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closet life
okay so i know the titles pretty lame but i didnt know how else to explain it.
anyway, i have a boyfriend but my dad hates him so much because hes a lil older than me. so its been a secret from him. it helps the fact that he's a marine and is away for the time being..but when he gets home i really want to be with him, how can i be with him behind my over-protective dads back?
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Truth is that sneaking around will only make your dad angrier. He will find out eventually and he'll be even more upset and more over-protective because you kept it from him. I've been there, done that. I would talk to your dad and tell him what you're feeling. If you talk to him and help him to understand what your intentions are he'll be much more understanding than if you sneak around behind his back. Just make sure that you show him that you are responsible enough to be with this guy. If you're going out with him tell your dad where you're going and when you'll be home...and stick to that time...if he gives you a time to be home don't argue with it and make curfew. It will show him you're responsible and he'll be more lenient the next time. Also give him time to get to know this guy...invite him over for dinner (with your dad's permission) and let them get to know and understand each other. It'll help a lot. Just don't sneak around...it's one of the worst things you can do.
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