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Okay, my mom has a friend who has a son. They came over one night and this was the first time I have met him before, he kept on staring at me or just looking at me in the eyes a lot. That night he asked his mom for my e-mail adress and I got an e-mail from him saying " you looked amazing the other night and I think ur really cool, I want to get to know you better," or "do you have a boyfriend" or "what are you most like? Calm and collective, or wild and crazy?"
and stuff like that and I just dont know... is he interested in me?? He's a senior in High School and I am a freshman. What should I do?!?!

Well yea he probably is interested if hes asking you those kinds of things . . . i think that you should reply to the email and start to get to know him better and see if hes a nice guy!!!
hope i helped out

kaitlyn jo

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Okay so the guy I like, I was with him today and he was talking to his friend and he was saying how he'd f*cked this girl and whatever and the way he said it totally put me off him.

But like, my friend said he could've said it just to make himself sound cool which is what alot of guys do but I dunno.

I really like him but I don't want to TRY to get involved if all he wants is to get in my jeans, you know?
So, what should I do?

Well he prolly did that just so that you would like him more but give him a chance and if he trys to do somethin talk to him or try to stay away from him .. idk what to tell ya !!

kaitlyn jo *

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kayy well i was going out with a really cool guy and this girl that used to be my best friend asked him out when we just broke up and she told him she asked me that it was ok to go out with him but she never asked me. so im really mad at her. but now the guy wants to go out with me again but he doesnt like to say no to people like the other girl but i hate her now so i feel like getting back at her so this is the best thing i can think of. is it ok???

Well if you still like him then go out with him .. but you shouldnt do it just to get back at her .. what you need to do is ask her why she lied and didnt ask you !!

kaitlyn jo *

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Well Okay .. Theres this boy i have liked since i met him he was like one of my best friends and stuff i mean i really really love him more than anything and i mean he keeps confusing me like one min he acts like he likes me and stuff and the next i dont know i mean my friend asked him if he likes me and he said i dont know and i mean really this is confusing me and i really really like him.. LOVE / but see thers this other guy i like u kno alot .. and he lieks me alot and he asked me out should i go out with him and try to move on or wait for tha other guy ?!?! please help!!

Well if you really like him then why dont you talk to him and see what the deal is .. .. but if he said that he dont kno then i would go out with the other guy that you really like becoz atleast you kno that he really likes you .. but you can im me and talk to me more about it on
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kAiTLyN jO*

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Hey Everyone. Well i went to someone with this same question on a different site.. but i wanted to see what others thought too.Um before i start..My name is Katie,im a girl lol, & im 14. Okay, well..My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a little over a year now. Well i have a friend we used to be like best friends, but kinda grew apart. Somewhere along the way.. my friend lets say her name isssss..um..Jane.Anyway like i was saying, somewhere along the way Jane & my boyfriend started being "best friends". Well he calls her everyday & stuff. It sorta makes me feel bad. Now i duno whats the real story behind this.. but ive asked them before if they had a little more something going on.. but they both said no. i wana believe them.. i really do. But for some reason i have a little bit of doubt.And once i even heard he asked her out when we broke up but of course we got back together. I feel like a jealous girlfriend. Am i over-reacting? Soo what do you guys think.. do they like each other & if you think so..what should i do?? im so confused.PLEASE HELP!Thanks so much!!!

Nooo your not jealous most girlfriends are kinda like that becoz they actually trust their boyfriends but if he pays more attention to her then you and talks to her mor than you then i wouldnt even go out with him!

kaitlyn jO*

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I liked this guy in the 5th grade... I was the first girl to like him in our school. (He was new then) I got over it even though I still liked him. He didnt even know me. In the 6th grade we were hanging out alot because we had a friend that both us hung out with. After two months of hanging out and talking, he asked me out. I said yes. We were going out for 2 months. During that time I got my first kiss. And I was just so happy. Well after two months I broke up with him because I got a note from a girl who was like stay away from my boyfriend. (No one knew about our relationship) And I was threatened and everything I was so heartbroken. I broke up with him and we moved on. Even though I still liked him. Then in the 7th grade he asked me out again. I said yes but he made me promise that I wouldnt tell anyone because he was going to surprise everyone on Friday and tell them, in a special way. Well I told my best friend and the next day during lunch she told like his whole table. A guy that sat with him said he is going to break up with you and I believed him. I couldnt have my heart broken I have a reputation as a tough girl. So I broke up with him again. My heart was broken but I still loved him. About 2 months later, I was sleeping over a friends house and someone was staying at his. We were on the phone from 8pm until 2:15am. My friend fell asleep and so did his so from 1:30am until 2:15 we spent talking and saying I love you and and all this sweet stuff. But he never asked me out again. We stayed like that for a long time. We still are close but no more sweet stuff. I miss him and I read his profile online and reminded me so much of how I feel and how much time we spent togehter it was almost like he was writing it for me. I am still in love and I was before I read it but now that I read it I fell. I fell so fast that after I finished the last word I hit the ground. I love him so much. What do you think I should do? Should I tell him or leave it bee?
PLEASE TELL ME!!! NEED HELP! ANY THING!

You should ask him if that is about you and if it is then tell him how you felt becoz it seems like it would be sweet and you both would make a good couple .. If you really like him why dont you just ask him out ?!?! .. Hope i helped !!


kaitlyn jO * screename - - » xdingyxbabex

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Well i broke up with my bf after we dated for 7 months i felt like i wanted to experience more things so i broke up with him.. and now im dating him again and i dunno if i rly love him in my heart i see us starting a family together but i kinda feel like i want some1 new but im not for sure.. wat should i do??

You should date around with other guys to see if you feel the same way that you do with this guy tyhat your with now but atleast you kno that you could go baq to your b/f !!

kaitlyn jO*

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OK so there's thig guy I like. I've liked him for like3 or 4 years. Now he met this girl whos like completley gorgeous and they make out and stuff like all the time. I think he might like her. I think he knows I like him, but what do I do?

Talk to him and find out if he really does like you but if all he wants to do is make out with grls then he prolly isnt worth your time !!

kaitlyn jo*

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My boyfriend and I are going to seperate schools next year and I think its going to be hard to stay in touch alot but we both really want to stay together because we love each other alot.. does anyone have any tips that will keep us from drifting apart?

Well you can always talk on the fone and online and hang out on the weekends and do things like go to the movies and stuff like that !!

kaitlyn jo*

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tomorrow is my me and my boyfriend's anniversary. I have NO MONEY, so I want to make him something special. I've already made him:

-nice cards
-letters written on fancy stationary
-little booklet things
-picture frames with our pictures
-drawings, paintings
-scrapbooks
-memory books
-love quotes
-etc.

Is there anything REALLY special that I can make him that's not one of those things? I honestly can't think of one thing. Thats why I need your help. Kthnxbye.

Well you could have a really romantice dinner or you could show him a good time like watching a movie or something like that!!

kaitlyn jo*

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you see iv liked this girl for a few weeks and she means the world to me..she knows i like her A LOT but i mean iv never felt this way about someone but the problem is like i dont really think we EVER have a chance going out because shes like more a friend and she doesnt like me anymore than a friend can someone tell me what to do ?

i'm pretty sure that at one point she might like you but look for other grls !!

kaitlyn jO*

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okay heres the downlow. Whenever my boyfriend is around girls he always flirts with them, even if i'm right there. then when i talk to him about he'll either say i never did that or oh i'm sorry i won't do it again, but he never changes! I don't know what i should do. Part of me wants to break up with him and another part of me doesn't! So what should i do!!??

I'm 13,Female

I think that you should dump him becoz he isnt treatin you like a grlfriend at all !!


kaitlyn jO*

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ok i got a boyfriend that i love with all my heart. we talk on the phone everynight.. we talk from 10:30 until 1 sometimes 3 in the mornin and when we talk we basically talk about nothin but i love doing it except my mom doesnt like. last night she took the phone away from me and wouldnt even let me say bye. and i need to figure out how i can still talk to him at that time of night without gettin in trouble?? it isnt because i dont i call waiting on my phone and i dont know why she complains.. it shouldnt bother her she is usually sleepin during that time.. and plus it is summer and i dont have school the next day.. i would like to know some way so that i can get the phone and talk to my boyfriend without gettin in trouble?? thanks.

Well why dont you start talkinq to him earlier in the day or whenever your moms not home .. Or you could talk to him on the computer .. Hope i helped!!

kaitlyn jO*

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On Xxrocker's column page, I posted a huge question about this girl who I was friends with, but had a crush on. I asked how to tell her that I like her. Well, now, I've told her, and she sent me a huge long email, where every other word was "sorry", and that she liked me as a friend, didn't want to break the friendship, I'm the coolest guy she's ever met, etc. etc. etc.

I tried to shrug it off, I e-mailed her saying that I really didn't care, I was just wondering, all that jazz. Only problem is, ever since I got one girlfriend, I've developed a need for them in my life. I'm really scrrewed up now, I keep thinking about her... I need her... or someone... only problem is, there's no one else! My only other girlfriend ever was online, and she's never on anymore! I'm kinda messed up now, even more than I had been when I thought she liked me.... Everyone was sure that she liked me and had been flirting with me all year, I shoulda accepted their bets.

Fellow advicenators, what should I do?

Dont just focus on her there are other grls out there for you and you never kno this grl might like you later on ! Hope i helped !!

kaitlyn jO*

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Ok so my dad teaches a 10th grade guys Sunday School class, and im friends with all of the guys in there. well i recently went on a youth trip with my church and several of them were there. I got to talk to them alot. im just friends with some of them,but i realzed that i kinda liked this one guy. he is really funny and really cute. im really good friends with his best friend so i asked him what he thought about me liking his friend,and he thought it was an awesome idea ,and said that they guy had thought of asking me out before. Well see my dad is really good friends with these guys and they absolutely love my dad,but they kno not to touch me because my dad would kill them. so i really want to get to kno this guy better but im scared that he wont want to because of my dad. even though i kno my dad wont do anything to him . haha but the guy doesnt kno that. im really stuck give me some help

I dont think that your dad would touch any of them if hes a sunday school teacher .. why dont you try asking your dad if he would let you date the guy that you like and he might acutally let you .. Hope i helped !!

kaitlyn jO*

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everything is starting to go wrong today two guys played me without me even noticing i feel so awful and depressed its been a few months since my last boyfriend and i really thought it would work out with the first guy i thought he would never hurt me then there was another girl and all the shit he told me i actually fell for it
then with the other guy i was falling for him hes interested in me and everything but now hes saying he has a gf i dont understand this shit
and when i think about it i have no intentions of going out with the second guy
please help me

They are deffently worth your time i wouldnt even talk to them if they are gonna be like that !! Hope i helped!!
kaitlyn jO*

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Me and my EX are talking again.... And I really like him... But i dont like the way he treated me!! I want him to change so0o bad !!What if he says he will change but doesnt and then he will be walkin all over me and I know I wont do ne thing bout it because I love him s0o much !!!!
What should I do !!
Signed ..... Need Help

Well if you really like him then give him a chance but if he does walk all over you then just talk to him but i wouldnt let him do that to me .. Hope that helped !!
kaitlyn jO*

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What do you do if this is Ur BFFE's advice colom!! lol Luv ya Kaityln !! Guess who it is.... I DATED A SK8ER... IS ABDAR THERE WE BUSTED THE PILLOW ON THE FLOOR AT MY HOUSE

Haha madi i love yaa !! We are crazii and your the one that kicked my dog .. it was funny when the pillow busted .. lol i love ya like my own sis!!
kaitlyn jo*

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okay i still love my x boyfriend but everytime i talk to him i always seem to have some reason to fight w/him..but i love him with all my heart? is it because i'm jealous that some other girl is going to come into his life and steal him away? i really need help because for the past 4 months i can't seem to get over him..we've dated 2 times but it never worked out..cause we fight all the time..he used to start the fight but now it's me who does..i love him so much! and i just wish that i could understand why i start fights with him..i've told him before that i'd rather have bad times with him than good times with anyone else..and we've both admited that we love fighting with each other because we ALWAYS make up. i can't understand why i like it though..please help me!! thanks

Well you never kno the fights could get worse and you might actually get over him but you should still have an open mind .. there are other guys !!!!! You could also try to sit down and talk to him trying not to fight about anything and explain to him that you really love him still !! Hope i helped !!
kaitlyn jO ♥

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what do i do, my girlfriend is geting hi on by her ex, but im not the violent type, or the type o confront, so how do i handle it? it really messes with me, cse it seems like she isnt making it clear to him that her and i are together and there is no chance for him... i dont know. but i really love her and this kind of stuff it aggrovating to try and handle...

Well talk to her and tell her that she needs to tell him to stop hittinq on her either that or you could try telling him that you all are together and that you would really like for him to stop hittinq on her!! Hope i helped!!
kaitlyn jo*

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