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If anyone has any personal expiereinces with this, that be great!
Anyway, there's a few guys in my school who i talk to and we're regular friends. But, they sometimes say things to me and i dont know how to respond. They say likie, "hey can I get with you?" "ooh ur so beautiful" and " i give you 9 out of 10" I want to flirt back, but i dont want to make a fool of myself. I know theyre kidding, and flirting, but how can i do the same without blushing, or saying something stupid?Because thats what i usually do. I just sit there and laugh. Does anyone have any lines or things to say back to them??

tell em to giv u a 10 out of 10..lol

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I met this guy I really like at a football game this past Friday.. Well.. he called me Sunday and asked me out. Since he asked me out.. we talk on the phone for HOURS at a time. I mean like 3 and 4 hours for each call.
Im really starting to like him ALOT! Is it possible to fall in love with someone u barely know?

it is possible i think but dont think your in love already. just go out with him see how things work out, and after you've been together a while THEN call it love. hope i helped babe! xox

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Ok, its my boyfriends and mine 1month on Wensday. And I don't know what to get him...what should i get him?

some good smellin cologne..it always works lol..hope i helped xoxo

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I just broke up with my bf. I told him that we'd still be friends but I just wasn't feeling anything. He was ok with it and acted fine. So, why do I feel so crummy? PLEASE ANSWER! I'M BEGGING YOU! I RATE! PLEASE!

Maybe he acted fine because he was fine. Chances are if you were'nt feelin anything than neither was he. On the other hand he could be acting that way because he didnt want you to know how he truly felt. Either way BE friends with him. Just because you decided to break up with him doesnt mean you cant hang out. you can still be friends, just without the benefits. Often times breaking up with someone, does cause guilt so i totally understand where your coming from. My advice to you if you really feel that bad about it u should definitely call him and have a long talk. Talk about how he feels, how u feel, about the WHOLE situation, just get everything out in the open, dont hold it back. I hope everything works out for u! xoxo kara

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ok i guess im not pretty @ ALL... bc i havent had a boyfriend in about 4 years and i havent gone far at all... i need some change in myself to make me hott and get some guys to noice me.. wut should i do? o and this mite be a stupid questiion, but how do u know if ur making out rite? PLEASE HELP

email ur answer to my email adress:
GiggleQueen246@aol.com
THNK U!

i emailed you your question just like u said ..hope u got it! xox

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Ok, well this guy and I just started going out. I like him so much and he likes me too obviously. Well we've only been going out for a day. Today at school I acted all weird. I mean I like him a lot but he makes me shy. I didn't talk to him much and tried to avoid him a little. I really want us to work out as a couple. What do you guys think I should do in order to not be shy and talk to him and such. I have had boyfriends so its not like I'm stupid, this guy just makes me shy like no other boyfriend has. Thanks :)

well, from experiences, its easier to go out with guys that u've been friends with for awhile, that way u know them better, and feel more comforatable around them..hope i helped xoxo!

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I like this boy and he is 17 and i am 13. i don't know if he likes me or not but i talk to him on the phone all the time. we could never tell my brother considering that he is my brothers best friend. if my brother ever found out he would kill me! the boy said if i wasn't my brother's sister he would probably go out with me and i am like so in luv with him. i knew him for a year and a half and him and my brother knew each other for 6 years. what should i do now?

Well hopefully you already know that your brother is probably trying to look out for u and doesnt want to see u get hurt. Although u may feel like your SO in love with this guy, its hard to know wut love is at 13. Trust me i know exactly how u feel. Considering hes 4 years older than u is a big difference considering your age. You might go out with him at look at it for the moment, but just think in another year he'll be off to college away, out of highschool, and you'll be just starting, this could cause problems and its just not a good situation to be in. Often times, (i've been in this position before) older guys like to go out with younger gurls because there are naive and think hmmmm this older guy likes me i must be really special, some of them just think they can take advantage of you. if you've thought about all this and STILL want to consider being with this person my only advice to u is to hav a serious talk with your brother and tell him exactly how u feel, and also u think u are mature enough to make your own decisions. maybe then he might consider not going to the extremes of him not wanting u to be with this guy. i hope all goes well! xoxo if u hav anymore questions feel free to drop them in my inbox..kara

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ok well i like this guy*austin* and he was my ex- boyfriend and i went out with another guy after i went out with austin! and now like 7 months later i like austin again... *sigh* i mean he doesnt think im pretty or hott or nething! and i mean my school is kinda "ghetto" so the guys like girls who have big butts and big breasts and ya all of that stuff! and i dont have ne of that ( i dont care really) but i have a feeling austin likes girls like that i think he likes my best friend
but like when im on the phone with him ( hes like a real good friend of mine) he says he doesnt like nebody which is bull shit b/c he likes so many people! i just dont no wat to do ive tried to get my friends to talk to him saying like omg shes like so hott! yall would b awesome together.. etc. he just makes me feel bad about my self like i dont know just like im a piece of dirt now. i guess he wants to b more of a best friend then a boyfriend right now but still i dont no...
please please i need help sorry if it isnt a great question but i need help on this situation!
thanks//
xoxo
sweetheart00

i'm afraid the only think u can do is let him come to u on his own..u cant rush love.. in the mean time dont wait on him there are soo many more guyz out there for ya gurl!..hope everything works out..much luv..xox kara

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Ok well Im a 14/female, anyway I just broke up with my b/f of 6 months and I feel really bad and now Im regreting it. I just don't kno wat to do I mean I still love him, I guess, but I feel really, really bad. Please help me I don't kno wat to do.

You shouldnt feel bad at all. If it was your decision to break up with him it was for a reason right? If u feel bad ask him if u can still be friends without the benefits. That way hopefully everything will work out..hope this helps..kara xoxo

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ok, well i like my brothers friend.. lets call him... BOB, ok well BOB likes me too and we always talk and hang out and we've kissed and he sometimes gets all playful touchy but just like flirting and stuff and i wanna go out with him but hes afraid my brother will get insanely pissed off at him.. I talked to my brother and he was like "whatever.. hes cool so i dont care" so i was like, sweet. Well i dont wanna ask this guy out cus i just dont, im not scared or nething but i wanna talk to him about "us" but i dont know how.. i dont think this is making sense.. BUT ANYWAYS i dont know how to talk to him about it.. its reatrded cus i can usually go up to a guy and tell him i think hes hot or that i like him and stuff and they would be like "sweet" or something BUT i CANT with BOB... What would you do if you were in my situation?... I rate high..

15/F

i would talk to "bob" and tell him how u feel about him. mention to him that u talked to your brother and he said he's fine with it..see what happens with this..u never kno..hope i helped xox

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ok this gurl likes me and i like her yadda yadda yadda...but she says taht she doenst know if she can take it the next step because i dont go to church regularly...if i did, then she said she would take our relationship further...but i hardly ever go to church...and i usually work on sundays...wat should i do?

Theres really nothing you can do..i mean if shes looking for someone whos very religious u shouldnt change who you are and whether u go to church or not unless YOU want to..maybe if u giv her a good explanation she'll change her mind..otherwise its time to move on..xoxo kara

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16-F There is this boy Jon and last year I really liked him but I never really talked to him. Anyways this year were always talking and were pretty close. We've hung out twice in the past month bc we're both busy. We've made out and he's gone up my shirt. He says he likes me like that and says hes not using me but I dunno something in my head is saying he's using me. When ever I hang out or talk to him he says stuff about fingering me. Whenever I move his hands or say no he tells me how pretty I am or how much he likes me and says how close we've gotten. We're not going out but I think we're headed there. So my question is do u think he's using me and if not do you think I need to lighten up and do stuff with him or forget him and move on. thanx

Don't ever let anyone pressure u into doing somthin u dont want to do or u dont feel comforatable doing ESPECIALLY a guy. If you really like him then u should talk to him and tell him in a nice way that u dont like it when he says and does that stuff to u. In no way should u lighten up a bit. follow your instincts and dont feel guilty for telling him no. Follow your own beliefs on this one..and if he continues to act this way dont settle for him, there are so many more guys out there. ..xoxo kara

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there is this boy who b sweatin me..everywhere i go he follow..but he is a nice friend.but sometimes he just get annoying. How can i tell him to back off..but without hurting his feeling?

ok, well if u mean sweatin u like sex then theres a very good reason he's followin u. U see most gurls when they have sex look at the emotional side and want to be with that person, this time it seems like its the other way around. Explain to him that u were'nt lookin for a relationship n didnt expect one. Although he might not feel so great after u tell him this..its the only way to break the ice. hope i helped and understood wut u meant,,if i didnt tell me what u meant pls do i dont get confused! thanks for listening..xoxo kara

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ok so today i was talking to the kid i like and it was great! we really connected. but i dont think he likes me. how can i approach him and sound like im his friend but not sound like i like him?

yey i kno who art thou is!!!!!! sure u say no way jose but i can help u out missy. i think u should get a ride home..then u will have completed your goal

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Theres this girl i really like thats in my class. The problem is my best friend likes her a lot too. He works with her so we both see each other a lot. I dont want to lose my best friend but i think she likes me more than she likes him. What should i do?

My advice to u is to talk to him and tell him how u feel, if he's a good enough friend he will understand. He should also understand that u like her too, so there are two sides to this situation. Since you dont know for SURE that she like u more, u should wait for her to tell u how she feels, if she even has intimate feelings for either one of you...Ultimately this girl should not come between u and your bestfriends friendship with eachother. Remember relationships come and go but friends are FOREVER. xoxo

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Theres this girl in my class. I really like her, but shes usually not the type i would go after. Shes really hyper all the time and always going after the "bad boys". She hangs around me a lot before class, and even has a pet name for me. She keeps asking me when am i going to take her out to go driving. Is she just being nice or does she really like me? I'm not the bad boy type, thats why this is puzzling me.

Just becus she is after the "bad boy" type doesnt mean every guy she likes is going to fit into that category, girls are confusing sometimes, and my guess to u is that she's hinting that she either likes you or she just thinks u seem like a cool person to hangout with sometime. If shes also asking you when ur gonna take her out to go driving dont hold back..ask her!! she obviously likes u on some kind of level its just your job to figure out which one.. hope i helped...xoxo kara

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Today everybody forced me and my boyfriend to kiss and we did but I totally freaked out as soon as I felt his tongue and jumped back going: Ew! He got really pissed and ran off. I thought everything was over until I saw him and we hugged and he said it was OK. Now he's gone cold on me, hung up on me and switched his phone off. I think I've runined everything but I like him so much. I need help and fast.

If he truly care about you, and BELIEVE me, you will find out soon enough, then he wont pressure u into kissing him just yet. if you've been going out for quite sometime now and you still dont feel comforatable kissing him, then maybe theres somthing telling you that you arent ready for a serious boyfriend yet. give it some time it'll come to u on its own. And if he's giving u the cold shoulder and acting all shady its definitely time to move on girl! ..xoxo kara

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Im in the army, been with my girlfriend 5 years. Im leaving again for iraq for the 2nd, should i ask her to marry me before i ago, just incase i dont come back. i love her with all my heart, i would give my life for her. but do you guys ever have the feeling how do you know if they are the one. its just so mind boggling to me. and advice would help.
thanks
josh

This seems like a hard question to answer. No one can really tell u to marry this woman except for YOU. Chances are, this trip to iraq, and being apart for a long period of time, will make your relationship even better, and you'll grow to love and appreciate eachother even more than before..its your decision to make so think hard!
im sorry i couldnt giv u an exact answer but this is a decision youll have to make on your own..hope i helped out a bit..xoxo

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Hi ! Ok here it goes..This summer i broke up with my boy friend of 10 months for a guy i met on the internet ! Now me and my new boy friend are really close and i love him alot ! But recently i started hanging out with my ex and i still love him too..what should i do ?????

i think that u should def stick to someone other then internet..i mean sure u feel this connection but theres somthing holding u back..its on the internet. I know it feels right in the moment but chances are this internet thing probably wont work out in the future. If u still like you ex go for it, at least you'll get to see him in person. Follow your heart and see where it leads you. hope i helped out a bit..thanks for listening...kara xoxo

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ok so i like this guy and i dont think that he is in my league. i mean we are friends but he is a senior and im a freshman. we are getting to know each other better but he is pretty popular and i dont think he wil ever like me... what should i do?

It's all about confidence girl..Like i say to so many other pple i truly believe, what u think of yourself, and what you "classify" yourself as ..is what other people are going to think of u as. whos to say your not in his league? im sure your a beautiful gurl inside and out so dont think that u could never hav a chance with him..try getting to kno him better find out more stuff about him to see if u really DO like this guy. if u get to kno him better and things dont work out keep in mind that he might want someone more on his level say agewise. i wish u the best of luck!!! hope i helped ,,xox kara

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