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What are the signs of a mentally healthy person?
"I am from Tonga"
ummm.. not wanting to kill yourself and being a fairly happy person.. not hating alot of people and idk, just be normal??
My uncle just died and I really don't know how to get past it, move on and start my life again. PLEASE HELPP!!! THANKS!!!
AW! hey well i'm really sorrry.. that is a horrible thing to go through, and i completely understand your grief. There's really nothing that can heal a wound like death except for friends, family, and time. You need to surround yourself with normal activity and the people who care about you and who you care about. Unfortunately, you'll probably never be able to go on completely normall again, but that's just natural.. in time, it will get bettter i promise ♥ Just keep on doing what you would normally do and you have to know that it's okay to talk about it with people. Talk to your mom, dad, other family members, your friends, whoever you want to. A really good thing to do is go to your schools guidance counselor, or if you're not in school, your work might have one.. or you could probably find one if you look online or in the yellow pages. Just trust me, it's gonna be hard as hell for a little while, but you WILL get through it. My uncle died a little over a year ago, and I was absolutely heartbroken. But it will get better.. I SWEAR ♥ =) and if you ever need to talk about anything, you can IM me at ONExLOVE09 on aim or leave me an inbox.. or email me at saraemilyx09@yahoo.com hope i helped =)
I am a male, 19 years old. I dont know when i started mastuebating but now i am a mastuerbation freak. I mastuerbate everyday sometimes even 4-5 times. Is mastuerbation bad and how should i stop myself from doing so??
its not bad unless it controls your life lol.. like for instance, if you find your self choosing masterbation over hanging with friends, going to school/work, doing other things you normally do, then i'd say it's a little out of hand. just think of it and how much you want to stop.. if i even want to stop doing something, i just say to myself "ok well if i want to stop so badly, then i just should." so i do. same if i want to start.. like if i want to do better in a class and do my homewrok more, i jsut say well if i want to, i just should. but in your case, i would just find things that interest you MORE than masterbating. like find a new hobby, chill with your friends more. get a job, if you don't have one. just find something better to do =) as far as it being unhealthy, it is not dangerous to your health physically, but like i said; its bad if you choose it over other things. so just find something else to occupy yourself with =) and everytime you want to go and masterbate, just stop and go do something else. you don't have to stop all together, but maybe cut it down to twice a day.. once you conquer that, then cut it down to once a day, then 3-4 times a week. and just keep going until you think you're at a normal rate =) good luck!