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another boyfriend story
my friend pushed things with me and this guy and we started going out to soon. we both liked each other but not enoght to be together. well we broke up cause we didnt think we were ready for that type of relationship. well now things are weird between us and i hate it. i still like him and he still likes me but when ever we talk it is akward. i dont know what to do about it. so advice me up!
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i'm kinda of in the same situation, my ex and i are now trying to become friends for now. i still like him... what i would suggest is plan a fun day with your friends and invite him to something thats fun like going to the movies and just hang out with him and treat him as you would with your other friends. i think its best if you start off with friends for now and over a period of time it won't seem awkward anymore trust me. it might remain awkward for now but thats why you need to give it time. it takes time to make things not awkward. i wish you luck and the best.
-Bess
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Okay, well you can make it not awkward,
its only awkward becauseyou let it.
If you act normal, he will be more comfortable.
Just take things slow.
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juss try being friends. you tried the whole relationship thing & it didn't work, so you have to move back a few steps. try talking to him about it. tell him that you'd like to hang out & stuff as friends. if you guys really like each other after hanging out more, then you can move on from there. if you don't start talking to him about it, over time it will juss go away & then it'll get really awkward between you guys.
-hope that helped!♥
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