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issues with being shy
theres a kid named Aaron that i really like,and hes in seventh grade,im in 8th.im VERY shy and find it hard to talk to guys that i like.i really want to send him a message on myspace or something so i can start talking to him, but the problem is, i dont know what to say!i dont know him very well.i've asked all my friends, but all's they keep saying is say "hi, i know you from school,i really like you, we should go out" or something along those lines, but that isnt anything at all that i'd say.and i dont want to go out with him right away, i just want to talk and be friends with him.he knows i like him,my friends make it quite clear lol,but im not sure if he knows my name and that.
so does anyone have any ideas on what to say to get a conversation going?
thanks!sorry that was so long!
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well you are older so he will probably think you really liek him if you kust send him like a message like Hey this is ***** and I really want to talk to you, SO eamil me at ****** and somethin like that.Then talk to hima while then pop the question. hope that helps
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Oh wow, do not do what your friends said!
Send him a message just like "Hey, I'm [insert name] from your school. Just saw ya on myspace & thought I'd say hey."
It may sound corny a bit, but it works, trust me. Don't say anything along the lines of going out or you liking him. Just become his friend first. Good luck.
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No no no dont say what your friends say.
Thats not the right thing to say, he'll think you're a physco.
Well remember he is a year younger than you, so if you ask him out and he says no, its no big deal. And also since your in 8th grade, your still really young. :)
You can send him a message on myspace, saying something short and sweet like "Heyy I think I go to school with you!" and he'll probably say somehting back, like what school do you go to? or something, and then you can start a comvo that way.
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hey, just be like hey whats up and just gradually start talking to him more. and then later on be like yeah, after talking to you for a while ive started to like you and i was wondering if you feel the same way? maybe we can hang out sometime. talk to you later bye. something casual and not sounding like oh my gosh i like you oh my gosh obsessive. just give him a hint that you like him. hope i helped
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