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I've liked this girl for awhile now, and I've been thinking about asking her out, but how can I figure out if she likes me? (link)
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solightninlove is right. I'm a girl and we are confusing as hell. It's just in our nature. But you really should just ask her out...the worst she can do is say no...and if she does then you'll know that she is not interested and that you should move your interests to someone else. you could try flirting with her a bit to see what her response is...but she may not pick up on it...so I think that being straight forward and asking her would be the best way...and even if she says no she will not only be extremely flattered anyway, but commend you for your bravery. It takes a lot of balls to do that.
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I was just wondering, if someone 18 or older kissed someone under 18 is that illegal?
Nothing sexual, and never will be because I know that is, just kissing. (link)
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it depends upon your states particular rulings. Many have certain age ranges and stipulations...it can be considered illegal in some states, but I would suggest looking for your states laws. You can easily find them online, just google them.
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ugh im so dumb sometimes ..this kid from my class had alot of feelings for me since last year in school i never tho of giving him a chance til this year n we went out for 1 day cus i didnt like him i dont even kno why i went out with him but we never kiss or nothin it was so dumb so now he has a girlfriend n they been together for 5 months and he cheated on his girl with me he said he would leave her because she is always cheating on him so i dont even feel guilty and she always doing bad things and they break up but he always forgiving her and i guess he really likes her so now after he got me to tongue kiss him and stuff now he walks right by me in school like he dont know me and stuff i try to get his attention by talking to other boys but it dont work i dont know wat to do no more...so i did something bad im acting like i like this boy in school n we always together but i really dont like the boy in school so i feel bad for saying things to him i dont mean n he dont even pay attention to nothing...i dont know wat i did wrong..i need something to get his attention im so confused why is he not talking to me =[ (link)
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bahai is totally right...but i think it goes a bit deeper than that...not only are you being used by this guy to get back at his girl, he's also using you to get back at you. He had real feelings for you and by going out with him for one day you totally toyed with his emotions and now he's messing with yours as a form of payback. Karma sucks but it's a lesson we all learn in life. He's not interested. I would move onto someone who actually likes you. It might sound harsh but it's the truth so just take it for what it is and find someone new.
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Hi, I am 13/F if it helps:
I have a LOT of guy friends. Maybe even more than girl friends. All of me and my guy friends are really close. How come all of my girl friends get asked out and I don't? I am not ugly or anything, and I am pretty popular at school. How come none of my guy friends have a crush on me or anything?
Guy & Girl advice would be nice. Thanks beforehand!!! (link)
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I'm about the same way...the way I put it is that I'm "every guy's best friend" and I wish I was kidding. I used to have many more guy friends than girl friends, but I noticed that the friendships didn't survive through most of high school or even into the start of college unless they we're gay lol. Once I started dating this guy and we were really comfortable with each other I asked him if he would ever date a girl who was friends with mostly guys...he said no. He said the big reason was because when a girl is friends with a lot of guys many guys think it's because she's really easy and has been with all of them sexually and many guys (especially those without loads of experience) don't want to be compared in her mind.
But I will tell you now...those years that I had all of those guy friends were the best and I wouldn't give them up for anything in this world.
Chances are you won't be friends with them forever...guys don't really have that long lasting friendship that girls do...but stay friends with them while you can because a strong central support group of friends (guys, girls or both) is ten times more important that any one guy...especially during high school (which I'm assuming you'll be in in a couple of years).
Keep the friends you've got now and when a guy comes along (and he will I promise) he'll probably be much more genuine and caring because he'll like you for you and not the friends you have.
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where can i find in youtube the part where quinn and logan confess their relationship to everyone?
is it also in the movie chasing zoey?
is the series over? (link)
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http://youtube.com/watch?v=zXCOdWte_hI
the quality is horrible but it's the scene you want...I'm fairly sure that they got it off of turbonick...so you might want to go to turbonick.com and see if it's still up...it's part of the chasing zoey movie (you can watch the whole thing on youtube) and yes the series is over...that was the finale.
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okay so i know the titles pretty lame but i didnt know how else to explain it.
anyway, i have a boyfriend but my dad hates him so much because hes a lil older than me. so its been a secret from him. it helps the fact that he's a marine and is away for the time being..but when he gets home i really want to be with him, how can i be with him behind my over-protective dads back? (link)
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Truth is that sneaking around will only make your dad angrier. He will find out eventually and he'll be even more upset and more over-protective because you kept it from him. I've been there, done that. I would talk to your dad and tell him what you're feeling. If you talk to him and help him to understand what your intentions are he'll be much more understanding than if you sneak around behind his back. Just make sure that you show him that you are responsible enough to be with this guy. If you're going out with him tell your dad where you're going and when you'll be home...and stick to that time...if he gives you a time to be home don't argue with it and make curfew. It will show him you're responsible and he'll be more lenient the next time. Also give him time to get to know this guy...invite him over for dinner (with your dad's permission) and let them get to know and understand each other. It'll help a lot. Just don't sneak around...it's one of the worst things you can do.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for four years. I am so overwhelmed with the whole engaged issue. I feel almost like everyone is getting engaged around me, and they have only been with these guys for a month, should I push the engagement issue on him or just sit back and watch these 1 year or even 6 month relationships evolve faster then mine is! (link)
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in all honesty...don't push an issue you may or may not be ready for...he may not be ready for it either. Just because you've been in a relationship longer doesn't mean that pushing engagement is the right thing to do. Those couples you are talking about probably wont even actually get married...or the marriage will probably end badly because they haven't spent enough time together to really know the in and outs of the other. You have a serious advantage on the relationship front. Sit back and enjoy it...don't rush anything.
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I met this guy through my roommate and we seem to have made a connection but know he seems distance. He started acting different one night where my friends said he was trying the pool stick trick but i just handed him the stick and it seems like when i like him he shows no interset but then when im just getting over him he shows up at every corner and calls, comes over and hangs out...Its driving me crazy, i need to know what i should do. Should I go for it or move on and find someone new? (link)
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If you let him know that you like him and he doesn't react in the way that you want than it's time to move on to someone new...but if he gives a positive reaction then you know that you should go for it and see what happens. Guys are confusing sometimes so being straight forward is often the best solution to your problem.
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ok so i use to like this boy ALOT but now i feel like i hate him because everywhere i go hes there like in the comercial for hercuals hooks the boy looks like him and in a game called school tycoon a students name was dustin francis and at the golf coarse today a boy looked just like him and his name was dustin i am so sick of seeing him every where i go what should i do (link)
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just take a deep breath and take a different look at your surroundings. Unfortunately there isn't anything you can do...people will try to tell you to just get over him...but I know from experience that it's truly not possible...but re-looking at everything from a new point of view does change a lot. If you stop thinking about him everywhere you go you might see someone new. There is someone else out there...I promise...but if you keep looking for this dustin guy in everything that you do, you'll never find him...so stop looking (although you may say that you're not looking, if you see him everywhere then you are subconsciously) and start realizing that there is someone else that you're supposed to be looking for.
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I live in lansdowne my boyfriend live's like 15min away we barely see eachother its not effecting the relationship i just miss him and I REALLY REALLY like him please help we want to be with eachother badly HELP (link)
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I wish I could tell you that there was something more to do...but there really isn't...just try to see each other on weekends and weekdays when you can and at times that are convenient for both of you.
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Ive seen him in school. His name is Christian. I dont have him in any of my classes, except SAI which i only have every 3 weeks. We talk on myspace alot. He told me to talk to him FACE TO FACE at school. Is it still to early to tell???? (link)
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when you talk to him face to face you should be able to read him better...you can tell more by his motions and his facial expressions...you can't read someone by myspace messages unless they jump out there and say "hey, I like you." talk to him at school or something...he could just want to get to know you better and be friends or he could like you...but you'll never know unless you get out there and talk to him in person.
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me and my best guy friend are both 14
i really like him, more than i've ever
liked a guy before,i've liked him since
like last december over the summer though
he came out to me and told me he was gay
i still like him though, and i really need
to get over him, what do i do?
& @ age 14 do you really think he could
be gay??
oh and i cant ask my friends, cos im the
only one that knows hes gay (link)
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My best friend is gay...I love him...not the same way you love your gay friend but it was still a shock to me. It could be just a phase he's going through or he could actually be gay...talk to him about it and see what happens...the worst he could do is actually be gay
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14/f
recently i have been talking to an guy 2 years older than me. he lives in my town but goes to a private school. ive hung out with him once and i really like him. his friend told me he was thinking of asking me out. i have no problem with that, i just dont know how to tell my parents. i usually tell them everything but i dont know how they would react. what is an easy of telling them?
thanks in advance (link)
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don't lie to them...don't butter them up too much...the other person is wrong...don't hide him from your parents...if he asks you out let your parents meet him before the date...they'll be a lot more at ease if they meet him first...but don't hide anything from them...they'll be more upset if you do...be honest but make some bargains...say "mom, dad...there's this guy that I really like that asked me out...He's 16 and goes to a private school...now before you say anything...I will be home by whatever set curfew you give me and you all will get to meet him beforehand." This will help ease their mind...they should at least give him a chance...if they try saying no let them know that...everyone deserves a chance.
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Heres the story During summer i started dating this guy and i really liked him. everyone else that i had gone out with was sorta a joke but i really loved this guy. we were together all the time and everything was fine. when school started i noticed him flirting with other girls and my friends would tell me stuff. i would believe some things but i would talk to him and we would say that he wouldnt ever do this to me. one day i was really mad at him for flirting with one of his ex's but that night we worked everything out. then a ton of my friends told me that he was flirting with another girl too and i couldnt handle it. that night i broke up with him and he said he understood. but i still like him a lot and i dont know what to do because i dont think he likes me anymore. hes all i think and talk about and i cry all the time. what do i need to do? (link)
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It's hard to end a relationship with someone you really like..but its necessary to move on to be happy...spend some time going out with friends...don't think about guys for a while...leave them alone...soon enough you'll find a guy who is really worth your time and will treat you the way you deserve to be treated...There's someone for everyone...just keep your head held high and keep looking.
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met my guy early july. he lives in boston, i live 10 minutes away. i go there everyday and spend the day and night with him. we like eachother, without a doubt but agreed early on that we couldnt really "go out" because its illegal for us to date. it sucks because im truly crazy about him, and i never even like guys like this so im shocked. im very mature for my age and i think this is why.
he is moving back home tomorrow, an hour and a half away from me. i dont know what i am going to do. we want to still talk but we havent really figured anything dominant out. he says he would let me stay at his house (his familys home) on weekends but he doesnt know how is mom would feel about me being 17. im just kind of heart broken and its sad to say, but i wish i never had met him now because i dont know what im going to do when he leaves. i was thinking about if we stayed close this year, i could go to school near hm next year but i dont know if i should bring it up or not. any suggestions? thanks =( (link)
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just sit down and talk with him...find out what he wants and explain what you want...if you stay close until your 18 it becomes legal...no one can do anything...but it's really got to be a mutual decision. Don't just choose a school near him for him...choose a school that you want to go to...I know that he'll tell you the same thing...but they're your feelings and it's up to you to act on them.
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ok well me and my boyfriend arent in the same class, and i go to a catholic school and so we pass notes ALL of the time and we have never been caught, i passed him a note today and he wrote back after that class.. and one of the teachers saw us and took it.. it said some bad stuff in it and cussing at our school is like.. "unexceptable" so we both got detentions.. idk what to do because all of the parents kno me as a well behaved person.. i kno this question is really gay but hah i get worried about certain stuff. what do i do!?
kk thanks! (link)
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It's one detention...it's not going to ruin your reputation...I went to catholic school too...it's really not that bad...and I wouldn't worry about what the parents think anyway...just go to the detention...it's not like they're asking what its for.
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yea i guess you are right and see i cant tell my parents that cuz he is a little pretty boy gangsta lol he is so cute though but that doesnt mean yto loose it to him have you been through the same thing?? (link)
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yeah..I really liked this guy and he liked me to and we started dating and he wanted to have sex with me so bad and I just wasn't ready...I told him that and he said he would wait for me...but he ended up going behind my back and having sex with other girls to get his fill. I told him that if he wasn't going to wait for me than he wasn't worth my time and I broke it off with him. I don't want the same thing to happen to you.
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bUt what should i do cuz like i like marco alot.. and he want to rake my virginity.. (link)
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well if you don't want him to you need to tell him that and if he wont wait for you to be ready then he's not worth your time. he doesn't respect you and your boundaries.
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but when this boy marco gets a new he blows me off and wont talk to me until he dont have a lady no more why..?? (link)
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he probably doesn't want to feel like a cheater....tell him how you feel...talk about why you all aren't together and why he goes off with other girls instead...you really just need to talk it out.
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my boyfriend's and my anniversary is coming up next month and I was wondering if any of you could give me some ideas as to what to get him for a present. The spending limit is $50 and some of his interests are..music, theatre, and he's going to college soon...
Thanks! (link)
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get him a ticket or two to a concert of a band he likes or a play thats coming to town that he'll want to go see...maybe you guys could go together as a last thing before he goes to college.
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