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Hey! (15/f) So I've asked this sorda before but it's a tad different this time. There's a guy on my tennis team that went out with my 'old bestfriend' last year. I'm still really good friends with her but not as close as when last year.Anyhoo, this guy likes me. I don't really want to confront him about it bc i really like being friends with him. I think I've been giving him the wrong messages bc i guess we sorda flirt but it's just friendly, ha so i thought. what should i do now? Ps. sorry for the longness!
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if you like this guy in the love way, then go out with him. just check with your friend to make sure it's okay. if you just want to be friends with him, don't say anything about him liking you. simple as that. because if you say somthing about him liking you, he might think you like him back. good luck & hope i helped!
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Well, start acting a little more friendlier...not flirtier. I have gone thorugh the same kinda thing. It's hard...I know but just kinda keep it on the down low. (if ya know what I mean)
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I think if you two just want to be friends thats great. you dont have to say anything to him. Just pretend he is not there. And if he asks you out just say "lets just be friends" 'something like that.' you dont have to go out with this guy, but if you want to then thats ok too. you can still be friends with your "old bestfriend" and go out with this guy.
good luck!!
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if i were you, i wouldnt do anything about this situation unless he approaches you. and if he does, just be nice and let him know youre sorry but you only like him as a friend and you never meant to make him think it was any other way. in the mean time, cut down on that "honestly friendly flirting" so that he will stop getting that message.
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I think that you should just randomly mention that he is a great friend and that you are so glad ya'll are friends and maybe that will give him the message that you really like being friends. You don't have to stop flirting or having fun with him though! Hope I helped. Please rate me. Good luck!
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