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He's back with his exgrilfriend
I really like this guy, and I thought that he liked me until today. My best friend (who has been has friend for a long time now) told me that he got back with his ex girl friend that he missed. Now, I feel broken-hearted even tho no one broke my heart. I am afraid to see him again, because he knows that I like him.. like him. I feel ashamed. What do I do? Please give me good advice. I really need the help.
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Well, here's the deal. I once felt like I almost had a guy and I thought he would ask me out any day because I thought he liked me as much as I liked him, but them all of the sudden he gets a girlfriend and it wasn't me! I was so confussed. But I got over it and acted like nothing even bothered me about him and his new girlfriend and I am still friends with him. Don't feel ashamed. And don't change anything about the way you hang out with him because he has a girlfriend now. Just keep doing the same thing except try to start liking another guy and dont worry about him.
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don't be ashamed. just give him time to see the girl that you really are. you should become really good friends with him first. then you will know if you just want to be friends or if you want to be more. i did that with one guy, we are friends now. he led me on in the wrong way like your guy. then like three days later his bff tells me he has a girlfriend. great right? i was afraid to talk to him at first but i got over it. don't worry. he won't make fun of you or say anything to embarrass you or make you feel uncomfortable. i'm around my guy friend all the time even though i still like him. you can do it. just don't try to give his girlfriend a reason to come after you, ok? good luck and i hope i helped! drop 1 if you need it.
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
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dont feel werid around him just relax and use might better off friends any ways u'll see but u never kno he still might have feelings for u 2!good luck!!!
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Maybe yah should like go out meet other guys and show him what he's missed and don't feel ashamed...I had many crushes on a guy...and They'd always find a girl or something...it hurts for me to see them but it's lil' crushes...
Tell him how you feel or just be friends with him...and or show him how much he missed out...I hope I helped yah out abit *Kelly*
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if he was meant to be with you he would be. your best friend knows you liked him so confide in her, go out have fun...i am sure the right person is out there for you! it hurts now but time does heal. if you see him act normal don`t reun away or avoid him that would seem childish to him but create a friendship who knows what the future holds for you!
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See him and show him what he missed out on. Dont be afraid to let him see you. Act if everything is cool and the fact he's with his ex doesnt even phase you. You are better off without him if he choses an ex over you. Get someone who will notice you.
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That happened to me about a month ago. This friend I had (I really liked) was single (not for a long time) and somehow he found out I liked him. He used to make fun of me (saying "How the hell could you like someone as ugly as me?" just friendly). But then he got back with his ex-girlfriend (Anne I hate her no offense against all other Annes). I was devastated but then I just started hanging out with him and Anne and she kinda figured out that I was no threat to her relationship with Luke (as if LOL). And I guess we came back to just being friends). Hope I helped
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you have no reason to feel ashamed. it's hard liking someone and then seeing them get back together with their ex. what you have to do is next time you see him, try and just be yourself...dont' make it awkward. even if he knows you like him, if you act normal, everything will be fine. im sorry that you had to go through that, i know it sucks. but i hope this helped!
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aww, well if he and his ex were in love that must be why.. hmm usually people that go off and on so much don't last because they have the same problem everytime and then they end up cracking on eachother. I think he needs to get to know you better that's why he didnt go straight to you, you should start chillin with him after school and talkin to him on the phone/internet more often! n ask him questions so he knows you do care and wana get to know him. hope i helped =/ X0x muah - jess
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