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My name is Megan. Im pretty much your normal girly girl, my favorite color is pink, i love to shop & Abercrombie is my all time favorite store. I have an obsession with painting my nails & im extremely organized. I hate reading books. I don't really like boring people either, I live to have fun. I love guys who smell good. Even though I'm 16 I'm still afraid of the dark. Twiggy, Marilyn Monroe & Audrey Hepburn are my role models.


I am very good at smiling. I want to be a model & I love getting my picture taken. I really can't stand liars or commercials. Thunderstorms are amazing. I dont like when my routine gets messed up, I tend to worry about everything. I hate being late, but I always am. I go to the mall alot, & love designer things - Chanel, Coach, Juicy Couture, Dior, Louis Vuitton, Burberry, Tiffanys, Prada, DKNY, Kate Spade, Dooney & Bourke = ♥


I cant spell to save my life, yes i know. I am always hyper. I think it should be a law that you have to wear flip flops all year long. I love to laugh! I am extremly random, but it dosent bother me. Im addicted to texting, taking pictures, mascara, & shopping. Everyone gets along with me & I'm extremly nice, unless you give me a good reason not to be. I love giving advice, & helping people; Ive been through alot so I can help =]
anything else, just ask ♥ xoxo

advice

Hello....lol
background: I have a guy friend and he says i'm one of his best friends. I told him i liked him like 5 months ago..but it didn't ruin the friendship. Then about 2 months after that, I asked him did he like me more than a friend and he said no...i only asks becuz i thought he really did like me....

Ok..So i have this guy friend named david and we are good friends and i use to crush on him but he has a GF.

NOW: I was talking to my guy friend on the comp about 3 days ago. I told him, "I'm think i'm gunna ask david to come with me to church this saturday." He said, "Ok..like i care."...and i said, "why so you always act like this?!" He said, "becuze i'm not interested."
What does that mean?...after that happened i signed off and we haven't talked since. I'm not talking to him. He can call me..and then i'll talk.

also..one time we were passing notes in church adn i was telling him what i thought david was gettin me for x-mas. and he wrote, "cool"...when i asked him why..he said he was jealous. So the next time he said cool after i talked about a guy..i asked himm why he says cool...and he got defense and asked me who asks what cools means..he said cool is just cool....Is he jealous or does he like me?..i'm really conufused.

Yeah hes def. jealous.

Theres not much you can do about it either, but if hes jealous, that means he def likes you!

You just have to pick were to go from there.
♥

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i dont know why im still really upset. my boyfriend broke up with me a week ago because were too long distance. i was so upset. i cried so much. we were together for 5 months and he was my frist boyfriend and kiss. i never liked anyone like i liked him. i still do. i agree that we lived too far away and i knew it. i was just felt like i took the whole thing for granted. i imed him saturday which was a big step for me and he said he regrets the breakupp. he said he still likes me. i got closure. i understand why were broken up. i dont know why but im still sad inside. im thinking its cause it just hit me last night when i took our pictures off the wall. i want to express myself to my friends but i dont really know what to say cause i dont really exactly know why im still this sad. i feel like i still need to cryy. but it doesnt come out. im so confused with myself. why am i still sad? how can i express it? all help would be appretiated.

thanks;;
hopeless

Im sorry for your loss. I just recently went through a break up as well - a year and 5 month relationship.. I know how your feeling. You said you got closure which is a BIG step.
You guys only broke up a week ago, thats practically yesterday, your allowed to be sad for at least a month, I dont think you will still be sad after that.

For me I just called up my best frined any time I thought of him, or wanted to call him or anything. We had a lot of girls nights out, and Taylor Swift's Cd became the sound track of my life (and i dont even like country music!) Go out and by her cd - its worth it. at the bottom of the cd it says something like "to all those boys who thought it was okay to go break my heart, heres 11 songs written about you. HA."
Music and my best girl friends seemed to be the remidy for me.

My ex goes to my school and i have to see him every day, and when I do or whenever I think about him, I tell my self just think of the future, whats next? whos next? because the future holds so many better things to be discovered! Since your ex dosnt go to your school, that should make things ALOT easyer!!

hope i helped, keep your head high!
meganclary@msn.com you can email me if you want!

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I went out with this boy like a year ago.. we started going out June of 2005 and Broke up Around February of 2006. So we were together for awhile. We loved each other deeply. He was my first that I did sexual things with, and he was my first person I madeout out with. Our love was strong, and we were confident we were getting married. However, he couldn't support me. He had no job, no car, and the only money he got was out off weekly allowance. He usually spent it for himself over me and whenever we went to the movies or out to dinner I had to pay. I didn't mind it for awhile until it became a habit and he was relying on me for money. He didn't get me anything for valentines or my birthday because instead he spent it on other things. He also dumped me several times, and cheated on me. So at the end, I felt sexually and emotionally used!

I know I shouldn't be with him, and I don't want to be with him again because he's basically a bum and he can't even support himself. But for some reason, I keep falling for him, and he is begging for me to get back with him. I refuse but I need to get over him!

I totally apoligize for this being so long but thanks so much for reading and trying to help out!

You said it your self, hes a bum. If you felt used emotionally and sexually its probably because you were; you should never feel like that - any guy that truely 'loves' you would never do that to you. You need to hold your head high and see what else is out there - be strong, dont let your self fall back into that mess..
♥ xo

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me and my b have been going out for awhile but now i dont really like him that much, i sorta lke some else ): i was thinksing of saying " i dont think we should go out anymore" but that seems a little cliche. anyone have any suggestions?

Tell him the truth, he'll find out eventually; so its better he hear it from you in the long run.
♥ xo

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13/f
well i have a friend thats a boy that i knew 4 a while and i would usually go to him when ever i needed help with my life.so me,him and my other friend sit together in science class and me and her would always steal his hat.when ever we stole his hat he would be like give it back and w/e and we wouldn't.so when i stole his hat he was like give it back and i was like no and he was like im not ur friend anymore you can't have my hat give it to vanessa(my frind that sit next to me) and i was like fine w/e but now im really starting to get irratated cuz he's still not talking to me and i don't even kno wat i did wrong.i wouldn't be so pissed if i at least knew wat i did wrong.so can someone help me out her please and thank you.P.S.when ever i talk to him he act like he don't hear me.

Hes just being immature. Try not talking to him for a while, that will get him to talk to you again. He probably likes having your attention & having you keep trying to get him to talk to you.
Hope I helped - anyother questions leave them in my inbox!
♥ xo

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OK so i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a while now and hes never made a move on me. Eh I dont know if should feel bad about this but I kinda want him to already. He is very lovey dubby and love is great and all but jeez and need a little lust every now and then too you know? Anyway any advice on how i can maybe lead him on to making a move, because i would never make the 1st move. so please help.

Maybe he dosent think you want him to make a move, or maybe hes nervous. Just hint at it, like ya no, give him reasons to want to make a move on you. You never know, maybe hes waiting for you to make the 1st move!!
dont worry though, it will happen!
♥ xo

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what are good ways to flirt? I kind of do but i'm really not confident at all, because i'm about to get Braces and guys dont usually say im hot like my other friends and stuff like that. all my friends are huge flirts and i can be when i want to but i want to do it better because i love guys but sometimes it doenst show. thanks!

Laugh !! Smile EVEN when you get braces, be your self & have fun, even if you are shy, dont show it. Act like you are the most confident person in the room. Confidence automatically makes you hot. No one will be able to tell your shy if you act confident in your self. =]
(im very shy as well & that worked for me!!)
Any other questions feel free to ask me in my inbox!
♥ xo

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there is these 2 boys in my class and they stare at me and my friend all the time but they look me in the eye they deny that they like me online.but they wont talk to me in person its like theyre scared too.one of the boys talks to the other one about where they live but the other boy already knows where he lives.they also talk about other girls like trying to get me jealous or something he says " i wanna go out with " so and so but idk what hes tyring to do ... do you think he likes me ? or my friend what other signs would a boy do if they liked me ? my friend and i pass notes back and fourth and they try to look .. and what does that mean if boys call me "ugly" because i'm guessing some of them just say it because they like me ?

They probably do like you, they are young and will tease you to get you to even take a second look at them. Dont worry about him calling you 'ugly' he has nothing else to say & he knows youll get upset and say something to him & he wants your attention.
♥ xo

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hey ;;
ima 13 // f
and im in love with this guy .
he nos that i like him
but he doesnt no how strongly i feel
and he doesnt even care that i do
he makes it rilly awkward but we used to be friend before i told him
and recently i told him that i didnt like him, and now its even more awkward and we rarely talk .
hes been ruining my life and i fell so hard for him .
ive been cutting my wrists and my friends have been very supportive .
but i just dont kno waht to do .
because i love him, but i dont want to scare him off or anything, so please help ?

sorry if its long i didnt mean for it i just tried to explain as well as i could
please leave advice :]

If he is the same age as you; he could just be scared - scared to like you back or scared to admit that he likes you too. Boys when they are around like 11-14 are still in the "girls have cooties" kinda thing. Your friends seem like amazing people being there for you, you should really ask them to try to help you stop cutting. NO BOY is EVER worth hurting your self. NOTHING is. Just remember that.

You should tell him how you honestly feel, but dont expect him to be like OMG i love you too. Boys are stupif @ this age about that sorta thing...

dont worry though...everything will work out.
any other questions leave them in my inbox!
♥ xo

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what do guys fo when they flirt? like give me some lists and examples on how to tell if he's flirting.

Trying to make you laugh;

Teasing you, and laughing with you;

you catch him staring at you;

you catch his frineds staring at you and than talking to him;

complements you, even though you look the same everyday;

He smiles at you for no reason..

stuff like that

♥ xo

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16/f. My boyfriend writes music and he's pretty good at it. However, one of his more recent songs was pretty disturbing-- it was about another girl, a girl "see around school". He's never written a song for me before.

he assures me that it means nothing, that is was the only thing he could think of (that worries me in itself) at the moment, and that he wants to be with me not her.

Should I believe him? Is this any real cause for concern? Because it's really hurting me, I don't want to leave him but I'm starting to think maybe I should.

The inspiration for songs can come in many forms, he is telling you it means nothing, than I think you should believe & trust him. As long as he knows how you feel about it, maybe ask him to write a song about you, or if he has ever though about writing one about you, maybe tell him how much you'd like it if he did & stuff.
Take a time out & just think, trust your feelings.
♥ xo

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okay, i'm in a really bad position right now, but if you have any advice, it'd be awesome. my ex-boyfriend and i went out over summer for almost four months, and then he broke up with me because he thought i was getting jealous too easily. well, i was pretty much okay with that because he said we'd go out again in a year or something. i moved on really fast, and it was obvious that he was getting really jealous. so after i started hanging out with this new guy, and we became an official couple, my ex found a new girl, too. all this time, i knew he was jealous of my new boyfriend, and i was a tiny bit jealous of his new girlfriend. but, i still thought about him all the time, cause there's no doubt in my mind, we were each other's first love. anyway, yesterday at school he told me he needed to tell me something. we're like friends now, i guess, but it'd be weird for him to need to tell me something that seemed as important as he made it sound. so last night i called him, and he basically spilled his heart to me about how he misses me a lot, and his new girlfriend isn't the same, and being with her makes him miss me more. my best friend talked to him this morning, and he was just telling her how he really wanted to be with me in stuff. one problem: i have a boyfriend that is really really in love with me who i've been dating for over a month, and he has a girlfriend who he's been dating for only a little over a week. she's crazy about him, too. so basically, we're both in a really sucky position, because we want to be with eachother, but we can't because of the people we're with, and we can't break it off, cause they'd both be like wtf? help, please??

Well I can most definately see where your lost,
I think if you really wanted to go back with your ex, you should keep in mind that he broke up with you. He left you, for honestly a REALLY stupid reason. Jealously should not be enough to break up true love, like honestly.
When my ex dumped me last summer, he did the same thing, he spilled his heart to me and told me how big of a mistake it was when he dumped me & how much he missed everything about me and how he would do anything to have me back etc.
You said you moved on really easily- maybe that was a good thing, & you also said you have a new boyfrined that is really really in love with you, how would you feel if you were your new boyfrined & he dumped you for his ex? I dont know your ex & your new boy so I obviously cant tell you whos better, but if it were me, Id stick with the new boy. I also have a new boyfriend now & hes more than I could ever ask for..
Whatever you chose to do I hope it all works out well!!
♥ xo

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16/f.
alright well ive liked this guy brad since my homecoming after party. well i wouldnt ever see him except at partys and he was always really nice to me. at the last hotel party in november he was all nice to me and we cuddled and made out. well me & him are friends kinda now. but he isnt as nice as i thought he was. he hooks up with all kinds of chicks in front of me but when i hook up with a guy he sits there and makes fun of me. he will repeat the name over and over and he always calls me names like a bitch and a whore and stuff. i know hes playing around it just bugs me because i like him. he will always say stuff like "i know your jealous you cant have my body" and he always winks at me and stuff from across the room. he will come up and poke me and turn the other way.. second grade stuff. when he hooks up with other chicks and makes out with them he is like all about sex and shit. before with me.. he was the nicest guy. i know he liked me before. there were all the signs like him staring at me all the time and flirting with me and he would call me for stupid stuff like asking if i wore contacts because he lost his. but now that i got to know him better i dont know if he still does. it was just that he acted different with me then i see him act with different girls. me and him constenantly fight. my friend keeps saying that she thinks he likes me but i just dont know. at a party the other night me and him were arguing and she was like "will you guys admit that you like each other" and i just stopped talking and brad was like "what'd you say? what are you talking about?" so do you think that he likes me back?

Well first off, he shouldent be calling you stupid if he likes you & making fun of you in front of other people. If it was just you and him and he was playing around & teasing you than that would be okay. If he does like you than he needs to be nicer to you, or maybe thats his way of flirting with you.
♥ xo

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what are some good ways of getting over a guy u really liked and went out with but he broke up with you because he was just tired. and he has another gurlfriend?. and i really want to talk to him again but what can i say? its been a month and i cant get over him but i want to please help thanks.

That happened to me not too long ago, he broke up with me (we were going out for 5 months) and literally the next day he had another girlfriend & all over his myspace it said "I love you Ava" and in his profile on AIM too. It hurt ALOT. I cried for a long time, and it took me a while to get over it, but I had my best friend with me the entire time, I just tried to forget about it.. my friends all told me that he wasent worth it & he dident deserve me & I'd find someone better.. & honestly, they were right. I have a new boyfriend now & I could not be happier. He was there for me when I got dumpped & helped me, and now were going out.. Just let him go, honestly.

But if you do want to talk to him again, just keep it really general like "hey, whats up?, we havent talked in a while" and if he dosent respond in a nice way than I'd stop talking to him...

Talking about it, to your best friend, to anyone really, would help majorly.

Dont worry though, there really are nice guys out there, you just have to find one, and when you do.. you could not get any happier!!

I dont know if that helped, but if you dont have anyone to talk to, I'm here & ill listen..

♥ xo

you asked me what you should do if he says he wants you back...again, same thing happened to me with the same guy, I told him that if he still wanted me, he would have never dumped me in the 1st place, it was hard to say that to him because it was like a week and a half later and I still liked him & was still trying to get over him, honestly if he still wants you, he would have never broken up with you, probably the only reason he would say that is because him and his new girl dident work out. Dont get back into it with him, its just not worth it.
I didnt go back with him & now I have the most amazing boyfriend anyone could ask for.

♥ xo

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well i like this boy in my class and he said he liked me so i told him that i like him too and then i was sick for a week and the day i go back to school all my friends run up to me and tell me that he told "B" he liked her so i asked him wat was up and he said he likes us BOTH so out of jealousy i've been rude to her and yesterday he asked if i still liked him (even though he still likes "B")and i blurted out NO!! PLEASE HELP AND THANX
love,
massie girl♥

You need to tell him the truth, he is trying to make you jealous. He might want you and "B" to fight over him. You should just go back and tell him how you really feel & let him do the rest, if he really likes you he will stick with you & everything will work out!!
♥ xo

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My boyfriend and I have been having a lot of relationship problems lately. All of his family doesn`t want him to be with me. Two days after Christmas he broke up with me, then he felt bad for breaking up with me, so then he got back with me. =]

We decided to start to take things slow, because we were so dependent on each other. Last night I got upset because he didn`t answer his phone and I was worried. I started crying and he broke up with me again, claiming that I made him feel guilty all the time.

So today, we saw each other. He felt bad so we made a pact. We`re dating, but we only see each other on weekends and only talk on the phone two times a day for ten minutes each.

Mutually, we both think that this will be good for our relationship because we`ll be able to spend more time alone. But, do you think it`ll really help? Thank you!

It could help, but becasue you are so dependent on eachother, you might worry about what hes doing & if he doesnt answer his phone it could simply be becasue hes eating or something but you might think hes ignoring you. (I know because ive done that before..)
Just try not to worry about it, if it was ment to be, everything will work out!!
♥ xo

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14/f
There's this guy and lets call him "Sean". Well sean and i have known eachother for 9 years now and he lives in a different state then me but we've always been close and we've always had feelings for eachother. I mean he's like everything i could possibly want in a guy and none of the guys i've gone out with can compare to him at all. [Sean is 16] He does currently have a girlfriend but he didnt want to tell me about her and i wasnt sure why but i didnt want to tell him about my current boyfriend at the time. It's weird. But im going away the 11th to spend the long weekend with him and his family because we are close. But im nervous because i want him to come out and tell me that he likes me but he wants me to do the same but ive been hurt so many times by guys that i hold back and dont open up easily anymore, because im so afraid of getting hurt again. But then again he lives far away so its like should i just move on? or could we work something out?

any advice is appreciated :] oxxx thanxxx

If he still has a girlfriend and/or if you have a boyfriend I would try to move on, he does live in a different state. But if you both are unattached you could try to make it work. My sister lives in FL and is dating someone she met in PA before she moved, they recently had their 1 year anniversary, so nothings impossible!!
♥ xo

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I like this guy and I've liked him for like 5 years! The feeling just won't go away! Ok, here's the deal, in 2nd and 3rd grade we were like imseperable friends, in 4th grade my friend told me that he liked me and I relized that I liked him, in 6th grade my other friend told him that I liked him and after that happened he wouldn't even say hi to me in the halls anymore (not that we saw each other much XP ).

Now i'm in 8th grade and don't know what to do! We have no classes together and are on other sides of the school! NEXT YEAR WE'LL NEVER SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN (probably)! I can't just let him go, and the only conections I have are to him two friends that have classes with him. I'm a wreck with myself, PLEASE HELP!

You should probably start talking to him, or at least try to. You never know, maybe he stopped talking to you in 6th grade becasue he liked you too, that was 2 years ago. I think you should at least try, and tell him how you feel, if he dosent feel the same, at least you know you tried & thats all you can really do. For all you know he could feel the exact way you do!!
Go for it girl!!!! ♥ xo

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