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okay, where to start. well i was going out with this boy named Alex. and i liked him alot and everything but he liked me like a thousand times more. well like every night this boy Lane would call me tryin to get with me, but i never thought anything of it. well about two months passed and me and Alex had already broken up. Then Lane was going out with my friend Addair who can't keep a boyfriend at all. Well she was grounded and me and Lane and all my other friends were all friends so we were goin out together and Lane started liking me that night again. me and Lane have kind of like always had a thing for eachother. well the next Addair brok up with Lane cause like i said, she doesn't like keeping a boyfriend. then Lane asked me out. so i said yes. i have never had a boyfriend like Lane before. it was so much fun with him, like we experienced so many new things together. we went out for 3 1/2 months and then at this fair thing we have in my town, his friends from his school were there [we go to different schools] and he started acting like a COMPLETE JERK. like it was so weird, he was never that bad. so then i couldnt take it and i broke up with him. then i found out he acted like that so i would break up with him. that hurt. i was sitting there crying so hard and all he could say to me was stop shaking. so then we went a caouple days without talking, and then i called him. i was like, Lane, what happened? and he basically told me he was just tired of having a girlfriend and he wanted to be single. i never wanted to break up with him. so then the first weekend after we broke up we were hanging out at the mall with all our friends and he was acting like we were like, "together" you know. and it made me so mad. but i couldnt help but like it cause i like him. then the next day me him, my best friend Taylor, and her boyfriend which is Lane's bestfriend, Kyle all went to the movies. well Lane likes kind of "simple" girls in a way. and well, i dress kind of not simple sometimes. i like acessories and style and stuff. well at the movies that night he decided that he wasnt gonna hang out with us because of what i was wearing. i mean how frickin low is that. i was so mad. cause then i was stuck with Taylor and her boyfriend and oh my gosh that was like hell. well then i had people over at my house the next monday and he was one of them. we flirted like crazy and like, i can tell there's chemistry there. but i just don't know how much. well then last night we went to the movies again, me Taylor, Kyle, and Lane. well me and Lane used to always go to the movies together when we went out, alot of stuff happened at the movies. so it was hard. cause you don't know how bad i just wanted to start making out with him. well then he started trying to kiss me and he held my hand and i resisted for a while but uhhh i just cant resist that boy. so then we were like all together and it was just so confusing and he was like i still like you and i shouldn't have ever broken up with you. my friend Taylor doesn't think i should go back out with him anytime soon. my friend Caela thinks i deff. should. my friend Addair is in the middle. so i am so completely confused. i dont know what he wants, i dont know what i want, i dont know what my friends want. so can you help, please? sorry its so long, lol.
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Ok. So yes that was long lol. So I think after what you have explained about this boy "Lane" that he is a jerk. I dont think you should go out with him after seeing how he acts. And that is completely rude to say you dont want to hang out with someone because of what they are wearing. He seems kinda bipolar to me. It means like sometimes hes happy and stuff and other times he is weird and jerky. So yes, my final verdict is DONT go out with him again. Listen to your best friend Taylor. Best Friends always know best. Hope it all works out!
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heyy. well, last year i liked this guy and i thought he liked me too and everyone else was telling me that he did too but we're both kinda shy so we didn't really talk that much. well, i never really found out if he liked me or not..but he stopped hinting and i heard from my friend he was saying mean stuff bout me. well, this year i saw him againn and i still like him. he is kinda like in the what u would call "popular" group and well im not but i still like him. what should i do? please help ♥ (link)
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Hmm. Well boys are a tough subject, because you dont really know exactly what they are thinking. But what i can tell you is i have had an experience just like this. i liked a boy and i had heard from people thta he might like me too. one problem im shy as heck. so then a summer passed, i still liked him, we hung out a couple times but then school started. he totally changed. he acted like he didnt even no me. but then a little while after i moved. and my friend told me over the phone that he HAD liked me. i was angry. but my advice to you, give it a shot. like one time when you are with him alone be like hey wanna hang out sometime/ see a movie. remember that the worst he could say is no, its no big deal. hope that helped!
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ok well im 15 and i still havent had a boyfriend. guys have asked me out but im afraid to go out with them. i have no idea why!! its soo frustrating becuase i think its that mabey im afraid to have my first kiss or something i dont know but should i be afraid. and plus all of my other friends have had boyfriends except me only becuase im scared. is that normal becuase i feel really stupid.. please help me any way you can. thanks soo much
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well cristin, dont worry. youre not alone. im 15, ive never had a boyfriend either. ive had opportunities but i feel weird about it. remember, its NOT just you. even though it may feel like it at school, its NOT. dont feel like you are stupid, you are a very smart girl. you are probably waiting for the right guy to come along. hope that helped. good luck girl.
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what is your opinion on a 16 year old girl going out with or liking a 14 year old guy. i turn 17 in may but this guy will be turning 15 in january. soo yeaaah..too young? i know it seems like it kind of but i have such strong feelings for him (link)
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well in my opinion i think its too young but that is partly because im almost 16 and my brother is 14 so ehh it seems gross to me. but it is all up to you. if you really like him i would say its fine. its all what you think.
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Ok I have ProActiv and i used it and my face got really dried out so i stopped using the toner and cut down on the amount of cleanser. Now the acne is like still there and it has almost been a week and i dont think its getting slightly better. is this normal? (link)
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well im not a boy but i think i can help. i used to use proactiv and it worked great. the toner is what dries your face up but it is also what gets rid of the acne. so i think you should start using the toner again and use the lotion after it or use your own type of moisturizer. but remember, proactiv doesnt always work for everyone so if this doesnt work i would try something else. good luck!
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So I like this girl and me and her have talked about likeing eachother but she has never flat out told me yes or no. So should I just take a leap and tell her I like her, or should I just ask how she would feel about me and her getting toghter and if she likes me . Any advice would be appreacited... (link)
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hi there. well i think you should take the plunge and tell her. the absolute WORST thing she could do is say no. and if you dont and she gets with someone else later, you will really regret not asking her out. good luck with her!
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