im brooke .. im an all around nice girl and love to give advice so dont feel like you cant ask me for advice cause if i wasnt willing to give it i wouldnt have this in the first place lol
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how do you stop loving someone? (link)
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truthfully.. if you are truelly in love.. it doesnt go away you cant stop loving someone .. i wish i could tell you how but its impossible.. you can find someone new who makes you feel the same way maybe even more but once you fall in love it doesnt go away expecially first loves they stick around forever.
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so i had this class with this guy who was really sweet and always knew what to say. he would always scoot into the chair with me just so we could sit together and he would just grab my hand and just look into my eyes. one day when he was in the chair with me, he put his hand on my knee&i didn't think much about it. slowly he moved his hand up my thigh and i took and put it back on my knee[we were in class.] so i thought he REALLY liked me. but then i was talking to some other girls and they said that he did the same thing to them. i was crushed. he still gives we long hugs everyday and holds me, but i'm still hurt.
now heres my question; should i do something that will make him like me more than the rest of the girls&if so what? or should just forget about him?
thanks (link)
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i dont mean to hurt you but when a guy does that to alot of other girls it doesnt mean he likes them .. it means he wants to get with them .. he may seem like prince charming but the truth is he is an asshole and just wants to get in your pants believe me i go to a school full of them so i think you should just forget about him cause he will make it seem like he likes you and will go on and on about it making you fall more and more then he will tell you he just doesnt have as much feelings for you as you do for him and that he doesnt think its fair that you two are a thing .. so just forget about him and go find a sweet heart that doesn't have a rep for going up girls legs in the middle of class.
hope i helped hun
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 8 months. Relationship needs work...he didn't/doesn't trust me. I haven't cheated on him though.... I'm pretty happy with him...but I think I'm starting to like one of my old crushes. I liked her before but I thought she was straight, so I just forgot about her and moved on...went out with my best friend.... We went to different high schools...and I found out that she likes me...for months she has... I hung out with her and I'm starting to get these feelings for her. She makes me happy too. Is this wrong? (link)
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alright im kinda confused so you got a boyfriend .. but the girl you used to like likes you .. and you thought she was straight so you gave up on her? cause if she was straight wouldnt that mean you had a chance but i dont know its not wrong but its kinda hard to choose cause your kinda in a mix here. just talk to the girl and see if she ralyl does like you hope i helped somewhat of a bit
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There is these 2 older guys.Im 14 and theyre 17. They have seemed to like me but I dont know.Would older guys like someone younger out of everyone of their own age? (link)
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yeah they actually do it is pretty surprising but they do .. that happend to me im 13 he was 17 and he liked me and was all cuddley with me on a couch believe it or not.. but it is also a little weird but he was really hott so i enjoyed it :)
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welll how do i start....well i start from the very start....i went out with this guy because i knew him from high school..we went out before...now were grow into mature people, and was attracted to each other....every thing was goin great for 6 months...but within the last month he started treating me differently, like he didnt appreciate me...one day he called it off, he said he can see that were not right for each other...i begged and cried and cried...i was so shocked we just spent the weekend together and it seemed great but he said he doesnt love me anymore..i begged him twice and i stopped after that....he tells me im doin great getting over him..so i snapped and yelled at him and said he was unfair and told him that relationships are about communication and honesty...he said loving me and missing me will just go away which mean he would consider going back out with me, i gave up but told him for the last time what i loved about him...then he kissed me and cried....so yup he decided to go out with me again...but left the decision for the weekend..i had to wait 3 days....
yup so we went out...the first three days seemed great..well he was good at making me believe it was great....and i think he was deliberately driving me away and finally broke it off and said he hasnt loved me for the past month although im a beatiful person...we lost the chemistry....i didnt cry this time....but he seem angry at me...i said you lied and he said i should be thankful he didnt lead me on for long...he also said he doesnt care about my feelings about this...and he only went out with me because he didnt wanna deal with breaking up....
now although im badly hurt im realizing he wasnt treating me the right way...everything was based around his feelings, his thoughts, and his doubts. What kind of guy is he? he doesnt know what he wants...
How long am i going to keep feeling lonely and sad about this...
i know hes not worth it but a part of me wants him or maybe just the companionship..
is worth it?? is he gonna comeback?? if he did should i take him back??
im dealing with this better than the first time we broke up but i still get moments where i cry too much, and i cant sleep or eat.
he only cared about his band and friends, i wasnt even special..he said i was, but i could feel i wasnt...
it seemed really good at one stage and he just stopped loving me as he said...
i see him everyday and it seems like hes dealing with it fine...but i dunno how he truly feels behind closed doors... (link)
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alright i like this kind of question long and alot to answer lol .
well anyways he obviously doesnt know what he wants and doesnt know how to treat a girl right from what im hearing since he cared about friends and his stupid band
and yeah it is worth it and yeah he will probably come back and yah you should take him back this last time but tell him if he screws up again your done and if he breaks it off again and comes back dont taking him back
and ..dont worry .. you'll get over it soon i mean im going through the same thing right now and pathetically i cry every single day cause of it and he likes to play the little mind games with my head just like this guysdoing to you ..
and the fact the guy told you he loved you .. that is leading you on weather he wants to admitt it or not he doesnt understand that saying those words to a girl actually gets them hooked and makes a girl love them back ..
and since you see him everyday and he seems like he is all happy about it take him to a place where its quiet and only you and him and be like you claimed you loved me but your fine with seeing me now. not having a problem we broke up . and tell him how you feel .. tell him what is on your mind about him ..and it'll be alright to cry.. but you'll be relived that you went and told him off like you've wanted to for a while and just let everything out that is on your mind so you dont have to think about it cause he will be the one thinking about it more than you will since he'll know exactly how you feel and he'll feel like the biggest dickhead in the world for doing that shit to you ..
sorry so long hun x3
tell me how it goes :)
brookex3
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ok here it goes there are a couple of guys that i am interested in and i cant decide who i like the best ( im 16/f) the first one is reelly hott and hilarious but he gets in trouble alot too and theres this other guy hoos one of my good friends and stuff but he annoys me all the time(hes just a little less hott)in a flirting kinda way and another guy who is so sweet and i know he likes me cause he asked me out before but i said no. So i was wondering if anyone could tell me which guy i should go out with and why *ill rate good for a good answer*
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well it looks like the second kid is definitly not the one to go out with if he annoys you .. um . the first guy ehh .. he seems pretty hott from what im readin but him getting in trouble could get him grounded so you'd never see him or like.. you could be with him when he got in trouble so you'd get in trouble yah know? soo i saythe last guy since he is sweet and stuff. i mean he could make you happy and not get you in trouble and not annoy you ,you know what im saying hun?
hope i helped
brooke x3
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Okay. I've gone out with this boy 3 times. We've been broken up for about 4 months but I still love him very much. I told him I liked him still and he told me that he liked me too. We'll talk online a lot but the weird thing is that once in awhile, he won't IM me. Almost like he doesn't want to talk to me. When we do talk though, he'll say that we need to hang out and he actually talks to me and we get into a conversation. He asked me out on Thursday but I said no because I just couldn't figure out what was going on and I'd rather have him ask me out on the phone or something and not online. So basically my question is..does he like me or not? What exactly is goin on?? I'll rate 5's for good answers and 1's for smartass ones. THANKS! (link)
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well .. from the looks of it he obviously likes you .. soo you should tell him that you sent a wrong IM when you said no and xed out when he asked it.. and you should call him and be like whatd you say that day i sent you the IM no and xed out and i didnt know what you said .. but if he knows you knew about him asking it then just be like.. well .. i want you to do it on the phone ..
hope i helped tell me how it goes.
brooke
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well first i am 14/f, and anyone makes fun of my question in anyway, i will report you and get you banned. and well people who are willing to help, please help i need help ASAP. my problem is this. i am crushing on a gay guy. i just met him and he first denied that he was, but today he told me and my friend that he is gay. but he is fits so perfect for my dream prince. he likes stuff i like, and such. not to mention he is sooo hot.
so please, is there anyway i can turn him straight? i know it will be really hard and i can't help it because its like hormon, but i have heard of few stories that it can happen. but i dont know how, and please dont say give up, because i know most of you will try to do that but i already know that , but i have to try at least!! so please please help me.
i rate 5 if it helps even a little. (link)
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well .. he might be lying about being gay if he knows you like him but i dont know hang out with him dont let him hang out with alot of guys.. just have you two hanging out and ask him if he'd ever go straight .. be like cause i'd be willing to go out with you or something .. talk to him about it all .. call him up and make plans with him .. soo you can work your magic and get him to go straight hun ;-D
hope i helped
brooke
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okay well me and this guy have been "together" all summer... but were not really goin out... its wierd tho, he seems like he likes me one day and the next he wont talk to me... everytime i confront him he makes up some excuse like i had to go to the doctor, or i had to go shower... but ive kinda gotten fed up with it! hes really sweet and i really like him... but should i just stop talkin to him, or try and keep are relationship togteher and til we can move it further?? please help! (link)
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he's just scared .. i mean .. he doesnt know what he wants right now well thats what it seems like..it looks like he wants to be with you but not go out with you yet it looks like he wants to take things a little slow. but just keep your relationship together and wait for him to be ready to go further it'll happen soon don't worry hun ..
hope i helped.
brooke
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I like this girl, I mean like I REALLY love her. But, she only likes me as a friend. I recently sent her an email asking her out, but I think she's at sleepaway camp or something. I want her to love me so bad, how can I do that? Don't tell me that there are other fish in the sea, because I can feel that she's the one. How can I make her love me? Wiseasses get reported. Thanks! (link)
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well you can't make her love you but you can get her to like you and then move on to loving you i mean hang out with her .. flirt a little tell her how you feel .. tell her i know you think of me as just a friend but i really think we could be more.. i mean we would be good together .
and like.. when you two hang out listen to her when she talks help her with her problems she is going threw hold her hand .. be like her bestfriend and her boyfriend ..cause girls want to have that kind of relationship ya know?
hope i helped
brooke
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I don't know what to do about this guy... at the beginning of the summer i found out he liked me and the more i thought about it the more i liked him back, well i jacked up really bad cuz i accidentally misworded a quote he had told the person that told him so ever since then he thought i said no, but i didn't, he was just so mad at the peron that told me that he didn't give me a chance to say yes... well he hasn't talked to me since then and it's really depressing, not only cuz he won't talk to me but because he won't talk to the person that tole me either and he get's POed at anyone who brings it up from what i've been told... i don't know what to do, if anyone can help i'll rate high.
thanks
o, yeah... 14/f (link)
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well ..call him up ..be like i know you dont want to talk to me or ( who ever told you) but see if he/she didnt tell me then i wouldnt know you liked me .. and i like you alot and have been waiting for you to let me answer i mean yeah you have a right to be mad but were both really sorry or show up at his house and wait for him and then be like listen .. i like you alot and ive been waiting to answer you for a while now but you just completely ignored me cause someone told me you liked me .. i mean i could've answered and we could've been all happy by now but you just wont talk to me and i didnt do anything wrong and im sorry for whatever reason your mad at me. .
i hope i helped hun ..
brooke.
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Heyy! I am a 14 year old girl
I have a MAJOR problem... I have a boyfriend of almost 5 months and we are really happy! He was my first kiss...let alone that but we haev madeout and french kissed! which sounds like alot but when you see how happy we are you could see why we have done that! The only problem is our parents dont know and we dont plan to tell them any time soon...both of us arent supposed to have a gf/bf until we are 16 or 17.... we are seriously meant for each other and he says he loves me and i love him...i haev never felt this way!
WHAT SHOULD I DO! I dont know if we shoudl tell our parents or just wait to tell them...what would you do???? any advice would be helpful!
thx (link)
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well ... it's kissing so it's not that much of a big thing lol people have done much more younger than you and havent been together as long as you two have.. and thats retarded that your parents arent letting you guys date or anything um...just tell your mom i mean mom's understand this stuff more than dads do the dads are too like stuburn and shit so i think you should tell your mom then gradually tell your dad and have your boyfriend do the same.
hope i helped hun
brookee.
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well, my bestfriend ( guy )( who likes me ) just slept over my boyfriend house last night and he is telling me all this stuff about how my boyfriend was talking to my bestfriend ( girl ) non-stop for like 2 hours this morning and last night. and my bestfriend (girl) isnt really that nice .. she always tries to make me jelous and shit. so i dont know if shes trying tog et me mad or if my boyfriend likes her ( cuz they liked eachother at the begining of the year )
can someone please help me !! i'll rate 5's for good help=D (link)
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ask your friend because she is fucked up if she is going behind your back and shit and ask your boyfriend and be like..soo you can call my bestfriend and not me pretty cool and if he tries to deny it be like .. kid my bestfriend slept at your house and told me and to tell you the truth i wouldnt be suprised if she liked you and stuff [make it sound like your mad]
hope i helped
brooke.
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Okay. I never ever cry even when im alone. Ive never fallin in love never even close im more like a guy then a girl. Because im a player and everything like that. What all females think the average guy is. Well now im dating a guy named Evan. Hes so cute and we mesh so well together. He makes me happy im not even playing him!! Well he does...Alot of illegal stuff. And he has to handle buisness i understand that. But i he told me one of his ex's came back in town and he turned her down and all this even though it was like his first love. I was like okay hes like yeah i never thought i could do that. But now these past couple days instead of us talking on the phone for hours n hours we talk a few hours a day and i only see him like twice a week instead of everyday. He says he has to go do buisness but its just all of a sudden? and he is acting different then before but he says its because hes under alot of stress. Well i asked him if he was cheating and he said no and got really quiet i was like whats wrong? hes like nothing im under stress and im thinking and i dont know why you even think that. The next day i asked him again and hes like you really think im cheating? He got really mad and was like after me getting cheated on and i know how it feels and how close we are and you still ask me that?
I dont kno what to do i cant tell if hes cheating it feels like it but i have no proof.
Help if u kno what to do or have any advice (link)
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alright well that girl obviously is trying to get after him now and thats something you really need to get a hold of i mean you have to talk to her and be like .. um .. me and him are dating now i mean yeah you guys can be friends but he has a girlfriend you had your chance you ruined it and noiw your running back to him .. and then be like i dont know you could be really cool just from what im seeing your trying to get the kid im really starting to like .. and then talk to him about it and be like alright i trust you but i need to make sure you dont have feelings for her anymore make them two go to the movies and see if anything happens .. and be like this is the only way i can find out and if not that then sit him down be like .. i really like you alot and i trust you i just dont know how to feel im getting all confusion in my head because your first love is back and trying to get with you ..
hope i helped hun..
tel me how it goes..
brooke
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ok i like this guy ALOT and were going out but my friend also likes him and shes not talking to me because im going out with him but she also told me over and over again go out with him he really likes you and i kept telling her no no because of you and he told her before we were going out that he didnt like her he liked me so now im going out with him and i dont know wbout my friend...
i need help! (link)
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well .. if she told you to go out with him then she has no right to be mad .. and i don't think you should ruin the relationship because of her being mad i mean eventually she won't be mad no more.. you should like .. find someone cute and nice that like's her and they can get together ... i hope i helped
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ok, everybody has a different deffintion of love, and i want to know what you think about it. it can be serious, or just goofy. i dont care, but i wanna know that you all think of it. and do you believe in love at first site?? thnx (link)
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well .. love is a feeling that you can't describe but it's like ..when you guys can be goofy together and it wouldn't matter you wouldn't make yourself look dumb .. and you could look really bad one day and he could say your beautiful and when your not together they call you to hear your voice and you could be serious about it too.. and.. i don't think there could be love at first site because love isn't for the looks . .
hope i helped
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okay, let me break it down for you...my best friend (lets call him X) has a girlfriend, and his girlfriend is my friend (but not like a best friend) and i told X that i liked him. He said that he had liked me for like a year and a half before he got together with his girlfriend. So, we are still best friends, but i dont know what to do. Should I still like him because i know that i dont have a chance because he's already got a girlfriend and they are close (but i dont think he loves her as much as he says he does..)? Should i just like him as my best friend only? Or should I keep loving him, and he will never know how much I love him? Help! Im so confused!! (link)
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Well i know what your going through cause thats how it is with me.. because yeah he dumped me but claims he still likes me but is still with her and say's he loves her and shit but i think you should be his bestfriend but secretly love him ..and then when they break up you can tell him and maybe he has as much feelings for you as you do for him ..and maybe he is thinking about you and wants to be with you but just doesn't want to tell you cause he scared you'll feel different and scared his girlfriend will find out ..
hope i helped
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Alright, so.. I'm torn between two people. I was asked to this dance, by a guy completely out of nowhere.. I mean, he was more of an older brother than anything.. I was hoping the guy I like would ask me, (( keep in mind I've liked him since sixth grade )). Anyway, so.. I'm not sure if should give up on my crush and try and like my friend.. or still hold onto my crush.. By the way, me and my crush are really good friends too.. have known eachother since kindergarden.. (link)
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well ... i think you should find out if your crush is goin with someone and if he's not then go maybe we should go together and then tell the person that asked you before that you would but you already have a date and if your crush already has a date then go with the other kid that asked you in the first place. .
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well...i just saw the movie 'something like love' and it got me thinking. does love like that actually exist? i'm sure not many people have seen it yet as it is a new movie...but they just seemed so, i don't know, made for each other. it was surreal. i know in real life guys might not stand outside and sing to you with a guitar to win your heart...but the way they felt for each other...does that really happen? thanks! (link)
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yeah it actually does happen surprisingly .. i mean yeah it doesn't seem like it would ever happen but it really does if the guy loves the girl that much and want's to be with her that bad he'll go to any extreme just to be with her ..
hope i helped ( i know what movie your talking about too im goin to see it today i think)
xl h0ll0w li3z lx
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okay well i used to like this kid matt, and he found out but we didnt make a big deal out of it. it was around christmas. now its like 3 months later and im starting to like him again. he doesnt know.. but it seems like he wants to be with me alot more. he is always volunteering me for things in school, like today in math we did this thing with judges ((dont ask)) and he was like.. she would be good at it!! and i was like.. but i dont like to talk.. and he was like.. shut up you love to talk you talk to me all the time.. and then at lunch he kept looking at me and whenever our eyes met he would smile at me. im not sure if i should tell him or not. (link)
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i think you should tell him thats the way relationships start! =D i mean you guys could go out for a while if you tell him =D
hope i helped
xl h0ll0w li3s lx
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