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Im Confused
Ok, well I met this guys 3 weeks ago, and we both liked eachother a lot! I felt like I knew his hole life honestly I could of wrote a book on him. In that week we would kiss and make out and the sort and he sort of stuck to me in my heart, well last week on monday we decided to be friends, it was better for him, and I wanted to make him happy, so I agreed, later that day I cried my heart out and the next day too, but never in front of him. We give eachother lots of hugs and we talk on the phone a lot too and i Help him out with his love life too, and I feel like a jelous tention. As much as I wanna be friends, I wanna be a little more too... WHAT SHOULD I DO!
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I think you should tell him how you feel. If you like this guy you shouldn`t let him go. Just tell him what your feelings are 4 him. Im sure he will like you back.
good luck to u!!
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awww sweetie!!! i could imagine how much that huurts!!! especially having him talk to you about his love life!!!! are you opened up to him? do you trust him? tell him how you are still feeling and tell him you wish you could give yourself a chance!!!! i really really hope everything goes well!!!!!!
good luck!
marie
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heres a brilliant little answer for you:
JUST TELL HIM
whats the worst that could happen?
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make that little son of a bitch jealous! gosh my guy friend did that to me and i totally made him regret it...it was great and now he likes me and wants to be more than friends! good luck!
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Tell him you are willing to give him the space he needs, but ask him if your waiting game is going to do you any good in the long run. No point in watching the pot... it'll never boil.
Personally speaking, some of the closest people in my life started out romantically, but sometimes there comes a moment when you realize, "Hey, relationships come and go, but friends stick around. I like this person too much to risk losing them." And you decide that friendship is the way to go.
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Just keep being friends with him, and flirting with him a little. Ever heard that expression "an old flame never goes out".. something like that lol i dont exactly remember it. Butanyway it just means that if u have a relationship with something, ALL of ur feelings never really go away.. u still have some lingering inside you. So maybe this guy still has feelings for u and maybe he'll realize it soon.
Also, if flirting with him doesnt work, play hard to get. Guys always want what they cant have. When he calls u, act like ur really busy.. but then call him back the next day.
If neither flirting nor hard to get works, then im sry, but i think u might just want to stick to being friends. Sometimes guys are afraid of being committed to one girl for too long. They're always wanting to hook up with other girls and u cant stop the guy from wanting that... its like trying to change his DNA or something.
I hope this helped.. rate me plz and give me feedback!! Let me know how it all works out.. good luck!!
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Be his ideal girl. Offer him something he can't refuse... no I don't mean sex but I guess that would work too, lol. You can't deny your feelings... flirt like crazy.
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Just be his friend. Thats all you can do. Having a friendship is better than no relationship at all!!
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