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Hi,
Today a friend of mine invited a guy i sorta like over to her house. He always says he likes me. But he is sort of a sexual guy...he said hes had sex about 3 times...
ok so were watching a movie and he moved in for a kiss... i kissed him and it lasted for a while. But while he was kissing me he sorta went half way up my shirt and then he started kissing my neck...
i had no idea how to kiss him i kind of messed up and he moved away, and then came back.
ifelt really extremely unconfertible....
and now hes askin me to be his gf...and i dont know what to say because what if we do go out and he always wants to touch me? i dont want to break his heart because i like him...but i really do feel unconfertible when we kissed.
what should i do, should i go out with him?
-toubled 13 year old (link)
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You shouldn't go ut with him if you don't feel ocmfortable with m him.i know this sounds dumb but respect your feelings and your body.I hope I helped.Ask me anytime whatever you want
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well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much! (link)
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You should buy him something really special and lke make him like a meal and like go to the movies or something something sweet and caring! I hope I helped and happy birthday to your ex1
claire
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hello i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 16...i really really care about him, let me just start off by saying that...but ok so my boyfriend and I have a cute relationship...or so everyone says...but I'm soooo prude!!!! oh my God!....he puts his arms around my waist and I get so nervouse, I start to back away and I don't want him to think that I don't like him, i just get nervouse....what should I do??....I like it...but I hate it....and then in church he does it...and its like church so your not supposed to do that....but i don't know what to say or do...I'm like afraid to talk to him about it becuase he likes holding me....how do i not become so prude??? I mean if i'm like this forever I'll never get my first kiss (link)
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Well you really just have to get used to the fact of it.You should talk to him because thats the best way but if not he shouldn't care if you back away just let him know you like him when you back away.I hope I helped.
claire
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I met this guy on myspace. He's really nice and hes my age. He was sweet, and he asked for my number. I said maybe tomorrow. He lives far away, like theres a few states in between us. He told me he liked me, and there was something about me. I'm nervous, and I just have mixed emotions and I just dont know what to do right now. Please, any advice. (link)
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I have many friends in the same situation.Well first you should make sure this guy isn't a online sex preditor or a old man or something..lol! Make sure someone else knows about this guy.I wouildn't give out numbers to people i don't know so i wouldn't.But I hope I helped
~Claire~
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ok well im 13/f and i like these two guys but they both like me back and i dont no which one to go with beczuse i like them both the same(if that makes sense) and one of them lets call him bob...well bob is hott and hes nice and has a good personality and everything and hes caring towards me. well the other guy lets call him larry. larry is cute or ok looking and is caring and everything...has a good personality too. so its really hard for me to choose. and if i go out with one of them it will probably ruin my chances with the other one...i really need help! (link)
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Well I know what people would tell me is like list all the stuff about both of them..like what u like about them.Whatever list is bigger choose that guy. But i know i hate that way so I wouldn't want to look mean but i would choose the hott guy!!..lol...Well I hope I helped
PS I was on vacation again so i couldn't answer!but i'm back so ask me questions anytime u want!
~Claire~
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ok wel im 13 and a girl and i dont know how to make out and i relle want to with this guy and hes experienced and i dont no how to...help me!! please (link)
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Well i know you probably heard this already but kissing and making out comes naturally you can't really have tips.I hope I helped1
i was on vacation so it took a while to answer i just got back!!
calire
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my friend just told me she was talking to my boyfriend ont he hpone and he told her he didnt really like me anymore =[ and i kno shes not lieing cause like i dont kno you can just tell and cause the way hes been atcing . and knowing him he won't tell me this for like a week and i dont kno what to do (link)
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You should break up with him if he doesn't like you anymore. I hope i helped.
claire
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ok well this is the same person as the one when i wrote about my friend telling me my boyfriend doesnt like me anymore cuz he otl dher and its tru and i dont kno if i should dump him or wait for him and that might take a while cause my friend wasnt suppose ot say anything and id ont wanna get her introuble. please help and dont tell me to just talk to him cause hes nto the kinda person i can. hes a jerk and i should of never went out with him in the first place (link)
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You should totally break up with him if you think its a mistake.I hope I helped!
claire
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ok heres the deal, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 months, and in the past week, i havent talk to him, so i talked to this boy lets call him "john" and he called me everynight out of that week and we stayed on the phone till like 6 in the morning and hes so my type, and he likes me, and i know i like him back, last night he told me i love you, and i told him it back, and hes on vacation right now so i wolt talk to him till monday, and the two people i trust the most one told me, that i should leave my boyfriend and go out with john,the other one told me to follow my heart,i dont know what my hearts saying, i tried so hard to let him know how i feel, but all he wants is to be together becuase he said he likes me more then this one girl he went out with and he liked her ALOT, and hes not a very good boyfriend, he doesnt call me, i never see him, the last time i heard his voice was at least two weeks ago, and i feel like ive cheated on him cause i told john i love you back, but i tell alot of people i love you, but i think i really ment it when i told john, i seriously like love him,hes everything ive ever wanted, he tells me how pretty i am out of no where, he listens when i half soemthing to say, hes there for me when im upset, and hes so sweet,we've never gotten in a fight, he said dont break up with your boyfriend until your ready and ill get my chance, but the thing is, i dont know when the time is right how im going to break up with my boyfriend, he thinks we can work on everything, i feel so bad, did i really cheat on my boyfriend?, ive never cheated on my boyfriend before, please help me, i dont know where to turn, and i dont know what else to do, thanks so much (link)
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I think you should go out with John becasue its sounding like the other guy isn't really right for and John is!!I wouldn't call it cheating so you shouldn't feel bad.I hope I helped.
claire
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Hey guys!! Okay I have a really confusing conflict! I am going out with this guy and I like him a lot and he is a great kisser! but I just found out he cheated on me. and he is the kinda guy that doesnt seem like he cares so I dont know if he cares about me. ok I like his friend, we have talked a lot and I know he cares and I know he wouldnt cheat on me....I dont know if I want to break up with My boyfriend and go out with his friend or if I should stay with my boyfriend and see how things go?! PLEASE HELP!! I need all the help I can get!! (link)
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Well if your boyfriend cheated on you i don't think you would want to stay around and get hurt even more. I think you should go out with his frirend.I hope I helped.
claire
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ok..theres this guy i like named anthony and he is goin into 9th grade and im goin to 8 ((hes gonna be in a diff school whichs sucks)) and he says im cute and he likes me alittle but since he got left back hes 15 and im 13 so he said it would be weird and im like ok but can we be friends and hes like yea so the year ended and the last day of school the 8th graders had a bbq so i didnt see him to get his sn or # turns out he didnt have and sn and i got his # from a friend of his but its not the right # anymore!!
i really miss him i mean like i no how gay this sounds but i really love him!! what should i do ? should i get over him? (link)
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Well try to get the rightnumber and if that doesn't work i think you should get over him becasue it will drive u crazy.But you will be in the same school soon becasue u will go in 9th and he'll be in 10th right? So maybe something will happen then!!
I hope I helped
claire
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Hello all!
I started a relationship with a man that I'm mentally fascinated with. He is well educated and very articulate, which is what attracted me to him. We were together for about a month when I busted him cheating. Now, two months later, I have told him I forgive him and still want a relationship with him but he is lukewarm. He "says" that he doesn't know what to do/say to make things better between us, but I've told him countless times that I'm not worried about him cheating on me again. His response, "Nothing is certain but death and taxes." My brain tells me that if he could say that to me, he doesn't care about making things right. My heart tells me that he's a good man and he won't do it again. Am I dilusional??? The Bible teaches us to forgive 70 times 70, but that doesn't mean I have to be with him still right? I'm in love with this man but I don't know if I can ever trust him again. Please help! (link)
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Well if he cheated on you and can not say that he won't do it again right to your face then i think you sould move on and find some one new to love. I hope I helped.
claire
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Hey guys. Well.. tonight I went to a club for the first time, and met this really great guy. He asked to dance with me, and we did for a while, and attempted to talk a bit (but the music was so loud, so we went and sat down) He introduced me to some of his friends too. Anyway, I had to leave early.. and out of nowhere I asked for his number. This is TOTALLY out of character for me. I'm usually shy around guys, but hey. He gave it to me and then I gave him mine, and then he walked me to the door. I may be being paranoid, but was this coming across a little too eager or forward? I had a feeling he wanted to ask, but I could be wrong. Also, should I contact him first or let him contact me? I'm just totally new to this kinda thing and lost.
Thank you! (link)
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Well in my opion it was not to eager about asking him for his number>When i wnat something i go for it!! Well if you really want to talk to this guy then call him first unless you have second thoughts then you can let him call you.I hope I helped
claire
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To give a bit of background information, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and are madly in love with eachother. I gave him my heart.. as well as my virginity and he did the same. But the past few weeks, I've been doubting our relationship. I'll be having dreams of being with ex boyfriends or just other guys, particularly this one guy named Luis. He's a very good friend of mine and a total flirt around me. For a second I thought I had feelings for him and I actually concidered breaking off my over one year relationship with the love of my life for this guy, Luis.I realized it was stupid to end something that is SO good for something that is only going to last a few months IF that much. I called my boyfriend and I was barely crying and, I should've known he would be able to tell I was because as soon as I said hi he said "What's wrong why were you crying?" (He knows the sound of my voice when I'm happy or sad and everything in between like the back of his hand). I told him what happened and I kept saying "Baby, I'm so sorry I don't want to lose you." He told me everything would be okay, but now when I talk to him he seems so distant? If that would be a word to describe it. He's in Maine right now, and I'm back home in New Jersey so I can just like go over and see him right now. I don't know what to do, he just isn't acting the same now, I didn't do ANYTHING with Luis, I'd never do that to my boyfriend. What do I do? I don't want to hurt my boyfriend anymore, I feel so guilty for even having those thoughts. Can anyone please help?
I'm 17 he's 18. (link)
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Well i think you should give him some time to get your wholdreams and feelings for other guys out of his mind.It sounds like he really loves you. i think he was just a little urt but give him some time and do something to show you are commited to him. Thats what i would do. I hope i helped. If you have any other questions send them to me in my inbox
claire!!
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13f. i went out with a friend of mine, tom for 4th of july. just us. he was super-polite, introduced himself to my parents, they loved him. we went walking around town together, and we were laughing and talking the whole time. but it kinda started to feel like a date, and i dont like him that way. he puts his arm around me, and asks if he can kiss me. i say no. it was only akward for a minute or so, then we pretty much forgot about it. then we were sitting alone together watching fireworks and he puts his arm around me. we argue for a minute. (cuz i dont mind, i just dont want to lead him on cuz there's no way i'm making out with this guy). so he promises he wont try to kiss me, and we end up holding hands and putting our arms around each other, and my heads on his shoulder, but thats it. he called me the next day and left a message on my cellphone saying he wanted to say hi and to call him back. i dont really feel like talking to him and i dont know if we would have anything to talk about and it could be kinda akward, so, do i have to call him back? if i dont will he think i'm weird about the other night and am avoiding him? (link)
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Well you should be true to your feelings. If you don't like him then you were right to reject him and say no. You should never be forsed to do anything you don't want to do. I hope I helped!!!
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So theres this guy... he lives down the street from me. We're basically good for each other, I hear that a lot. He's a football player, I'm on the dance team, we always do the same things accidently, he's cute, I'm cute lol jk. Anyways he's come over a few nights, snuck out on a couple of them and we've kissed and cuddled and I loved it. We've never gone farther than that because I'm scared of getting attatched and hurt. He knows I like him, but I'm not sure he's feels the same. I don't want to be used.. It has happened too much to me (my boobs are big... naturally! and guys like them.. but i hate em). Once I start trusting him, it seems like he kind of pulls away. Ive talked to him about it but he never really says exactly he likes me or he doesnt. I think which him being popular he doesnt want to be a really sweet guy or anything around his friends.. I understand that though. It's fine. But it seems like he's only "with me" when it's good for him. When he's at a party with me or when he's at his house and calls me. But if I want to hang out.. its a bit different. He's not as into me as I'm into him. But I dont want to be into him. I dont want to get hurt :( I'm a hopeless romantic tho. If he did something sweet to show that he really liked me, i'd be his, no questions asked. I'm confused! please help (link)
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Well if he doens't want to be with you all the time then i think you shouldn't take things further, unless he says he wants to be with you and says he wants to be with you then i think you should take things further. I think i am confusing myself i hope i'm not confusing you but anyways i hope i helped!!!
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I've never been in a relationship before & I'm 13 years old. I've liked guys & they've liked me back but I've never really gone the extra step. Well now, my guy friend likes me & I like him too. We want to be more than friends but what should I expect from a relationship? Will things be weird at first? (link)
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Things might be weird at first but soon after things will become more comfortable.
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Okay, so I`m going out with this guy and I reallllllly like him. But the only problem is, he uses drugs and alcohol a L0T. I`m totally against this.. I have seen families torn apart and people`s lives ruined because of alcohol/drug use.. I would never do anything like this, and he knows that, and he`s okay with that.. But I don`t want him to hurt himself. And I really don`t like the fact that he does.. I know that I can`t change him.. What should I do ? (link)
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Get him some help from any counselers you can even rehab..Hope I helped.
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my boyfriend i havent seen for a week and a day and i havent talked to in three days! im constantly talking and thinking about him! i miss him like CRAZY!!!!! ive been calling his house for the past 2 days but hes not answering! his friend said he was in new york but doesnt know when hes going to be back. why wouldnt he tell me that? and i just miss him sooooooooooo bad! i love him and i want to see or at least talk to him! how can i get over this since i dont know when ill be able to talk/see him again!? (link)
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Well you can focus on other things like your friends and activities.I hoped I helped.
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I have a boyfriend and hes nice but when we go to the movies like with him me and my friends he doesnt talk to them or at least say hi all he does in concentrate on me and my friends absolutely hate him for that. whenever i mention his name my friends will be like eww i hate him so much or they will tell every 1 that hes gay! Yah i think it is mean to not talk to my friends cause they are my best friends but hes not there for my friends hes there for me! But i dnt noe how to make my friends understand and to make them like him. Thanks (link)
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Well you can talk to your boyfriend and ask him to maybe pay a little more attention to your friends and if that doesn't work than talk to your friends and maybe tell them about your boyfriend and why hes ignoring them and hows he's feeling.I hoped I helped.
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