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advice

okay im 14/f and my bf is 15. right so people say im like " pretty" & like shes a loser or fag or whatever. and i dont get offended because i dont care what other people think. but sometimes i feel like i dont like him & i think thats bad. like i could be with someone else ? but then he tells me he lvoes me etc etc. but other days i feel like i like him no matter what he looks like. im desperate for help .as if this didnt have that written all over it ! =)


..please help hun i just dont know what to do. & now i feel guitly talking to him when i feel like i dont like him.& he buys me all this stuff and he like loves me like too much and i just don't know what to do. and i dont want to hurrt him im his first gf and he said he woudlnt be able to live without me and all that crap etc etc. i don't know what to do !

Well the only real salution to your problem is to take a break from him. Let him know that he is too good for you and that you just need to sort out some things. If he takes it really hard then he might just be desprate because it is his first g/f. When you 2 take a break, see how it works out with other guys and such, then if you feel you want the old man back then stay with him.
I hope this helps you!
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Dear Advicinators,
I'm a 17 year old girl.
I reasently had sex with my boyfriend
The problem is I feel like I'm not as in love as I thought. I've resonly had Eyes for another guy. What do I do?
DA

Well there isn't much to do. You have just lost your virginity to a guy you didn't love. Let him know before you get in too far than you already have. Don't lie to him, tell him so you can end it. Then get to know the other guy. Don't just atomaticly rebound.
I hope this helps you.
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xXx

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Not good. My best friend and I like the same guy and he might like her back and I'm completely jealous annnd she doesnt know I like him.
I just got out of a relationship.

what to do?

This happens a lot of the time. Tell your friend you like him a lot. She then will know. Since you did just get out of a relationship it isn't the brightest idea to rebound to someone right away. Talk to your crush more, get to know him well. Then if he and your friend hook-up it won't last very long and you could just wait it out. If he doesn't go out with your friend then flirt with him and get him to like you.
Don't be jealous, just find yourself a different guy, which I know is hard but their are plenty of guys out there.
I hope that helps you.
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xXx

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I sit next to this really great guy in school (every class except my extra classes[french and music]). Well he has a girl freind and on monday he starts talking to me and he never talks to me. He asked me for a piece of paper. He asked me to help clean glue out of his desk. Then we start talking about our pets. Then yesterday he poked me on the sholder and smiled at me. What does this MEAN????????

It means that you guys are friends. He might even like you, but don't get to any conclusions until he and his girlfriend break up.
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xXx

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Male/16
Ok i had invited 6 of my guy friends over and we were just hanging out in my room. We got sort of bored so we decided to play truth or dare (haha i know). The dares were pretty embarrassing. Everyone had done their dare, so when it was my turn i was in no position to turn mine down. They dared me to make out with my friend Derek until the song they picked out ended. Of course the song they picked was like 4 minutes long. It was odd kissing someone of the same sex, but i kind of liked it. After about a minute we got sort of into it and he started to take of my shirt and kissing my neck. The other guys were laughing so hard. So it was finally over and around 12:00 the guys headed back home. But Derek stayed a little longer. I really wanted to kiss him again so i went for it and, it went a lot farther than i expected...
So the next day he snuck out at like 5 in the morning before my parents were awake and i went back to sleep. I woke up around 8 to head to school and as i was eating breakfast my mom pointed out the hickey i had on my neck. She was like who gave you that, because you didn't have it yesterday and i was like i have to go. So i drove to school totally embarrassed. Just my luck at lunch my gf noticed the hickey and got really pissed and asked me who did it and i didn't know what to say. So now my gf won't talk to me and my mom wants to know what happened. I am also very confused how i feel. I wasn't really attarcted to my gf, but i really did enjoy being with Derek, so does that make me gay? And Derek called and asked if i wanted to go out with him but i don't know if i should. Should i tell my mom and my gf the truth?
Thank you, sorry it was long

If you really do not feel attracted to this girl, then you probably need to end it. You are just lying to her and yourself. Now if this is the first time anything like this has happened between you and Derek, then maybe you are just experimenting. Go out with him and see if you feel like you want to go further in your relationship.
And yes, tell your mom. She needs to know and she can probably help you, too.
I hope this helps you.
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xXx

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I met a guy on an online dating site. After just a couple of days he told me he wanted to meet me. The kicker was that he said he didn't have a car, and that I would have to drive up to see him. Remember, I've never met him, and really don't know that much about him except what he wrote about himself. At first I said yes that I would drive up after work on Saturday, but then my gut feeling and intuition were telling me not to do it. So I emailed him and cancelled the date and told him I wasnt comfortable with the arrangement, and that I would prefer he come up to see me. He wrote back and told me that the reason he didnt have a car was that he was taking public transit to save money, and that he wouldnt have a car until May. Then he said he asked to meet me too soon, and would still like to meet me. My gut feeling is telling me that this guy is a little desperate, and I want to back out of the whole thing.
I don't want to hurt his feelings. What would be a nice way to end things with him, and do you think he'll get angry? I told him at first that I wouldnt mind still sending him some getting to know you emails, but I don't even want to do that anymore. I'm thinking realistically, how is this potential relationship going to work? The guy doesnt even live in the same town as me and deosnt have a car.
Would I be a super bitch if I told him I didn't think this would be a good idea?

You do what you think is right. If you don't want to meet this guy, then don't. I wouldn't ever meet anyone off of the internet personally. This guy is just someone off of the computer, if you just block him and don't talk to him, he will probably get the point. Or, you could just tell him that you don't feel the need to meet him at all.
I hope you do the right thing.
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xXx

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