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Is he using me?
16-F There is this boy Jon and last year I really liked him but I never really talked to him. Anyways this year were always talking and were pretty close. We've hung out twice in the past month bc we're both busy. We've made out and he's gone up my shirt. He says he likes me like that and says hes not using me but I dunno something in my head is saying he's using me. When ever I hang out or talk to him he says stuff about fingering me. Whenever I move his hands or say no he tells me how pretty I am or how much he likes me and says how close we've gotten. We're not going out but I think we're headed there. So my question is do u think he's using me and if not do you think I need to lighten up and do stuff with him or forget him and move on. thanx
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No i dont think he is using you but i dont think you should go along with something you dont want to do...but if you want to go out with him go for it.
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Don't ever let anyone pressure u into doing somthin u dont want to do or u dont feel comforatable doing ESPECIALLY a guy. If you really like him then u should talk to him and tell him in a nice way that u dont like it when he says and does that stuff to u. In no way should u lighten up a bit. follow your instincts and dont feel guilty for telling him no. Follow your own beliefs on this one..and if he continues to act this way dont settle for him, there are so many more guys out there. ..xoxo kara
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Um... wait, let me get this straight. He's gone up your shirt while you made out (GASPHORROR) and he talks about pleasuring you... ... and he thinks you're pretty....
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Tell you what. If you're that insistent that he doesn't bring you any sexual pleasure while not recieving any for himself, tell him your vagina is laced with glass. If that doesn't deter him, call him a "motherfucking fuckfaced fuckwad" and ask him nicely to never breathe in your presence again.
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well there is no actual way to find out if he is just using you what i would do is keep putting it off as long as you can. And sooner or later if he is playing you he will say bad things and go and dump ya right there on the spot and not even think of ya but if hes really the one for ya and wants to really be with you then he would wait and if i were you i would at least wait for a year or two:P lol i hoped i helped.
~Dom
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If you feel like you are being used, ch aces are, you are. ALways trust your gut instinct. guys seems like all he is intrested in scoring. If he does ask you out, hes probably only doing it so he can mess around with you and he'll probably leave you once he gets what he wants or realizes hes not gonna get it. dont let his little compliments about you being pretty fool you, thats how guys doop girls. you should just leave him alone to avoid being in a tough situation.
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