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my boyfriend and i have benn going out for 11 months and he is always saying how much he loves me and stuff but then he hurts me so bad sometimes and he thinks he can like other ppl but im not allowed and i cry almost everytime we get into a fight and he thinks i dont care about him and the person i would think understand this bc shes been with him b4 said i need to move on but i guess thats really not what i wanna hear because i love him so much!!! but i dont think i can trust him cheating on my and playing with my mind but i love him so much!!
What should i do :/ (link)
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well i feel you there girl.. i had a problem like that the best is that you move on bc its better being happy then hurted im sorry to says this but u need to let him go if his like making you crying thats not good i was in da problem i hating it i got to a point i said ok i will move on because its better being happy trust me ok.. if you need anything or more help me leave me some in my column ok! love nicole.. hope i help you!?
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hi there i have a problem i fell for a guy online but im married and i think it was a thing i was going throw when i fell for the guy online now ive tryed to give him hints that i dont want to be with him just friends is what i want now but i even left this guy a e-mail telling him not to wait for me it could be years before i ever leave my husband but i dont want to leave him now we worked things out but the guy i fell for online said he will wait for me how do i tell him that i dont want to be with him please help (link)
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well since your married and you met this person online you need to tell him straight up and tell him you just want to be friends and that you married and you love y0ur husband ok hope i helped! need m0re help leave me s0me in my c0lumn! l0ve sh0rty>
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Im 14/f. Theres this guy I have been talking to online for about 6 months, I know him from school and first started talking to him when he liked my friend to set them up. Well we've been talking for a while, and he doesnt like my friend (never did) and he recently said he wanted to talk more at school and asked me why i never said hi to him in the halls. And yeah... I've fallen for him. Hes really smart, and although he is a lot shorter then me hes got a great personality. But theres one catch, he smokes weed. Not just once in a while. A LOT of weed. 1. Do you think hes interested in me (please be honest) and 2. Is it ok to go out with a potsmoker (does it taste bad kissing.. etc.?)
I rate hight for quick responses (link)
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w0w chica.. i was just reading ur question aight well smoking weed i think maybe ok but if he does it alot then maybe you should to talk him about it quiting it i dont know if its tasting bad when u kissing because i have never kissed somebody wh0 smokes well he seems like his interested in you yes im being honest it looks like he likes you because he wants you to says hi to him it doesnt matter how short he is or taller all that depends is that you like him and that he likes you if he really likes you then he will stop doing weed ok i hope i helped love,nic0le
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so. my best friend introduced me to a guy she dated about a year ago.He ended up falling for me, and then he got me to fall for him. and..we were in love. Seriously. The feeling is just to hard to explain. We basically did everying except sex, and oral sex. I look back on it, and it makes my skin crawl. So, he ended it with me about a month ago, and he let me down pretty hard. It hurt so bad, but then I found out what an ass hole he was. (He cheated on my best friend) I'm finally over him, but the problem is, sometimes, when I'm alone I can't stop thinking about him, and it makes my cry so hard. I just can't forget how he made me feel. I hate it because I'm dating someone else now, who is so great, and treats me so much better. I feel unfaithful almost. What can I do to forget him!? I'm 15, and a girl...obviously. Rarr! I can't handle this! (link)
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ok im sorry to hear that im like going though right n0w i moved on with my x because he hurted me a lot and i got tired of it i got a new boyfriend which treats me better well try not to think about it and be lucky that you have a good boyfriend your still young dont feel unfaithful because you should feel great n0w that you have found a great guy ok i hope i helped need anything else just leave me some in my inbox ok.. love,niC0le!
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OK here's the deal. Me and this kid have liked each other for a few weeks now and he finally asked me out. We've only been going out for 2 days now but its feels like longer. I really do love him, and he loves me. There's just one problem. He's kind of "advanced". I'm only in 8th grade and i've never really been into doing things with guys. For example, I wouldn't give a guy head or handjob anytime soon. He jokes around a lot about this and really wants me to do it but he isn't pressuring me. The problem is, he always wants me to go to his house after school, and for some reason i don't like to go without a friend. I don't know why, but I just can't bring myself to go alone. I love him a lot, but I feel better knowing that someone else is there with me in case something goes wrong. Even if it's one of his friends that's there too, i'm ok, but other than that, i just get a little uneasy. It's just something weird I guess that's going on with me that's making me not want to be alone with him. The other problem is that I still don't know how to kiss and now that I have a boyfriend, I think that maybe that's the reason im scared to be alone with him because i'm afraid of his making a move on me. I don't suppose I would mind too much if we kissed but I still don't "know how to". He sounds mad whenever I don't go to his house. He always wants me to, and he always wants me to go to the movies. That's where my problme of being alone with him comes out. I don't want to go to the movies with him if it's just me and him so I usually suggest a double date but the thing is, my friend would be making out with her friend during the whole movie and it might make me and my boyfriend feel weird so I never want to go. I feel bad saying no to him, but I don't know what to do to not be scared about it. Can someone please help me and tell me what I should do? I would appreciate it so much and i will rate you 5 even if you don't give good advice. Thanks (link)
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my advice is that take it slow and since your scared to kiss him or whatever dont be they says when you kiss somebody we are like born with it so dont worry about if you cant kiss because everybody can trust me and if you feel weird with him then tell him how you really feel and first take it slow it seems like you pretty young and if you feel weird then weird you two should broke ^ bc when you have a boyfriend you should comforable with him ok i hope i helped you.. love, nIc0lE
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Dear advice people givers (lol),
I got my heart broken recently. Last Sunday to be exact. We'll call him Jason. Jason and I have been going out for a week and 4 days. We known each other for a couple of months and have been aquainted. Jason and I got in a fight the day before we broke up. He was on the phone with me and I told him my personal life and I began to cry too and he threw it in my face saying all this mean stuff. It left me so mad at him. You can't even imagine. Well on the 11th (next day) day he calls and he was all like "Hey what are you doing?" and I said "I am at my house.." I said it with an attitude because I was mad at him. Then he was like "I think we should just be friends..." I just hung up the phone. I have no idea why he broke up with me... I could not talk to him, I didn't want to. Then like 15min later he calls my cell on his friends phone and when I answer he hangs up! I was so mad and so sad. I know boys lie but somehow they make you believe their lie, He said I was the best thing that has ever happened to him and he loved me soo much and he wanted this realationship to last forever. Well...I believed it. I haven't talked to him since we broke up (dec. 5) and for some reason I really want to call him and talk but then again I think I don't want to but then I really do...do i make sense? But then my best friend told me the weirdest thing, she said that when we started hanging out as just friends, that he thought I was a ho or a slut (i wasn't supposed to know). And 1st of all I do not dress or act like one because, yo, I am the farest from being a slut and dude, he wouldn't have gone out with me if that was all that he was looking for. Because he knows me...everything almost. Should I call him? I really miss him...a lot. But he hasn't called me, not even once. I don't want to call him and feel like an idiot...srry 4 it being so long :)
Thanks :) (link)
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damn girl i know how you feel im going though that right now i know it really hurts me and my boy broke up too i know its probably just try to get over it i know its going to be hard and show him that you dont care about him anymore and just move on trust me it will take care and go out and meet other guys and dont even think about him aight if u need anything just leave me a message in my inbox.. and tell me whats up or imed me if you got AIM ok girl take care and i hope i help you love, nicole!!
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I never really liked anyone I was dating.I used to always cheat on all my boyfriends.
I started dating this guy about 8 months ago. I really like him. In fact I don't even care about other guys. We moved in together about 3 months ago.
Here's my problem I always think he's cheating on me. I get angry at him easly for the littlest things. I find myself always trying to start a fight with him. I don't know whats wrong with me! HELP!
21/female (link)
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wow i know how you feel i use to be like that with my boyfriend accpect we dont fight anymore well maybe dont fight with him anymore and ask him that you feel that his cheating on you and that you want things to works and talk to him and dont fight with him about everything little thing i know its hard but think first ok '' i like him'' he must like me 2 and i bet he probably loves you and you him 2 ok i hope i helped need any help or more just leave a message in my inbox aight ok love, Sh0RtY
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2day is mine and my boyfriends 2 months...but we have been talking longer than that. but anyways...for the past few days we have been arguing alot about me talkin 2 guys..he says he trust me, but really he doesnt! but thats not it. well he transferd to my school because of me, then we started talking. and well im with him every passing period, we always text in class, im always with him @ lunch and well were always together after skool. all my homegirls think its so cute and that were the perfect couple!..but alot of my homeboys are like dont you get tired of him?!...but today since we were arguin he sat sumwhere else @ lunch..and well its just that i need time to my self. but whwen he doesnt sit with me, he is a loner!!...
im sorry this is so long..but really, i do need some advice!! (link)
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wow well tell him how you feel if you really get tired of him and you said his a loner and then he must not have much friends and your all he has right now tell him that maybe you two need some time apart like you go with your friends for a while and he goes his own way for a while so then you wont be soo annoyyed i hope i helped!!
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ok, i love this guy "John", but we currently arent together. but yet i still love him. and a freind of mine is trying to get me back together with one of my ex's "David". i mean, i like David, and would love to date him again, but i would feel ba cuz i cant give him my whole heart like i did last time, cuz i am in love with John. so i dont know what to do, me and David are still really close and are soooo alike, and i guess his friend picked up on it, and i dont know what to do, cuz, if i wait around for john, and thigns dont work, i could miss out on David, and vice versa. so someone please help me!!!! (link)
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well i would says just follow your heart and just be single and whoever comes first to u then da one u should be with i would says wait 4 john.. and forget about david..bc u said u love him and that u guys r soo alike thats what i think well i hoped love,shorty!!
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Over the summer i spent most of my time with my infatuation...lets call him fred. So fred and i were dating on and off during the summer but we always liked each other. We never dated anyone else and we spent the days talking to each other or hanging out. Before school started he asked me out again and then went on a 2 and 1/2 week vaca. Sfter he got back he broke up with me. It was like the first thing he said to me. I was crushed. Because i felt that i fell in love with him...and at one point he told me "i love you" but when i asked him if he meant it he wasnt sure. Now that school has started he was introduced to my bestfriend...lets call her mary. I have been so crushed because they both like each other and mary isnt even being conciterate of my feelings. They always flirt in front of me and it drives me nuts. Some nights i even cry myself to sleep. How do i get over this? Or how do i win him back? I would rather win him back...i really loved him with all my heart...and still do...
btw, sorry it was so long, but i rate high!:-)
~Signed, Lost in Love (link)
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wow i would says he isnt worth those tears dont cry girl.. just tell him how u feel and her.. and ask him how he feels about u ok i hope i helped love shorty
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my boyfriend tells me how much he loves me about everyday and i feel the same but i think hes tryin to make me break up with him...always tellin me about other girls and them kissin him and its juss soo rude! what do i do? (link)
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wow.. he must be cheating on you girl well.. broke up with him and tell him if he loves you then why does he says those things??
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Situation: Ex boyfriend moved to another state.. i mean.. i love him soo much! i havent see him since he left... 2 months ago.. And I talked to him recently.. he says hes moving back here.. Hes the guy I lost my virginity to...
Situation: I'm engaged right now.. but I think if my Ex came back... i would do something I will regret..
I know I love both guys..and both guys love me.. so how do I choose? (link)
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well just follow ur heart.. and write a paper like about ev erything u like about them and write about what u dont like about them. and u should pick from there or u can tell ur bf that u aint really ready for getting marry so just take things slow with him!! i hope i help k love nicole!
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ok so i think i have problems... i mean i like going out with people but the relationship i am in now is freaking me out kinda... i think i love my bf of a month and a half... i kno it doesnt sound very long but we've gone out before... but anyways... i really think i love him... but i have this problem where i go out with a guy umtil i think that he really likes me and then i just kinda loose interest... thats kinda what is happening in this relationship... but i still kno i have feelings about him... like i feel like i love him... but im starting to lose interest... waht can i do to fix this... i dont want to stop loving him... especially since it would break his heart... HELP ME... im 14 and female!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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well u cant do anything about it.. well stop ur self not to do that..
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Hey, i dont know wat to do my ex-bf broke upwith me and this kid i know that likes me and i like him just got outta jail my ex already got a new girl should i wait 4 them to break up or go 4 the one dat just got outta jail.
Jason-17 just got outta jail
Justin- 15 new girl
HELP ME NOW PLEASE WAT SHALL I DO!!!!!! (link)
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aight i think u should just.. go for da kid.. i hope everything works now bye love nicole
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okay well i really need a guy in my life... someone who is there for me and can help me with my problems... because it seems like all my friends are like blocking me or something it just isn't fair.. :-/ i want a sweet guy who knows how to confert a girl... does anyone know that feeling?? (link)
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aight u need somebody to be there for ya.. and talk about ur problems aight girl if u wanna talk feel free 2 talk to on my aim ok my sn iz latina chica 650 k?
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me 15 boyfriend 17
ok..well i cheated on my boyfreind twice..n he says he loves me alot n i belive him n i really care for him alot...i jst don't know y i did it! but i talked to him tonite about it n he said if i ever cheated on him hed dumb me...so it was jst a plan out emotional convo...n i told him he shouldn't love me cuz i think i might mess up n cheat on him...cuz thats wat happened w/ the last guy that meant alot to me...well i'm scared that i'm goind to cheat on him n i don't want that to happen...but then i don't want to lose him cuz i really love him alot...wat should i do? (link)
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ok if u love him a lot and u dont wanna lose u.. and if a guy trys to kiss you.. and u do it back.. and then it means u dont really have true feelings for ur man sorry.. 2 sayz.. but if a guy does a move to ya.. and u do nothing.. so yeah that means.. u truely love ur bf.. i hope dat i helped aight! LoVe NiCoLe!!!
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ok i wrote this like b4 but i was wondering..
see i have a bf namd chris.. who i love with everything i can love someone with.. ive been with him for 9 months (i knew him for 3 years prior to that) and im still CRAZY about him. I want to be with him forever. I love him so much. and im 15. i would die for him and theres like 3 other ppl i can say that about. i lost my virginity to him bc i wanted to always remember him no matter where in life we went. i think about marring him and having his kids. (not now of course!) and like when i think of him ever moving away i cry! like it upsets me that much! or like if something bad would ever happen to him like say he dies.. i cry! i mean i hear ppl on here talk about love.. but i kno im in love. and with the things with my mom and how she doesnt want me to be with him cause he is black (im white) well it just makes me want to stay with him more and it makes me fall more in love with him! its like i dont care what ANYONE has to say about me and him.. i love him and i cant help it. i would do anything for him! and for me to be 15 and think like this.. well when i told my cousin about it she thought i was dumb and that i shouldnt be tied down like that. but i tried to tell her i dont want to be with no one else besides him! i want to be with him forever. and dont think im some 15 yr old girl thats talkin outta her a$$ here.. i never said this about no one and probally wont for a long long loooooong time. but im dead serious. is it ok for me to feel this way? i just want ur opinions. its not like gonna change the way i feel for him if u guys say no its not normal. but i just want to hear from you all.
thanks a bunch
Manda (link)
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well u shouldnt.. listen 2 what pplz have 2 sayz about you and ur man girl.. bc all they r doing iz like being jealous and hating.. but if u love him shit!! go with him.. and if u both love each others u wont let anybody get between u 2 !! well good luck!! i hope i help!! if u need anybody imed me @ aim itz latina chica 650 or whenever u need help or something just hit me up aight!? xoxo nicole!!
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how can u tell someone u love then and atleast try to have them understand how much u feel and u need to be with them...i mean i kno u cant make someone fall inlove with you..but i really love him and i want to be with him... (link)
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well try to tell da person and like sayz what would u do if i told u i love u and i wanna be with u try dat
tell me if its work k?
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i have a boyfriend whom i really love we been goin out for 2 years .. my friend who likes me says my boyfriend is thinking about breakin up with me.. im not sure if he is just saying that so maybe i would break up with him first and he could ask me out or if it is really true.. my b/f has been acting really weird and said he "dno" if he likes me as much as he used to! i have no idea what to do!! help =( i love him (link)
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i had a problem kinda like dat like my best told me dat he had a feeling dat my man would broke ^ with me and asked ur bf how he feels and stuff? but ur friend just saying dat to get with you
aight i hope i help ya tell me how it went!!
if u need more help or whenever just imed me on AIM k? my sn iz latina chica 650
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Hey. My best friends bf has been dating me while he went out w/ her! I had no idea when I was doin it w/ him.But i am now pregnant w/ his kid! I made a deal w/ him that i wud never tell my friend that I was w/ him but now i think i need to. I dont know if im ready for a kid! Shud I have an abortion and never tell my friend or have the kid or what? Plz answer this I really need help! (link)
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hey, girl naw i dont think u should have a bortion u should tell ur friend about it.. and anyways how old are you?
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