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I live in FL usa and this person called my at&nt samsung cell phone and used *69 so i didn't know who it was. They used a voice disguiser... i think. it was deep and scratchy like bad connection. i think he said my name so it might be someone i know but idk im sooo scared it freaked the crap out of me and im a paranoid person so i think it may be a stalker but it probably isnt. what do i do? i don't think it is any of my friends and i don't give my number to a lot of people. HELP!!! (link)


You could try and call the phone company of the cell phone and see if you could get the number blocked, Also sometimes they let you change your cell phone number but it will cost you extra. If you have caller ID on the phone than ignore the calls.


So, I'm a sophmore, and my guy friend I've know since first grade likes me.
He doesn't know I know, but me and my friends ave figured it out.
I doubt he'll do anything about it. Cause last time he dated one of his chick friends it ended horribley.
But if he DOES happen to tell me one day, how on Earth to I let him down without compleyely ruining our friendship?

I love him to death, but I'm not attractied to him like that.
I did have a pretty huge crush on him seventh-eighth grade, but that is compleyely over and done with now.

Tips? (link)


If he confronts you, You could tell him any of the these..


1. You are flattered that he likes you but you are not ready to be in a relationship at this time.

2. You see him as a brother and you wouldn't want to ruin that



i'm 15 years old, 5'3 and 3/4, 104 lbs, started my period about a month ago, and have all signs of puberty- except boobs. i cant stand seeing myself in a mirror when im getting changed because its repulsive to see my non-existant chest. i dont just have small boobs, im completely flat chested. i might as well be a ten year old boy. every time i look for advice people say theres still time and im just a late bloomer, but i've been waiting to get them for 5 or more years (some of my friends started developing as early as age 9.) i'm so worried i'll stay this way my entire life. is that possible? i don't want any answers if all your going to say is "your 15, there's still time. :)" no. wrong. unless you were in the exact same position as me but still got them eventually you can't say that. every single person i know my age has them and i've already started my period, your supposed to get your boobs before your period. so please no answers like that. and i'm sorry if im coming off bitchy, im just frustrated as im sure you can imagine. (link)


We are all different, We grow at our own pace.

I highly doubt it is a growth problem like the person suggested below me, The truth is there is no age that we stop growing in the breast area. Our breast is fat tissue, It grows and it shrinks with our body weight. When we loose weight, We loose weight everywhere and it is pretty much the same as when we gain weight. At 15, Everyone who has been telling you that you still got time is right. I am 24 years old and I did not start growing breast until I was about 17 years of age. Then again, As I hate to tell you not all of us are born to look like Pamela Anderson...


well i jus signed up for one called blogger but i have no clue how to do it lol and are there any other ones that are better ?? thanks in advance ! (link)


Try LiveJournal.com I have used it and it has worked out the best for me.

Xanga.com

Vox.com

Weebly.com

Terapad.com

Bloki.com

Blog.com

Blogster.com

ShoutPost.com

GreatestJournal.com


Next weekend im having a guy friend come over to my house and i dont know what movie to get. We are just friends but the friends with benefits might be included. So my question is what horror movie can i get where there isnt a really awkward sex scene. This sounds dumb but its so awkward for me to watch that stuff with people who arent my best friends. I just want a good movie withtout all the sex. Any recomendations? (link)


A horror movie..

If you haven't seen already here are some suggestions.


The Haunting in Connecticut

My Bloody Valentine

Mirrors

The Eye

One Missed Call


So, was Michael Jackson's death ruled as a murder or what? I'm curious because some people at work were saying how they just KNEW Michael Jackson's doctor, Dr. Conrad Murray,killed him. I didn't know if they actually had an official ruling or not...anybody know?

RIP Michael Jackson (August 29, 1958 – June 25, 2009) (link)


No, They say it was a homicide but what eles is new these days, The media is always looking for SOMEONE to blame..


hi i'm kirstie/21

basically i just can't stop going out to clubs.. i am so addicted to it! i get drunk most of the time but sometimes i don't, i will just go out b/c i love it. i'm not addicted to alcohol what so ever, i can easily go without it. but i just can't stop going to clubs. its costing me so much money and i dont know what i can do! ive tried to stay in on a saturday night but i feel like im missing out on something!

i know theres more to life than clubs...but i really need to realise this properly! what can i do? (link)


Well it's good that you realize it's a problem, That's the first step.

Instead of going to a club on Saturdays why not stay home and watch a movie? Invite friends over make it a movie night. Do something that will take your mind off it, For one if you are going so much too the point where that is all you think about and it is costing you a good amount of money then maybe you are going a little too much. Make a schedule for yourself something you are going to do every weekend make it a goal, an accomplishment. Yes, There IS so much more to life than clubbing there are other things out there that are fun and cheap. I had a problem awhile back I was tight on money and I had no clue what to do to occupy myself before I knew it I was spending 10 bucks at a local bowling place just shooting pool with a friend and 10 dollars lastest us a good hour and it was cheap. Try doing things like going to the beach, renting a movie, going for a walk etc. Tell yourself that you are not going to waste your money on going to the clubs all the time and tell yourself why it is not a good idea like you said it's costing you money and clearly it's becoming a bad habit. Stay focus on other things you love to do and gradually that feeling should go away within time.


WHO IS PRETTIER? & Y

CHOICE A: http://i31.tinypic.com/2nkuut1.jpg

CHOICE B: http://i28.tinypic.com/11bn0ci.jpg (link)


In my opinion I think the 2nd one is more attractive, I personally think she has more beauty in the face.

The first girl is more plain looking and gives off a real girly impression, While the first one seems to give off a more laid back outgoing type of look.


So around Sunday I was laying on my floor at like 12am talking to my bestfriend on the phone and on my laptop. I was really itchy on my legs, and I thought maybe a misquito bite but I hadent been outside that day.
I have tons of bites on my legs!
And I continued to get them on my ankles.
Now Monday through today (Wendsday) I spelt at my bestfriends, my legs didnt itch.
I'm now back home on my desktop in my room, and I notice my ankles and feet are now extremely itchy.

Could there be fleas or something in my carpet?
I'm not allergic, my living room carpet is the same stuff and I'm fine down there.

If they're might be bugs, what kinda, and how would I get rid of them? (link)


It could be a number of things I personally would need to see a picture to get a better idea of what type of bite it is...

I would check the bed for any possible bed bug problem. If you have any pets in the house then it could be fleas as the summer is the time where they come out most. I would check the cats and dogs for any flea eggs or fleas if this is the case then I would buy Frontline for treatment to your pets if you have a good amount of fleas in the house then I would do some carpet cleaning and fully vaccume the couch if you have dogs I would suggest giving them a bath using shampoo that is for helping flea problems. If you spend a good time outdoors I would start using some bug spray also.


i want to learn australian sign language.. does anyone know any good sites that have more then just the alpherbet?? that have differnt words and stuff.

i really wanna learn it!!!! THANKYOU xxx (link)
http://livingdeaf.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/11/alphabet.gif


i'm waiting in the dark
can't approach what seems so big
i forgot every scar
so don't ask what i just did
it's 1:32 a.m.
i'm not afraid of heights
i've got a ripped up brainstem
paralyzed in flight

please put it in the ground
it's bleeding on the floor
the skeletons prance around
like they're welcome anymore
"dear God, i can't feel a thing"
dear God, that's just not me
i'll listen to every song you sing
suonato bella, banshee

addicted to the glittery glow,
i can't tear my eyes away
maybe i should go
what did i just say?
i'm drowning in moonlight
hopeless smiles, hopeless hair
it's getting too damn bright
like all i wanted was always there

i can't remember
much of that awkward, dizzy waltz
kids carry this stuff forever
i feel like it's my fault
i can't accept the truth
i gave up on wishing away
i wasn't raised like you
but it really is okay
everything's okay




What do you get from this poem? Anything that comes to mind at all. Opinion the quality, interesting observations, what you think about the writer, etc. Anything it reminds you of or makes you think of..? Also whether you think it could be a song.







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This is depressing, It sounds like someone who has given up on life but has a slight bit of hope that things will get better. Someone who is thinking of giving up who feels hopeless and wants to try to advoid pain but on the other hand knows they have to face the pain to overcome painful memories.


This is a good website you should go to if you need more help then what people are giving you on here. wix.com/shelbysworld/TEST

Its also an advice site... But more.. "In depth" (link)


That's great but that is something you would put in your profile not posted on the site.


First of all sorry for the gross subject.

I got my navel pierced a couple months ago on vacation in Florida. I don't remember which day but it was around June 1st of this year. I know I was supposed to wait probably longer than I did but about 3 weeks after that I switched out the jewelry. It's a curved barbell, not a ring, if that makes any difference.

Now when I switched the piercing the first time I didn't have any problems, so I assumed it was fine even though I did it a little early. It went on being the same way it had been before I switched it. Now every couple of days since I got it pierced I notice a little build up of something around the piercing holes and on the ends of the barbell. Most of the time it's kind of hard sometimes I have to pick at it for it to come off. And sometimes if I move the jewelry a little out of the way it will push a little "goo" (for lack of a better term) out of the piercing hole. It's off white almost cream in color. I clean it almost every day before I shower using a Q-tip with Band-Aid brand antiseptic wound wash as directed by the piercing professional. My boyfriend was worried that this build-up meant it was infected, even though I thought it was fine...so he asked around and apparently every one he asked also said this is normal.

Then just now, I changed my jewelry again. I figured it was no big deal since it was fine the first time and the piercing has had even more time to heal since then. When I took the old jewelry out I cleaned the piercing, then cleaned the new jewelry and put it in. Now I'm pretty sure it was just because I moved it the wrong way or pushed something too hard but it started bleeding. Not a lot just a teeny bit but then I moved it like how I do when I clean it and the goo came out with some diluted blood color.

I'm not really worried that much that the bleeding area wont heal but I just have a couple questions for anyone that has their belly button pierced.

Is it really normal for the build up stuff to be there? and what about the occasional goo?

Now that I've somehow reopened the piercing, should I kind of start over in the piercing process and start cleaning it several times a day?

Should I be worried that the bloody goo stuff is some sort of infection? Or was it just the combination of the goo and reopening the piercing?


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If it is red and hurts a little bit than it is infected, If it is just a little bit of blood and pus than it should go away soon. When you first peirce anything it will bleed a little bit. Make sure you clean it as needed. If it doesn't go away in a few days it might need to be taken out.


I was at sea world and i met brooke shields. I took a photo with her and i want to email her or whoever answers her email to see where to send the picture to have it autographed. if you know her email or fan email or whatever PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE! let me know i checked everywhere. and it has to be official email, because i dont want to email a stranger pretending to be Brooke. thanks! (link)



More than likely Brooke Shields does not have an email address. I can almost garrantee that if you were to email "Brooke Shields" you are either going to get a poser or someone who just has a fan site/email.



How do you take LSD? (link)

NOT an appropriate question.


Well my question is nice and simple.....I have so many pimples on my face and I wanna know how do I get rid of them fast and easy? (link)


Try Proactive

Also, You can use lemon juice

Try to advoid greasy foods too.


Can anyone give my links to fashinable stores for teens? But make sure they have a pluz size section, cause that's what I would need.
I'm looking to ONLINE shop.

Please do not list
Forever 21 (link)
Dots
http://www.dots.com/

Dress Barn
http://www.dressbarn.com/flashHome.jsp

Gap
http://www.gap.com/

Eblens clothing store (No Website)

Hope I helped somewhat :) Good luck


(The person below me listed Aeropostale depending on what you are looking for, They have plus sizes in Juniors only.)


This is going to be lengthy and there is really no way around it. Sorry!

So, lets start off from the beginning. I'm 24 years old and I've recently moved out and I am renting a duplex with a friend of mine. She is 23 years old. We've known each other for almost 5 years. Before we even started looking for places to live, I told her that I didn't want this certain person like sleeping on my couch or anything, we'll call him B. She was in agreement and said it wouldn't happen. I don't care for him to stay one night here and there, that's fine. I work nights so I'm not home at night but when I leave for work at 10pm, B is usually at my house and they are drinking, did I mention he's 16? Last I knew, that was called contributing to the delinquency of a minor, am I wrong? The thing that irritates me the most, is not only is he 16 and drinking at my house, but he's in trouble with the law. The police are looking for the kid almost every 2 weeks. He's always in trouble for something new. Half of me wants to find a way to not allow him to even step foot inside my house, but he isn't doing anything to me. I'm pretty sure I can't go to the police and tell them what's happening, because even though I'm not there when the underage drinking happens, I'm positive that I can get in just as much trouble. Which is where I'm stuck. I've never been in trouble with the law, I've never even got pulled over. Issue number two, is money was recently stolen out of my room by another one of my roommates friends, lets call her T, she's also 16. I got that money back and in less than 24 hours after, a lock was installed on my door.

I just don't know what to do. I don't want B around my house anymore, especially drinking, and staying the night almost every Monday & Tuesday. Because of financial problems, I can JUST BARELY get my bills paid, and he's sleeping on my couch for free. Something isn't right about that. I don't even know how to bring it up to my roommate that these are problems. I don't want her to think I'm attacking her. I mean, I pay rent here too. Help! (link)


Whoa..


If this kid is drinking and is in trouble with the law, Despite whether you were there or not why don't you just call the police to have them stop by the house? Hey! You might not live there but you know enough that your money is stolen and if the kid is in trouble with the law they I'm sure they won't have a problem going to the house to check up on things. Yes! good for you, I would lock my door too. You pay half the rent there, You have every right to have peace in your home I would talk to the roomate about it if she doesn't listen then go to the landlord and tell them what has been going on because you pay your half you have say in it too. I would go to the police file a complaint maybe even a restraining order? but I think that is a court thing etc. Tell the cops you don't want the kid on the property and ask them what you could do to make sure he doesn't step foot in the house. It is YOUR couch you have say on what goes and what doesn't if your roomate doesn't listen then I again would go to the landlord and complain about it. You aren't attacking her, You are putting your foot down and saying NO!


My senior pictures are coming up soon so i need to know what color shirts i should pick out. i have hazel eyes, fair skin and brown hair with lots of blonde highlights in it. thankss! (link)


Wear whatever you like, This is your senior picture therefore it is YOUR memory. Wear your best shirt I'm sure you will look just fine.


When your running what are good things to think about to help get you through it and keep you going? (link)


Don't think about the destination, Think about the journey. It is a goal an accomplishment and something you are doing for you and nobody eles. Listening to radio while running will help keep your mind occupied.




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