ok so i like this guy and i dont think that he is in my league. i mean we are friends but he is a senior and im a freshman. we are getting to know each other better but he is pretty popular and i dont think he wil ever like me... what should i do?
glc answered Monday September 13 2004, 10:16 pm: Find someone your own age or perhaps a year older. Four years is a lifetime in this case. If you want to be friends, go for it. Just stay that way, please. [ glc's advice column | Ask glc A Question ]
xxxxxx answered Monday September 13 2004, 10:07 pm: you could be friends with him but don't bother taking it further because (no offence to you, i'm sure you're cool) but he CAN get girls his own age... you know? [ xxxxxx's advice column | Ask xxxxxx A Question ]
FloridaBabe answered Monday September 13 2004, 9:36 pm: Hey girl! Never give up hope. O and most guys this century are really nice (even the popular ones). I happen to be in your situation alittle while back. I liked this really popular guy and I never thought that he could ever like someone like me. So I gave up all hope until I found out that he liked me too. I was alittle surprised but also excited. You never know, he could like u too. Remember you only have one lifetime, so take those risks. In the end it will be worth it. To every bad happening there is a good ending! Trust me on that one! Good Luck!
~*Michelle*~ [ FloridaBabe's advice column | Ask FloridaBabe A Question ]
icey0990 answered Monday September 13 2004, 9:22 pm: Hey, continue to get to know him and take things from there. Dont automatically set boundaries. This guy is friends with you which means hes interested in you in some way right? Whether its friends or something more is something he`ll find out for himself. Theres no leagues in high school. No laws saying who hangs out with who or who goes out with who. Hes a senior now which means hes maturing (hopefully) and wont have that kind of mind set that theres only the popular girls to chose from. Hell, even i went out with someone who i considered "out of my league" Thats when i discovered theres really no boundaries. The only boundaries out there are the ones you make ;) Best of luck and i hope i helped out a lil?
-melissa :) [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
o0Tina0o answered Monday September 13 2004, 9:12 pm: ya true.. he is a senior.. that means.. next year college..
Just be friends with him.. DOnt tarnish your friendship with him ok? sometimes being friends with someone is more special than a b/f and g/f relationship [ o0Tina0o's advice column | Ask o0Tina0o A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Monday September 13 2004, 9:11 pm: Honey, you're in high school. There should be no "leagues"...I mean, I'm a "choir geek" dating a guy who, like, knows the entire school by name...leagues...? Lol
Seriously, though, don't worry about "leagues". If you're getting to know each other, chances are he's interested in you on SOME level. Maybe only on a friend level, but he's still talking to you and all that, right? That indicates that he doesn't consider himself to be out of your league. Just keep talking/getting to know him and all that. You never know what might happen...
I hope this helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
sweetbabigurl answered Monday September 13 2004, 9:11 pm: It's all about confidence girl..Like i say to so many other pple i truly believe, what u think of yourself, and what you "classify" yourself as ..is what other people are going to think of u as. whos to say your not in his league? im sure your a beautiful gurl inside and out so dont think that u could never hav a chance with him..try getting to kno him better find out more stuff about him to see if u really DO like this guy. if u get to kno him better and things dont work out keep in mind that he might want someone more on his level say agewise. i wish u the best of luck!!! hope i helped ,,xox kara [ sweetbabigurl's advice column | Ask sweetbabigurl A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Monday September 13 2004, 9:08 pm: hey dont ever think someone, especially a guy is too good for you. you are good for who ever you want to be good for. if you like this guy, just keep hangin out with him and hvaing fun spending time like you already have and see where things go. if you grow impatient, you can always take the plunge and tell him how you feel. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
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