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My boyfriend is always putting his arm round my waist and touching me but I never know where to touch him. I don't want to be really outragous or anything, I just want to know how I should touch him.
put your hand in his jean pocket
ok i have a big problem. ok heres the scoop: i just moved to kentucky from chicago. its been real tough. i met my best friend and now we are always together, we are inseperable. but in the beginning of october her brother asked me out. he said that he really liked me and he told every1 i was the one for him and that we were going to run off and get married so now i am like in luv with this guy. he has the religion though of a penticostal and one of their beleifs is abstinence. and well i was raped when i was younger so technically i am not a virgin. his cousin has a really big crush on me though and when he found out that i was with his cousin he decided he was gonna make up a whole bunch of crap about me. so he told him that i screwed 20 guys and he broke up with me not even hearing what i had to say. now he wants nothing to do with me and i told his sister the reason i was not a virgin and now hes still like he cares but its not the same. he still wont even look at me. i dunno what i did wrong we were so happy. Ive been crying over him for about a month now and 3 days ago i started going out with this guy that is my other best friends boyfriends cousin. ( if that makes sense). and today he told me that he likes me a lot and that he loves me. he dosent understand how much weight that puts on my shoulder. i like him but i dont now if im using him to get my ex off of my mind. i want the relationship im in to last because i dont wanna fall apart again and have a breakdown but i really dont know what i should do. and i dont want to break his heart b/c i know hes 4 real. but how do i express what im fellin? please just tell me what you think i should do i need an opinion from someone who knows the basics. thankyou for reading please help me out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
confused/tjlover
The guy that broke up with you first is a jerk, don't go out with him again. Try your best to get over him. The guy that you are going out with at the moment will help you forget about the jerk. I think that you should continue going out with the guy you are currently in a relationship with because he seems really nice and he loves you and thats sweet. Hope I helped. If you need any more advice ask me a question! Good luck!
Hey well theres this one girl who is my bestest friend and shes really nice and pretty but when ever like we go tho the movies together she is always like huggin on her boyfriend and she is alway cancling thing with me to go do something with her boyfrind i hate it we like talk on the phone and stuff but i never get to do anything together cuz she is always doin thing with her boyfriend
signed Confused
I think that you should start doing that to her, yeah its mean but it will get her to understand how your feel. After doing it to her for about a week tell her what you were doing and how she does it and how it is making you upset, she will most likely understand and make more time for you. Hope I helped. Good luck!
Ok so me and my boyfriend broke up like over 5 months ago and after that things just went downhill with our friendship, i mean i tried staying friends with him n talking to him but he didnt seem to want to. So like over the past week everytime I see him, I always get a hug and he's always talking to me in the halls. Then I was at my friends house and he just randomly showed up. I thought I was over him, since he never talked to me but now that he's talking to me and being all nice, I can't stop thinking about our past. I dont know what to do.
I dont think that you should stop thinking about your past. If you really liked going out with him then maybe you should try to start that up again since it would be harder to forget about him. Hope I helped, good luck!
okay well i have this problem..there is this guy and i have been going out with him for about 2 months..and i went to a party with him last weekend..and for some really weird reason..it was really weird to be around him..like i didnt want to go out with him ne more..and hes really nice and all..but i keep comparin him to my ex bf..who is going out with my friend..and he was like my very first love..and i just cant get over him! and its irritating..well anyways back to the current boyfriend situation..he hasnt talked to me whatsoever this week..so im thinkin that i should breakup with him cuz i dont think he likes me ne more..and i dont think i like him ne more..
so here are my questions..should i break up with him? and if so how should i do it (like what should i say) and HOW CAN I GET OVER MY EX! lol cuz i really want to..but its just always coming back to haunt me
It is your choice whether you break up with him or not. My opinion is that you should breakup with him, because he is a jackass. To get over your ex boyfriend I think you should just like try your best not to think about him and whenever you see him dont pay that much attention to him and I think that you should find a new, hotter, guy to like!
so my best friend and i have dated before and we broke up because me and his guy friends didnt get along too well.. he REALLy likes me now and im starting to like him a lot and me and his 'guy friends' are actually really close this year. i guess imjust scared to get hurt again cuz i really put myself out there last time... help??
Tell him about how last year you were really hurt when you two broke up and that you loved being close with him and going out with him and now that he wants to go out again its scaring you because your not sure if you will get hurt or not. Basically just tell him everything you just said up there. And he will probably understand and everything will work out great. Hope I helped. Please rate me. Good Luck!
Hey! (15/f) So I've asked this sorda before but it's a tad different this time. There's a guy on my tennis team that went out with my 'old bestfriend' last year. I'm still really good friends with her but not as close as when last year.Anyhoo, this guy likes me. I don't really want to confront him about it bc i really like being friends with him. I think I've been giving him the wrong messages bc i guess we sorda flirt but it's just friendly, ha so i thought. what should i do now? Ps. sorry for the longness!
I think that you should just randomly mention that he is a great friend and that you are so glad ya'll are friends and maybe that will give him the message that you really like being friends. You don't have to stop flirting or having fun with him though! Hope I helped. Please rate me. Good luck!
Okay theres a boy I like lets call him TS and hes goin out wit one of my best friends, EC! Ts seems to flirt wit me and everyone sais we look like we are goin out. I dont understand!!!!! The problem is that I set them up and EC knows that I like TS. They barely eva talk but I have three classes with him. We talk all the time. Im really hurt because im the one who has to pass notes bac and forth ( there arent too many either ). Wat should I do? Should I tell him? Should I stop helping them?
Im desperate I really like him PLEASE HELP!
If TS and EC don't talk that much then what is holding their relationship together?? They will end up breaking up in no time, but until then you can't tell him you like him because if EC finds out then chances are she will blame you for the break up. Once they break up you need to support EC and then tell her about your feelings towards TS and then tell TS about how you feel. Make sure you leave a lot of time between EC and TS's breakup before you let any of them know your secret. Hope I helped. Good Luck!
I really like this guy, and I thought that he liked me until today. My best friend (who has been has friend for a long time now) told me that he got back with his ex girl friend that he missed. Now, I feel broken-hearted even tho no one broke my heart. I am afraid to see him again, because he knows that I like him.. like him. I feel ashamed. What do I do? Please give me good advice. I really need the help.
Well, here's the deal. I once felt like I almost had a guy and I thought he would ask me out any day because I thought he liked me as much as I liked him, but them all of the sudden he gets a girlfriend and it wasn't me! I was so confussed. But I got over it and acted like nothing even bothered me about him and his new girlfriend and I am still friends with him. Don't feel ashamed. And don't change anything about the way you hang out with him because he has a girlfriend now. Just keep doing the same thing except try to start liking another guy and dont worry about him.
if u make a guy laugh and u talk 2 him a lot and he talks 2 u does it mean he likes u??
Not neccisarily. It could mean that but it could also mean that he is comfortable around you and is cool with being friends. Maybe if you want to know if he likes you then instead of just laughing and talking throw in some flirting and see how he reacts. Hope I helped. Good luck!
Hey, i was wondering if you guys coulg give me your own opion on this...
what do u think about big age differences between people? like what is the highest age difference you can go out with. Hope i make sence here. you kno like auston ketcher and that peoson hes dating how shes way older then him.
thanks
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I think that it is good to have an age difference in a relationship. I would say that about 3 years difference at the most if you were in highschool.
ok there are two girls... there is this one kind of a teensy bit cute girl at my school who likes me...but every1 thinks she is butt ugly.
there is also this hot girl who everyone thinks is ugly but i think she is rly nice and cute. i liked her in 5th grade but she didnt like me.
who should i like???
Not to hurt your feelings kid but you shouldn't ask other people who YOU should like. It is your decision all the way and somehow you probably do know who you would rather like so you just need to think about it more and decide yourself. It will work out much better that way. Good luck. Please rate me!
Ok, well my good friend has a boyfriend, I've known her since I was 6 and her and her bf go on the bus. And it turns out that now I have feelings for this boy and it doesn't go away, and I'm starting to get jelous when he kisses her and things. Am I a bad friend, what should I do?
No! Your not a bad friend at all! It's totally ok to like your friends boyfriend, just try to talk to not pay attention to them when they do things and talk to other people on the bus that you would normally not talk to. Your feelings for this guy with eventually go away and if you start talking to a guy when they kiss then you could start to like him instead! rate me please! good luck!!!
i like this guy,but i dont know if he likes me.I mean i really really like him.What should i do?
tell him you like him, chances are it will work out ok, if not then who cares just dont even worry about it and keep acting normal around him, just make sure you tell him or the chance will pass you by
ok 15/f...my boyfriend just recently started smoking weed well we dont go to the same skool so we only see eachother 4 out of 7 days....so its realy special wehn we get 2 see eachother....well as he was walking me to where i get picked up...he started smoking...he knows i hate it....i just got really mad and started walking ahead of him...he put it away and was like sry im really sry and he stopped and i was being really bitchy and he tryed to hold my hand and i moved away and put them in my pockets...n i didnt even say bye to him when i left....i didnt hug him or even kiss him...i didnt say nething i jsut left!....and i wouldnt look @ him or walk near him....and he was like ill call u tomrrow and i wasl ike dont bother...and i just left....i feel really bad...i mean he was wrong smoking infront of me knownin i dont lyke it...but he apologized n put it away and i was saying mean hurtful stuff to him
btw we been together for 13months...=\...do u think i shuld call him? and apologize?? wat do i say?? (this happened last nite)
you should definatly call him and apoligize but also make sure somewhere in your conversation he mentions that he is sorry for even bringing out the weed and smoking it infront of you
Ok, well I met this guys 3 weeks ago, and we both liked eachother a lot! I felt like I knew his hole life honestly I could of wrote a book on him. In that week we would kiss and make out and the sort and he sort of stuck to me in my heart, well last week on monday we decided to be friends, it was better for him, and I wanted to make him happy, so I agreed, later that day I cried my heart out and the next day too, but never in front of him. We give eachother lots of hugs and we talk on the phone a lot too and i Help him out with his love life too, and I feel like a jelous tention. As much as I wanna be friends, I wanna be a little more too... WHAT SHOULD I DO!
make that little son of a bitch jealous! gosh my guy friend did that to me and i totally made him regret it...it was great and now he likes me and wants to be more than friends! good luck!