Alright, so.. I'm torn between two people. I was asked to this dance, by a guy completely out of nowhere.. I mean, he was more of an older brother than anything.. I was hoping the guy I like would ask me, (( keep in mind I've liked him since sixth grade )). Anyway, so.. I'm not sure if should give up on my crush and try and like my friend.. or still hold onto my crush.. By the way, me and my crush are really good friends too.. have known eachother since kindergarden..
xl_h0ll0w_Li3s_lx answered Saturday April 23 2005, 12:01 pm: well ... i think you should find out if your crush is goin with someone and if he's not then go maybe we should go together and then tell the person that asked you before that you would but you already have a date and if your crush already has a date then go with the other kid that asked you in the first place. .<3
EJ47 answered Saturday April 23 2005, 10:52 am: I would go for your friend. You know each other, and that makes things so much easier! You've got it made!! He could have feelings for you and you don't even know it. If you havent made a move on your crush by now, just let him go.... don't push your friend away for someone who could be in love with someone totally different. Go for your friend ^_^
Mackenzie answered Saturday April 23 2005, 7:42 am: In that scenaRio, I would go with the one who offeRed fiRst, but peRhaps that's just me?? Only *you* can deteRmine this one. Since you aRe so close to both of them I can only hope and assume that they should be able to accept and Respect youR decision. Just be honest and upfRont to them -- don't lie! This is *youR* dance, theRefoRe *youR* call. Do whateveR will suit YOU best. WhateveR you do... don't let anyone else Ruin this foR you. You only have so many school dances, and they'll be oveR befoRe you know it; so make the most out of them, and live it up! I wish you the best; hopefully I've been of some help. =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday April 23 2005, 5:29 am: i think you should stay with you crush and give him a change to come round. If this guy you dont know asked you mabe you could dance with him and show your crush that You cant wait around for ever for him to ask you out.
ad0rkable answered Saturday April 23 2005, 12:38 am: So your crush asked you? If yes, then I would go with your crush since you've been "crushing" on him. Your friend is in a rough spot too. He asked you. That takes a lot of guts. It's gard to decline people, I know. But you have to decline someone!
Micah answered Saturday April 23 2005, 12:34 am: well... i dont know how they do dances where you are but here just because you go to the dance with someone doesnt mean you have to like them. i would say go with your friend, you would probably be more comfortable with your friend. but you can still like your crush. dont give up on the crush. follow your heart..
Teza answered Saturday April 23 2005, 12:31 am: Maybe you should go with your friend because he asked you first. Dont give up on your crush or anything. You can still hang out with him at the dance and stuff and I'm sure he likes you. Just wait a little. x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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