okay, let me break it down for you...my best friend (lets call him X) has a girlfriend, and his girlfriend is my friend (but not like a best friend) and i told X that i liked him. He said that he had liked me for like a year and a half before he got together with his girlfriend. So, we are still best friends, but i dont know what to do. Should I still like him because i know that i dont have a chance because he's already got a girlfriend and they are close (but i dont think he loves her as much as he says he does..)? Should i just like him as my best friend only? Or should I keep loving him, and he will never know how much I love him? Help! Im so confused!!
Additional info, added Saturday April 23 2005, 10:48 pm: (by the way, i have already asked him who he liked more and he said its really hard to choose but he would pick his g/f over me...but i dont know what to do) Please help me!!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xl_h0ll0w_Li3s_lx answered Saturday April 23 2005, 12:05 pm: Well i know what your going through cause thats how it is with me.. because yeah he dumped me but claims he still likes me but is still with her and say's he loves her and shit but i think you should be his bestfriend but secretly love him ..and then when they break up you can tell him and maybe he has as much feelings for you as you do for him ..and maybe he is thinking about you and wants to be with you but just doesn't want to tell you cause he scared you'll feel different and scared his girlfriend will find out ..
TheTeenGirl answered Saturday April 23 2005, 1:40 am: He needs to break up with his current girlfriend. You said that he told you hes loved you before he even got with this girl, so either he still likes you, or he is getting over you as hes falling in love with his new girl. If you don't know the answer, ask him. You already told him you liked him, so find out if he likes you back enough to let her go. But, after you ask him, you won't be confused anymore, simple as that. But it sounds to me like hes wanting to be with this girl, because I think he would have left her right after you told him your feelings. But yes, basically talk it out, don't be his best friend struggling with what might and might not happen.
iWALKintoWALLS answered Saturday April 23 2005, 12:28 am: dont give up too soon. keep him on your mind. it sounds like you really like him and i know exactly how you feel beacuse im going throu the same thing rite now except the guy is telling me he loves me backk...veryconfusing trust me.
. just dont think about him so much and be waiting for him so long that your missing out of having fun. give him a month, if he's still with the girl he's going out with then, accept him as a friend and try to move on, you got time to change...and he has time to change...good luck...i hope i helped
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fluffy answered Friday April 22 2005, 11:37 pm: i know this must not help much but follow your heart when u see him youll see him like your best friend or your future boyfriend goodluck
ad0rkable answered Friday April 22 2005, 11:09 pm: I think you should ask him how he feels about you and his girlfriend. Who does he like more? I hate to break it to ya sista, but you need to take action if you think you have a chance.
cUrLyHaiReDcUtiE16 answered Friday April 22 2005, 10:56 pm: heyy .. just like him as a best friend only for now until he breaks up with his girlfriend and then you can love him thats all its very simple
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