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ok well... i have this really good friend...lets say his name is bob.i'm 13 and he's 14 also.we always talk and i flirt with him... a lot! but he just went through a badbreak up with one of my really good friends...i donno if i should tell him i like him... i donno wat my frinds reaction would be if i asked him out and he said yes...
i dont a wanna ruin my relastionsip with my really good friend and bob.wat should i do?
please help me! thanx bunches!!
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It's fine to flirt, it's harmless. But give him sometime and your friend sometime, sot hey can get over eachother. She would probelly get bad. Tell Bob, and your freind how you feel. Get the facts and state the truth.
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You should definately talk to your friend before you make a move on him. If she's not cool about it then you need to decide if her friendship is more important than this guy.
If she is cool with it, then I would talk to "bob" but don't come on too hard, he might not be quite ready for another relationship, and coming on too hard right away might just push him away. See how both your good friend and "bob" react to your feelings and figure out what you should do from there.
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I think you should give them both a few weeks to recover from the break-up. Talk to your friend about it and calmly explain that you think you may have feelings for her ex. If she doesn't think it's a good idea, then I would recommend getting over the guy (if you possibly can) and moving on. If she says it IS okay, then I'm sure he still needs a bit of time to get over the bad break-up. My advice would be to wait a bit and not flirt too overtly because you don't want to let him use you as a rebound girl. If he starts initiating contact, then you should flirt back and just be patient. I'm sure he'll ask you out eventually!
Hope I've helped.
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UmM.. ChIk... eye thynk you shuudnt tell him how you feel until a little later.. if you tell him at all.. cuz i mean.. tha other chik is ur friend.. and NoBuDdY lyks to have a friend h0okyn up with theyre ex.. TrUsT mE.. thats happened to me and it ruined our friendship..
::.:: RaTe MeE pLeAsE ::.::
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WELL HOLD UP! DONT EVEN TELL HIM THAT! Just kepp things steady like they were b4 like in 2 weeks then make a move but do not do it right away and make sure its ok with your friend that you do this or you might ruin a good friendship. I have been in that situation and me and my friend well actually we are not friends anymore so dont let him in. wait till things settle down and check wit ur friend first! Hope i helped
~*~*~jonelle~*~*~
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First I suggest you talk to your friend first, ask her how she feel`s on the whole break-up. If she`s hurt then dont talk to her about the way you feel about her ex, it`s just best to wait and let time take it`s course. Hope i helped!!
xO.Carrie
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