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Q: okay so im usually the one that is giving the advice, and i REALLY need help. but bare with me because im warning you this is long and if you answer me with a decent answer i will rate you a 5 if you read it all.
OKAY so lets begin...FYI: 16/f
so i have a BESTFRIEND thats a guy...and in our past we went out in 7th grade and 9th grade. In 9th grade we got pretty intimate(not any kind of sex though) and before we went out it took me forever to get him to admit that he liked me, like we would ALWAYS be talking on the phone and going to the movies with our friends and he would hold my hand. soooo we went out or whatever then broke up because he liked another girl. well its a new summer and just recently we have been talking on the phone a lot, and if i dont call him he calls me, which has been the past 3 times and hes like so you werent going to call me? and i go yeah i was just i was waiting a little longer. then the other night i kinda got upset and sad and he could tell when we were talking online and he was all like tell me, tell me. and i was like no i dont want to talk about it, what does it matter to you? and he was like because i care about you. that right there was like a slap in the face( a good one lol) because he has never really said that to me like that before. and i know he does care about me, because we are SO comfortable with eachother and everything. so last nigth he was trying to get me to tell him what was wrong and i wouldnt. so i was like i love you though and he goes no you cant say you love me unless you mean it, and i was like but i DO in a friends only kind of way, and he goes no you cant tell me you love me unless its more.
i know this is really confusing, believe me he confuses me. does it seem like he likes me? and i really dont know what to do, because we always argue about the stupidest things, and last nigth he even told me he LOVES getting me mad because im so cute when i get mad and the faces i make. but yeah anyways my bestfirend (thats a girl) just thinks its all a bad idea, i kinda do too but i dunno when we went out last time he was the only person i even considered losing it to (of course waiting for at least a year or so) and what is REALLY confusing was, okay well he wants to comeover to make out with me and and stuff, and like im all up for it, but he was telling me how he pictured it and he was all yeah we would be making out then i would look deep into your eyes and i would ask you out again and you would say yes and we would go out for forever,
lol you guys i bet you are SO confused to, but anything will help!!! i need your opinion on the whole thing!!!
THANKS SO MUCH!!!
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ALRIGHT, long but non-confusing. sounds like you guys are going to end up getting married! lol its good that he cares about you, im not sure if you should jump right into a relationship with him because you and/or him might regret it. see how long his feelings like this lasts. id give him a week or soo to see if he is the right guy. also i think it might be a bad idea to have sex with him. ive known alot of people who thought they loved, well they did love them but they completely regreted having sex. not because they got STDs or are pregnant or anything like that but, after a couple times of you know, well yeah lol there boyfriends dumped them. i am not saying that he is going to dump you right after im just saying be careful if you dont want to be hurt. if he really likes you and honestly cares about you, he will make sure you know it! i hope i helped!
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Q: so last night i got really drunk and cheated on my bf and i cant even remember what the guy looked like (i hope he wasnt ugly lol) but the problem is i dont feel guilty about it at all and i know thats not normal..so does this mean i should mabey reconsider the relationship i have right now with my boyrfriend?
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well, if that happend maybe its because you dont really like your boyfriend that much. i cheated on my boyfriend and i really didnt give a shit. lol and i liked him a lot. maybe you thought it was worth it, you should think if your boyfriend really means anything to you anymore. you could still like him its just that sometimes its nice to be risky.
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Q: Allright well im 16/f!
and i just wanna say im like really gettin upset and down on not having a boyfriend. i just want to feel needed by someone and know that someone is always there to cuddle with me,hug me, kiss me. ive NEVER had a boyfriend before but now..i just really want one. i know you cant just say you want one and have one because someone just has to come to you..has to be at the right time. but you see im a shy girl around 120 pounds 5'6 brown hair and eyes..tanner..and i just dont know whats wrong with me?? no guy has ever liked me how sad is that. i just want a guy that i can be with and know that they like me back. im just so sick of trying to look and WAITING ... im scared one will never come i feel like such a loser. but i am so shy as i said before so what can i do to help this? there is this kid that my cuzin likes and his name is bobby and well ive always thought he was hot!! but ive never got to meet him before and she wants me to hangout with him and her sometime soon! i want to get his attention but i feel bad cuz my cousin likes him =p i love her so much that i wouldnt wanna do that to her but it would be such a perfect opportunity and she knows that i think he is hot! well thats not the problem really..the whole problem is the boyfriend thing! lately ive been feeling so down and ugly..and alone.
what should i do?
i'll rate 5 for anyone who helps me
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i completely know what you mean! i hate seeing my friends going around being like yeah me and my boyfriend this me and my boyfriend that. i mean dont get me wrong i love seeing my friends happy but when all of your friends have boyfriends except you it gets depressing. i used to be the one who always had the boyfriends and now im the one with out one! i always looked at boys and was like hmm should he be by next boyfriend! i just went out lookin for cute guys that i thought would make good boyfriends. i was wrong. it make take a while but you will find someone you acutally like. its summer, a chance for you to meet new people and if that doesnt work out, school is around the corner soo there could be new boys =] summer is a time for having fun and its the time you wanna be single soo you can see whats out there!! i hope i helped !
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Q: theres a kid named Aaron that i really like,and hes in seventh grade,im in 8th.im VERY shy and find it hard to talk to guys that i like.i really want to send him a message on myspace or something so i can start talking to him, but the problem is, i dont know what to say!i dont know him very well.i've asked all my friends, but all's they keep saying is say "hi, i know you from school,i really like you, we should go out" or something along those lines, but that isnt anything at all that i'd say.and i dont want to go out with him right away, i just want to talk and be friends with him.he knows i like him,my friends make it quite clear lol,but im not sure if he knows my name and that.
so does anyone have any ideas on what to say to get a conversation going?
thanks!sorry that was so long!
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hey, just be like hey whats up and just gradually start talking to him more. and then later on be like yeah, after talking to you for a while ive started to like you and i was wondering if you feel the same way? maybe we can hang out sometime. talk to you later bye. something casual and not sounding like oh my gosh i like you oh my gosh obsessive. just give him a hint that you like him. hope i helped
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Q: ok so i have been on and off with my boyfriend for about 2 months. He has dumped me 4 times and ive dumped him once and it's usually over a stupid fight and a day later he relizes what he's done and ask me to take him back, and i do. So it's summer and we dicided to keep in touch and stay togetasr. He recently got a myspace and is leaving all these girls picutres comments say damnn or cute pie, and gorgeous and stuff like that. I'll admit it i am jelous but should I be mad also. I dont want to confront him that would be way to awkward , i just dont no if i should be mad. Thankyou!
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oh god, another myspace problem. lol i have seen people getting mad because they arent on someones top eight or they are sending people comments that they are hot. myspace is a place where girls can be sluts and boys can be emo. so yeah i have a myspace lol but dont let the fact that your boyfriend comments other girls because chances are, they live in like europe soo there is no way he can get to them. if it makes you feel better, comment some cute boys! and it give hima reason to ask about it and then you wont feel akward when you are like well why are you commenting all those girls! hopefully i helped!
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Q: There is a guy who i really like and he is so cute. I talk to him a lot and he like me back but when i try to like hold his and and stuff. He also never makes any attempt to like hook up with me but i know he wants to becasue my friend found out. How should i deal with this? (f/15)
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just wait and see if he asks. maybe he isant asking because he doesnt want to ruin wat you guys have as friend. maybe he wants to be friends with benifits? that is what he prob wants. if you want try asking him if he wants to go out with you and see if he wants to and maybe you guys will be good to each othe. hope i helped
~jonelle *rate me
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Q: i still like my ex boyfriend..how can i get over him and move on?
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go out and find other people you are interested in and see if they like you too. it is hard to move on when you really like someone. i am having the same problem but i think i found someone else i like but now i just need to see if they like me and if they dont keep trying. i hope i helped.
Rate me* ~jonelle
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Q: okay i really really really really still love my x but hes a major playa we went out twice and both times it didn't work out but we still talk alot online and stuff but its not the same. i still like him alot but i try to make it sound like i don't care everytime his name comes up in a convo wit me and my friends but i really do care and i really do have feelings for him still! and i knoe that i can have almost n e guy i want i mean a lot of guys like me so y do i want him soo much???
please help me out asap!!
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all i was saying is that you are like oh yea i can get ne guy i want but sry i wasnt trying to make you look or feal stupid
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Q: okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time and now he told me that he likes me back and he says that he wants to have sex with me but im scared cuz it will b my very first time and i don't knoe if i want to loose that respect for myself this early in my life im only 13. and this boy is kinda a player but ive liked him for a long time and now that i knoe he likes me back i don't want to do n e thing that will ruin this. please help me
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listen. if you say he is a player than all he prob wants from you is sex cuz he knows you like him and he thinks you will be ready and willing. you should wait untill you feal comfortable because you shoukldnt do it so a guy will like you. ask him if you could wait untill you feal right and if he says no now then just dont do it unless you feal ready but sisnce your 13 i recomend you dont because since he prob had sex with other girls then you could get a sex related desies such as AIDS ot STDS.
jonelle rate me
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Q: My and my friends are setting eachother on a blind date but do u know where the best places to go would be.......?Remember were only 13 LOL
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that sounds interesting. try going to the movies or to a icecreme place or if there is a party coming um somewhere make them go there
jonelle *rate me
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Q: I really really like someone but i dont think that they would go out with me so .. what am i supposed to do ? i really wanna tell him but he likes other people..?
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been there. you may think that but you never no so take a chance and ask him and see what he says. and if he doesn't like you i that way then try to be friends with him and maybe as he gets to know you he will like you, if this doesn;t work then try to find someone else you like and if there isant one other person.. keep trying. adventually he should start to like you.
the jonelle *rate me
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Q: I have been really stressed out.....and i get jealous when im Ex-Girlfriend talks or hangs out with guys but then i am starting to like this other girl but i still really like my Ex-Girlfriend! What should i do??????????
P.S. i am 14 years old and a male
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i am right where you are. Except i am a girl. listen... the best thing to do is just stay good friends with your ex and just go tot the other girl you like. That is what i did and i still like my ex but going on to other people helps me take my mind off of them.
the jonelle ~rate meah!
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yeah!
~hope i helped~
~*~jonelle~*~
$rate me$
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Q: Hi, my name is Genna. I'm 14/f. Well...I gotta boyfriend that I've been going out for about 7 months now with my boyfriend Tommy. And well...I think I like this other guy David because me and him have been bestfriends for about two years and i have felt the same way about him for 2 years! And I know my feelings for him arent gonna change. And I honestly feel that me and tom are better off as best friends. And if I tell him i wanna break up with him he'd be heart broken. And I kinda know that David feels the same way about me because he told me that he would of asked me out if i wasnt going out wit Tommy, and if he wasnt going out with Amber. Its so confusing and I always think about David more then Tommy!
Please write back ASAP!
Signed...Confuses
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ok i am in the same situation. sorta but talk to david and see if he likes you more than amber and then if he does ask him if he still wants to go out with you and then tell him that you like him and you wanna no if he likes you the same way and if you break up with tommy ask him if you wont be making a mistake because you like him and then call tommy and tell him that you just want to be good friens and if he asks tell him why and if yu dont wanna be a "hoe" then wait like a weeek and then go out with david.
~hope i helped~
*~*jonelle~*~
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P>S> write back and tell me what happened if you went with my advice!
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Q: what if you like this kid ALOT, and he told u he liked u but u werent sure if u could believe him, and u didnt tell him u liked him, and then ur friend started talkin to him, and u were telling him that they should meet and what not and he was like r u serious whats her screen name and w/e.....what if him and u friend end up doing stuff....
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well if i was you, id tell him that u like him, and if your friend did stuff with him i would never talk to that friend again because she knew u liked him alot and she juss didnt care shes not a real friend if she does/did that....and if he did that hes a fuckin whore and hes not worth it..no matter if they were drunk or something...dont take that as an excuse and drank person actions are a sober persons thoughts as my older brother would say
~hope i helped~
~*~jonelle~*~*
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Q: i am really jealous of my friend...she always gets guys if she wants them and she wicked pretty and has a great personality..........
what if i told u that it was you?!?!?!
it is you!
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i dont know how to answer this but everyone is pritty in thier own type of way!
~hope i helped~
~*~*jonelle~*~
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Q: every time i go around my x b/f he pinches my butt, and i dont like it !!! how do i get him to stop???
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well when he pinches your butt pinch his really hard back! lol j/p but you can do it if you wanna but just consult him then next time he does it be like (name) that really hurts my butt and then be like please stop. That what i would do!
hope i helped~
~*~*jonelle~*~
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Q: Ok, this might sound a little weird.. but my vagina keeps breaking out! I don't know what it is.. but there are all these little bumps on it. Sometimes i even get in grown hairs. To top all that off it smells HORRIBLE! My boyfriend went down on me last week and he almost threw up! What should I do?!? HELP!!
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Don't worrie. It is just razor burn. If you shave down there maybe try waxing and it wont "brake out" and for the smells try buy a creme made for you vagina . NOw for the ingrown hairs i dont know what that is but maybe it is from shaving down there i am not sure but maybe you should consult your mom about this. Hope i helped!
~*~*jonelle*~*~
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Q: ok u see my b/f well actually i dunno if i wanna call him that ne more but i still will for it wont be confuseing!!ok u see my b/f was cheating on me with me best friend and i found out he broke up with her then he promised me he would never do it ever again so i believed him i mean everyone deserves a second chance i think and today he was at his cuzins and his cuzin fren my other best friend was there hanging out well her and her brother was there and my b/f and her were flirting then they went in his cuzins room and locked the door then her brother walked in on them doing "something" i didnt wanna know wat that sumthing was i stoped my b/fs cuzin which is like my brother but he really isnt and the girl that did it is like my sister and she has a b/f that god she loves him she would never cheat on him and my b/fs cuzin wouldnt lie to me but my b/f and her are both denieing it and i dont know who to believe!!!Confused
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GOD if he cheated of your break up with him!!! he soesnt deserve you! but thats my advice do wut chu think is rite. Hope i helped!
~*~*~jonelle~*~*
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Q: ok well... i have this really good friend...lets say his name is bob.i'm 13 and he's 14 also.we always talk and i flirt with him... a lot! but he just went through a badbreak up with one of my really good friends...i donno if i should tell him i like him... i donno wat my frinds reaction would be if i asked him out and he said yes...
i dont a wanna ruin my relastionsip with my really good friend and bob.wat should i do?
please help me! thanx bunches!!
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WELL HOLD UP! DONT EVEN TELL HIM THAT! Just kepp things steady like they were b4 like in 2 weeks then make a move but do not do it right away and make sure its ok with your friend that you do this or you might ruin a good friendship. I have been in that situation and me and my friend well actually we are not friends anymore so dont let him in. wait till things settle down and check wit ur friend first! Hope i helped
~*~*~jonelle~*~*~
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~ScReAmIn It: jonelle
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Illinois Occupation: Student Age: 15 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: June 30, 2004 Answers: 86 Last Update: June 16, 2006 Visitors: 7570
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