hey my name is Sam and im just ur typical teenage girl struggling with boys, friends, school, family, and the drama of high school. dont be shy to leave on in the inbox ill answer just about anything :)
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whats your opinion on a freshman dating a junior?
Please Help all i want is opinions
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i think its fine as long as the freshman is mature. i think it may be tough sometimes because the junior prob has a lot more experiences and they prob have different friends. But if they work through that or that doesn't matter then go for it!
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my bf gave me a hickey on tuesday and it hasnt lightened at all or anything..i mean its VERY noticable. its like very dark. i can wear my hair down the rest of the weekend and to school on monday. but for cheerleading i have to wear my hair up so idk how im going to do that without my whole squad seeing it cuz trust me they will. can anyone help mee!?
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ugh thats what happened to me. my bf gave me a hickey and i had to put my hair up for cheering so my whole squad saw it, friends, and parents! =/. I didnt try and cover it up tho so if you have a good foundation or coverup it should cover it, just keep reapllying it. Also for cheering, after everyone saw mine i had on a fleece that i could zipper up to hide my neck if you have something like that you can do that too.
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Im making my boyfriend a mix cd of love for our 1 year ann. and i need to know some rock songs that are about love, my goals is 18 and i have 10
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i made a love cd for my bf here our the songs i included...
Only One- Yellowcard
I Dont Want To Miss a Thing- Aerosmith
Collide- Howie Day
Tiger Lily- Matchbook Romance
Best of Me- Starting Line
You and Me- Lifehouse
I Miss You- Blink 182
Back At One- Brian McKnight (i know its not rock but its a really good love song)
Amazed- Lonestar
I'll Be- Edwin McCain
One Year, Six Months- Yellowcard
The Luckiest- Ben Folds
Wonderwall- Oasis
I'll be There for you- Bon Jovi
Dreaming of you- Selena (again not rock but really good)
hope this helps :)
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I have a question about this guy that isnt my boyfriend, he is just a friend of mine. Well I was talking to him one day about my grandmother and how she was coming down from her city which is about a 6 hour drive away to see my appartment for the first time. While anyways, after telling him this he said quote " and how is grandma doing"? I thought this was strange since he isnt even my boyfriend to refer to her as "grandma" instead of "your grandma". I mean by the way he said it it sounded like he already thinks of my grandma as his grandma too! Does anyone else find what he said strange? I would never refer to his mom or grandma like that!! (link)
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i think he was just trying to be funny or something .. its not that he thinks of your grandma as his grandma too.
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my bf, his friend jason, my friend and her bf and some other ppl all went to the movies. my bf sat in between me and jason, and most of the movie he seemed more interested in talking to him! meanwhile my friend and her bf were making out like right next to us. and they've been going out less than a month! when jason told him (my bf) to kiss me he said "i dont want to kiss her now. i will soon" (we havnt kissed yet) the problem is tho that that was the same thing he said to his other friend when he told him to ask me out, and it took him like a year to ask me, and even then i had to bring up the subject and stuff. i dont want to wait forever just for him to make a move. like i said, its been 3 months already. i definately dont want to kiss him first tho. what should i do? (link)
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you should make the first move. hes prob just nervous and someone needs to break the ice. plus, guys like it when the girl makes the first move. theres nothing to be scared of i mean its not like hes gonna pull away, he prob wants to and much as you do. if you really dont want to make the first move then you should talk to him because its really weird that he has waited so long. good luck =]
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i don't really know what i'm asking specifically..i just need general advice. i just started dating my current boyfriend. it's been a little over two weeks. i'm just wondering..for all of you with boyfriends..how long did you wait before you kissed him and how long have you been together so far..and for those who don't..how long did you wait before you kissed your last boyfriend..and how long were you together? i just don't know how long i want to wait. don't tell me to wait until i'm ready or want to..because i am going to do that. its just my ex left me with some trust issues..though i do trust my boyfriend..and i don't want a redo of my last relationship..which was way too physical. so your input will just help me a ton.
thank you so much. (link)
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i have a bf, well be going out for a year in less then a month, and we first kissed only a couple days going out.
i know its hard to trust new ppl when others let you down, but just remember that not all guys are ass holes.
hope i helped
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Alright here is the story. I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 days ago because it didn`t feel right and I kinda wanted to explore with other guys. The problem is I still like my now ex alot and I dont want him to get with another girl! I Don`t know if I should go back out with him or just explore or what to do at all! Any ideas?
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well its not fair that you want to explore with other guys but you dont want him to be with other girls. i dont think you should go back out with him right away. its normal for you to miss him, but you broke up with him for a reason. go out and have fun with other ppl for awhile and if you still feel like you really miss him, try to go back out with him
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My guy friend and I have been friends since frosh year. We talk a lot on AIM and in person.
Recently, we've been chatting more and sometimes I get vibes that maybe he likes me more than a close friend.
Our first home football game was a few weeks ago and I got him to come to it cause another friend of ours was moving that weekend to Maryland. He came after his play practice and we hung out after the halftime show(yeah marching band!).We walked towards our homes together. Across the street from his house, we chatted for a few and then hugged. I think he might have kissed me on my forehead. When I hugged him, everything felt right in the world. Then I told him I'd wait for him to cross(cause its a main road and it was 10 at night). He said "So you'd know if I die, right?" and I said "Yeah, but I don't want you to die cause I love you." He smiled and crossed then we met up on AIM when we got home.
On days that I have my private flute lesson, sometimes I see him and he comes over and sits by me. We usually chat about random things.
We usually say hey to each other in school. Online lately we have been chatting a little bit more on the sexual side. We had a conversation about balls. He says he trusts me a lot and that I'm his close friend(he doesnt believe in best friends). We have pretty much the same personality and music tastes.
The other day, we walked to the music wing together(I have band the same period he has choir). We were chatting and we were both late by 2 minutes to class.
Usually he doesn't say anything to me when he can't chat, but now all of a sudden he says "can't talk now, going to eat dinner/do a project. sorry!"
He's also started holding the door for me and making me smile more.
any ideas. Sorry this is so long. (link)
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aww he so likes you =] ask him to hang out alone more! keep it upppp
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i am 13 years old. im a girl. a lot of people think that is too young to have a boyfriend. there is this one boy in my home room class, and everybody in the school ( well, just girls ) like him! he is still one of those boys who make stupid noises during class and act very - well not their age. younger, lets say, about 10 years younger! but he is verrry cute and i dont know what to do. i have liked him since 5th grade, and he asked 3 people out then. how do i know if he likes me? im way to shy to tell him that i like him, or ask him if he likes me. he talks to me, but also soooooo many other girls, so i cant tell who he likes. what should i do? (link)
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ok first of all 13 isnt too young to have a bf, as long as your mature enough. just remember, looks isnt everything. you dont want an immature bf, because hes not gonna treat your relationship seriously. its good that he talks to u, but since he talks to so many other girls you cant really tell if he likes you. since your too shy to tell him you like him, you should try to find out who he likes. do it casually, and if you dont want to make it obvious you can even say its for someone else.
p.s. be flirtY ;]
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Well ive been cruching on this guy for like EVER! well tonight i finally told him. and we didn't get to talk anymore about it b/c someone walkied around the corner. but i just want to know if it was stupid of me to tell him or not? he is like always staring at me and what not, or he was idk if he still is but i need help!
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i dont think it was stupid of you to tell him because if you didn't then you never would have known what could have happened. and the worst thing that he could say is that he doesn't like you like that, but atleast you gave it your best shot and took a chance. and if hes staring at you then your chance is a good one ;] goodluck!
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Well this young man, is all that I am looking for right now, I am so afraid to give him a chance because I had just jumped in a relationship last time and got hurt. So should I follow my heart or should I weight things out first? Please Help (link)
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i think you should get to know him more before you go into a serious relationship. hang out with him as friends alone for awhile, and maybe ask around about him and see what his reputations like.
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ok i am a white girl and I like this black boy. Well he is the type of guy that is touchy feely, and I was fine with it at first, but now it is so much, every time he sees me he want to put his hands down my skirt, or up my skirt. And now I have people at school talking about me. Saying thats the girl, and heads turn. I like him a lot, and I don't know what to do, cause I don't want to hurt him. So Please help me!!!!!! (link)
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just tell him that hes way too touchy feely with you...especially since its in public. if he doesnt respect then dont bother with him. you dont want to get a bad reputation
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Hey, my name is mike. I have a really big problem. My girlfriend and i have been going out for almost a year. We have broken up so many times but then gotten back together. It is getting to the point where i cant be without her. I just know that no one could make me feel the way she does. I just feel like sometimes i have a bad way of showing it. Any ideas?
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you have a wonderful way of showing it and she feels the same way about you, trust me ♥ ;]
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hey umm theres this guy that i like and my friend was iming him and sh asked him if i asked him out if he would say yes and he said yes, so now i want to ask him out but ive never had a bf so i have absolutley NO clue how to say it...please help asap!!! btw im 13/f if it helps (link)
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just say .. hey i really like you and i heard you like me too is this true? if he says yes then just say... wow that makes me happy =] will you go out with me?
simple as that theres nothing to worry about, the worst he can do is say no. goodluck!
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my boyfriends bestfriend and i was hanging out yeaterday, and my boyfriend does not even know and i want to keep it that way any ways we were flirting all day and i know it's really wrong to and he does too but when we flirt it's like we're donig the right thing but it's wrong. im going to hang out with him again and i wondering would i be wrong if i break up with him on his birthday and flirt with his best friend (link)
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aw yeah that would be so mean to break up with your bf on his birthday and then go after his best friend! you obviously dont like your bf very much if your flirting with his best friend and lying to him. and i dont think you should hang out with his best friend while ur going out with him cause its rong especially since he doesnt know. if you dont like your bf then yes you should dump him cause its not fair to him but dont do it on his birthday! and dont go after his best friend right away you should wate a little while atleast
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I really like this boy, but I dont know how to make him like me back! Any suggestions?! (link)
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be fLiRtY =] thats the best thing you can do. ask him to chill with a group of people or maybe just the two of you, and just drop hints that you like him. just dont be too clingy or annoying
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last night i had my first kiss. it was at my friends house. she had a LOT of people over. and so yeah, me and my friend made out for a couple of seconds.
today i regret it SO much. i wish i had never done it. i just turned 13! i guess i am too young and wasnt ready but i cant go back in time. what do i do? arent most happy when this happens? i dont want my mom and dad to find out. its hard to life with myself.....waht can i do? thank you (link)
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13 isnt too young to have your first kiss. you shouldnt worry about it its not really a big deal. but i guess since you werent happy after it then you should have wated for someone special cuz you want your first kiss to be rememberable. the way i think of it is the first time you feel happy after kissing someone, thats your first REAL kiss. theres nothing really you can do because you cant go back in time and undo it.
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hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachother she has been acting wierd around us when i am over there adn she doesnt hang out with us as much and she has a bunch of guys that r just friends that r over there all teh time too adn i feel weird like i suddenly become all protective like her bro! please help (link)
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i dont think your protective over her cuz u feel like a brother to her i think you feel protective over her in a boyfriend type of way. a similiar sittuation happened to one of my friends but in the sister perspective. she had hooked up with her brother's best friend and he wasn't mad at her about it but they actually stopped being friends. However, that wasn't the only reason why. I think you should talk to your friend about it first, and hopefully hell understand. If he doesn't, then you have to respect that, and you don't want to ruin your friendship with him.
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i really like this guy ...and its not like he doesnt know i excist we talk alot but he doesnt think of me in "that" way at all ...he goes for a different type that just is not me ..i dont know if i should change for him or let it go because i am just wasting my time. And hes kinda a bad boy so im not so sure he could hold a girlfriend even if i got the chance ...what do you think .. help me out please ?
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ok you deff never want to change for a guy. if he doesnt like you then hes not worth it. if hes the badboy type and your not used to that, then i think u should just let it go.
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okay i like this guy lets call him bob so at lunch my friend told me that she likes him too and then i was fine with it but then in 7th hour this girl that i CAN NOT stand told me that she likes him also and i was soo madd i like this bob alotttt BUT i also have a boyfriend we've been going out for 7 months but i really like bob and so do alot of others apperantly what should i do (link)
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well do you still like your bf? if you do you dont want to ruin that for some guy that your not even sure he likes you. also if one of your friends likes him its prob not a good idea to get involved and cause drama. who cares about the girl you cant stand tho lol.
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