs 16:20-21
Psalm 107:43
Romans 16:19
Daniel 12:3
Hosea 14:9
Proverbs 7:4
Proverbs 13:14-15
Proverbs 4:5-13
Matthew 7:24-25
Proverbs 8:12
James 1:5
Ecclesiates 8:5
1 Corinthians 2:6-8
James 3:13-15,17

As you can see James and Proverbs have alot to do with Wisdom!.. You might want to look over those book of the Bible and find more verses!
I hope this helps!
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ok i have a bible verse but i dont know what part of the bible its in.. its i can do all things though christ who strengthens me..i know its in galations but i dont know the chapter and verse! help! (link)
That would be Phillipians 4:13!..
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ok it's me again, I just had another question, I'm 14,f, my bf is 14 and I'm a strong christian and I hav many beliefs, not having sex before marriage is one of them. My bf isn't a christian he is unitarian(which i dont really kno much about),but he knows im saving myself for marriage,and he wouldn't ever take advantage of me cuz he luvs me. I was just wondering is it ok that he isn't a christian? Also, do u kno anything about unitarianism? thanks (link)
Well I am really glad that you came to me with this! Thanks.. but anyways in the Bible it says you should marry/date someone with your own yoke. That means you should not date someone that isnt as strong in Christ.. or doesnt have the same religion in Christ. But that is good that he respects you.. but later on religion can cause agruments with the realtionship. I am not telling you that you should break up with him.. maybe you should try to convert you into a Christian. If he really loves you he might just do that! But I am glad you are saving yourself.. keep that decision!!
About your other question... I looked it up and found a website! It is..http://www.carm.org/uni/unitarianism.htm !
It says initarianism is the belief that God doesnt exist in three persons.. but one.It is a denial of the doctrine of the Trinity as well as the full divinity of Jesus. Therefore, it is not Christian. ... that is a really small explanation.. soo go to the website and read it!!
I hope this helps!
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If god knows that we are gonna do something bad, like look up porn, why doesnt he try and stop us. I dont really understand it but, i am a porn addict and its getting harder and harder for me to stop. why would god let me do it if he knows its wrong? (link)
Sometimes God lets Satan tempt us to teach us a lesson or to punish us for what we have done. God didnt make that happen, he let it. And maybe he is still letting it go on so that you will call on him for help, and get closer to him. Or go to the bible and look for verses, there are many reasons why he wont stop it, but it is not because he just wants to watch you suffer. He loves you and made you and choose you as his own.. soo stick with him.. he isnt evil!!
I hope this helps!
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I know having bulimia,anorixia or anything like that isnt pleasing to God...but is it considered a sin? (link)
Yes, i think it is classified as sin, yeah God gave us the right to make our own choices but that is for our own well being. God says that our bodys arent ours.. but his.. and we are his temples. So hurting it is displeasing to God. And also God made you the way you are.. and you should be happy that way, he wont make you ugly or fat if he knew you couldnt handle that. But I mean you can exercise and get in shape, but throwing up or not eating is not going to help you lose weight.
I hope this helps.
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I give up. I dont deserve gods love. I am not worthy enough for it. He gives me a gift and i dont use it. I fail one class, i am a porn addict. I give up i dont deserve god anymore. I dont even deserve to live, i, i really dont care. i am not good enough. I am not as loyal to him as i should be. i dont deserve him at all. im done. Please give advice or a way to end it all (link)
Everyone deserve Gods love!... you may think you dont but you do!.. God doesnt care what you have done in your life.. unless you are his.. you have accepted him.. he sent his Son for you.. and he loves you no matter what!.. Just ask God for forgiveness and he will!.. NO MATTER WHAT!..Maybe you should try to get closer to God and you will stop!... I just want you to know that God loves you no matter what!.. and you should not be so hard on yourself!
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I am jewish, people tell me all the time that in their religion there is a trinity of some sort. My question is how can Jesus, The Holy Ghost, and _________ make up G-d? I dont know the third one either.


I'm just a little confused.

~Nokomis~ (link)
Its the Father,the Son, and the Holy Spirit!
I hope this helps!
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I really want to change my religion, I am a Roman Catholic I just don't believe in their thoughs and such. I am not sure what I want to be. Does any oen have any past experience? Is it like a legal thing if you want to change religions; like you have to get papers? Any help or comments or info about other religions would be greatly appreiciated! (link)
There are no papers included in a Religion!.. and I am a christian and it is awesome!.. I think you should try Baptist religion.. I go to an Independent Church.. and it is awesome!.. in church we sing and jump around.. and dance! It is awesome!
I hope this helps!
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here is something i dont understand and i sont know if anyone here understands it. Why are we here just why i dont understand it we were put here by god but why it makes no sense. i mean think we live just so we can die it makes no sense so i dont understan why we would be put here by god it makes no sense because one day we could be alive and the next we could be dead just why. (link)
God has put us on the earth for a purpose! We may never know why... but as we live on this earth we must live it out as long as we can.. and have fun living our lives! And to live for God is one of our purposes.. we get to see miracles happen everyday.. and we get to live.. and yes we do die.. but we have eternal life after it if we have accepted Christ!.. there are many ways to look at life.. the happy way, the angry way, the sad way!.. many ways!..You can look in the Bible and find many verses that show you are we are living in this world!
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Hope this helps!


im a Christian!!!wats ur sn? (link)
Thats awesome!My screename is alliecatta911! IM me sometime!


a friend from school died about 3 weeks ago from cancer. now one of my close friends has cancer too. its making me so incredibly frustrated and upset and angry and so worried about my friend all at the same time. i need someone spiritual to please give me a new outlook on all of this, because right now i can't stop praying and questioning why the hell things like this happen. (link)
God doesnt make bad situations... he lets them happen. Everything happens for a reason... maybe for you to get closer to Him... or to brighten your eyes in this situation... Just keep on praying.. and dont get mad at God ... Hang out with your friend alot more.. make sure she is a Christian!
I hope this helps!
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my parents wouldnt be able to accept the fact that i am addicted to porn cuz im really a good kid all around. They wouldnt understand why i am that way..

I dont have yahoo so,,.... watever (link)
If you do decided to tell them.. then say that everyone makes mistakes.. and also explain to them how it started... i promise you it will make you stop and you wont feel soo guilty after it.. it is probally the best move you could make...


my parents wouldnt take it to well. They um, well, you know how parents are when they figure out your doing something real bad. so, but yeah, anyway, write bak or AIM me, Lilneid124 (link)
your parents wont take what to well? I dont get what you are asking me! I will im you though!


Arite, im 16 and im from TEXAS! first off, my parents wont listen to much about all that stuff. Second im afraid.

Write bak (link)
Thats cool that you are from Texas! My sister went there.. she really liked it! But anyways... your parents wont listen to much about what stuff? you never made that clear.. and I am sorry you are afraid... I dont you should be afraid..! Ask me the question again... but please say what stuff! I would love to answer the question!
*Allie




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