Hey Everyone! My name is Taryn but people call me T-bear! I have a a pretty rough roller coaster in my life but have made it to the top and love where I am at today. I have a beautiful family and am able to smile again everyday. I love helping other people keep the faith and know what you are going through and where you can end up. I love my fiance who I am about to marry here in 20 days and adore my one year old son. He reminds me why I continue to appreciate my breath here on earth. I am here for anyone at anytime. Just ask away!!! Luv u all!!
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pls adviced me ....well i fall in love with my face book friend..i talk to him ovr phone call 5 to 6 time..he didn"t know i love him..one day i fell its not good for my family couse he s non bengali and m bengali..its a big troubld for me..so am brk our friendshp at any reason! dn aftrfew days m felling gulty for him..so m said to sorry him through his one of best male friend!aftr one day..he abused me and belived me have no reasone!!then next day he call me through his friend and said that "hey wht going on ur lyf"???s that boy love me??can i trust him?why he did that???pls plssss plssssssss plsssssss advised me???are he pscychopath???actually am confused???plssssssssssssssssssssssszs read it and advised me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Don't mess with anyone over the internet not a good idea and definitely not if it's going that way. INTERNET dating is extreme trouble.... Stay safe sweetie!!
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So my bf & I met when we were both 18 & got together a couple months later. I had cheated on my previous bf with him, but I felt so bad about that I told the very next day (we just kissed,& it turns out to be my current bf's first kiss), & when I told him he asked why. After my first boyfriend & I broke up after 3 months on & off. Less than a month after we'd been broken up, I started dating the guy I cheated with-who turns out to be my steady bf since late 2010. I took his virginity in January 2011, & all was well for a while. Then he started lying over stupid things (where he was, that he had to go home, who he was with-said he was with his friend Kyle, but he was with a girl he "used" to like,& talk shit on me)..or "forgetting" to tell me things, & making the same promises over and over. It doesn't help that he never seems sincere & using uses a sarcastic or mocking tone, & usually extremely critical of me. I do love him so much,& he's my first,& we have had a lot of good times, but I don't know what to do anymore. Help please?? (link)
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My best advice and the best that worked for me when I was in this same exact situation set him free. As hard as it is gonna be act like it isn't bugging you. Don't call him let him call you and when he does don't be saracastic like he is to you. It's no game but it is just letting yourself know you can live without him and makes you feel a little better that he is chasing you. Trust me it works I did it to my boyfriend when he was doing these things and now we are getting married and have a 1 year old son. He is a male and sad to say but he is getting bored all males do you need to give him some challenge you need to make him miss you and wonder why you havent called. He needs that and if you set him free and he doesn't come back it's his loss not yours sweetie and I promise the right one will come... Good Luck to you!!
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My life is completely over. I feel I don't want to live anymore ((IN TEARS)) I'm ready to leave this world an be with my grandfather where there's no worries no pain and no problems..I always asked my mom why did she have me I should of never been born. I find myself going through deep depressions to the point I started to take all the pills I have, swallowing bleach, and eating rat poison, I don't want to live anymore my mind is set. My depressions are beginning to worsen I often cry myself to sleep and hope that I don't wake (link)
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ok first of all if you wanted to take your life you would have already done it and definitely wouldn't of posted that on advicenators.... A lot of people say "I wanna commit suicide" because of a hard situation in life. When I was suicidal the best advice I got was Don't make a permanent solutions for a temporary problem. You don't wanna die you wanna stop feeling shitty about every little thing possible. So man it up, step outside, breathe and tell yourself that you are so lucky to be able to do this.... You think you hurt now think of how your love ones would feel if you committed such a selfish act, when you have it better than some out there.... Change your thought process and make your self feel better only you can and only you will... Keep your chin held high and find the positives... take care
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I met this guy over the summer. He just graduated from my school but we didn't even know each other until the summer. He's going into college so I knew I'd only know him for a few weeks, but I talked to him anyway. He seemed to really like me and I REALLY liked him. We hung out a few times and hooked up once. Now that it's over, I'm so upset! He's in college now and he doesn't hit me up anymore. I fell for him HARD and I do that a LOT when it comes to guys ! How do I not get so attached to a guy so quickly? Even if I'm just talking to a guy, I always get really attached to the guy I'm talking to and really upset when it comes to an abrupt end. Is it me? Am I doing something wrong? All of my friends get over their guys soooo easily and I always dwell on the guy I was previously talking to. I've never been in a real relationship and maybe I just think I'm close to getting it and then it goes away. I don't know. HELP !! (link)
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alright... your just like me...you have some insecurities with relationships because you have never really had one and as bad as it may sound it\'s not but it\'s gets to a desperation where you crave and seek affection from the next availiable person. it\'s an obstacle that is hard to face... all i can tell you that might encourage you to face these insecurities is my story.... i was heartbroken after heartbroken because i finally got someone giving me affection and i made a fanasty about what it could be in my head... move slow girl and don\'t seek. i finally stopped looking because the pain was getting to real.... that happened three years ago and i have been in a 3 year relationship am engaged and have a 5 month old son... don\'t focus so much on it, learn to love yourself to the fullest and become completely secure and things will fall into place.
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i hate to say it but im horribly lovesick. i attract the wrong people.
the last relationship lasted a few months and ended in june, he was the severe mamas boy. the one before that was two years long and ended on my birthday in february, hes the sxe rocker but we fought to much. i went on a date a few days ago with a friend and he wont talk to me because i wouldnt go past kissing, drug addict. and my 'bestfriend' asked me out but hes bi and i couldnt picture us as more than friends but i broke his heart n never knew till he says he doesnt even wana stay friends, drug addict. then my crush asked me over but i couldnt make it either time, i told him i liked him n we dont talk anymore, college n an mma fighter.
-i want to forget guys and have fun with my girls but i dont have many girls, i fell for my guy friends and we got distant. to be honest im asked if im back in depression this hurts that much, i need someone to hold me and love me. day by day is a struggle with me, honestly im skinny and pretty and optimistic and called a flirt but latley i give up on appearance and going out. i deal with chronic pain and a brain tumor. i just want love to help forget, before i get into drinking and smoking again. how can i find and keep the right guy, im loosing my friends. any advice on this is appreciated! 16 female (link)
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First thing you are doing wrong is looking and trying way to hard. Trust me I have the same problem with guys, girls are attracted to those hardcore guys that are a little rough around the edges they are sttracted to the hard to get and love the challene you need to take a step back be your self and let someone come to you. you don't need someone to love you but you realyl want someone to love you..... but in order for that to happen you need to learn to love yourself first. and it sounds like you have some issues there. Try to just calm down and take a step back and stop looking, let it come to you. drinking and smoking doesn't help the depression either it only worsens it, so maybe cut back on that too. hope i helped
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Damn. First of all, I'm sorry this is so long but please read it! I need help/opinions! Guys are SOOOOO confusing.
20/F
There's this guy that I've had a crush on ever since I met him. We had a class together in high school and we were okay friends-- aquaintances. I mean, when we were together in class we had a ball (he's a fun, jokster kind of guy) but we never really hung out outside of that class. Then he graduated, joined the Marines, and was deployed to Afgan. He also had a girlfriend at the time. While he was away, we chatted every now and then on Myspace just the quick "hey how are you?" type thing.
So fast forward about 2 years to present day. He's back from Afgan and he is in North Carolina on base. And now he's on Facebook. My friend sent me a suggestion to add him, so I did and he accepted. I saw on his wall where he was coming home (where I live) for the weekend and we made plans to get together but they never happened. He went to base in North Carloina and to my surprise a couple days later he started texting me. We talked back and forth a bit and became better friends and he was upset and telling me about his problems with his gf and about how he wants nothing to do with her anymore. So half flirting, half being serious I would say things to cheer him up like "You're an attractive, loving guy. You need to date girls closer to your age. (His ex is 18, he's 21. I'm 20..I was hinting towards me. hehe) You deserve better. You'll find the right girl." yadda yadda yadda. Well, I made his day. haha
Since then he's been very flirtatious with me. Shortly after that discussion he was telling me that I should come see him in NC and I told him I didn't have the money and he was like "well, I'd totally fly you out here." He would text me goodmorning and tell me he misses me and how he wants to see me. He told me a couple of times that he was telling his friends about me and showing them my facebook. And we talked on the phone a couple times and one time he told me he just called coz he wanted to hear my voice (of course, he was drinking a little bit that night so maybe it was the alcohol talking?).
Then he quit texting me as often for a couple days until finally he texts me and says "I'm home!" and I was like what? why? and he said "to see you". We hung out that night and every night that he was home (about 5 days) and we flirted it up and everything but he also talked A LOT about his ex gf (she lives in our town too) and he talked about this girl in Colorado that his mom was trying to hook him up with.
This is where I get lost. Why would he flirt so hard with me if he was interested in this girl in Colorado? Like, while he was in town and we were hanging out we really hit it off. We've got a lot in common. We both like to joke and have fun. He even came up with a "plan" for "us" (in a joking way of course). He said I would come with him to NC then we would go to Colorado (his mom lives there) and then we'd get married in Vegas. And I know it's just a joke and it's like haha oh yeah ;) but I mean, why would you say that to a girl you're not a little bit interested in? I don't know.
After his stop here he went to Colorado to visit his mom (and that girl... :[)but he still would text me every day and call me everynight. He introduced me (over the phone) to his mom and told me he was talking to her about me. And then, just like before, we quit texting/talking as much and he came BACK to town one last time for a day before he had to head back to NC.
He told me he really likes this girl in Colorado and that they almost kissed one night but someone's stepdad prevented that from happening. But then he'll say things like he's not sure if he's good enough for her because he's not religious and she is. All the while, still flirting with me but not doing anything about it. I don't know.
And then last night we were texting, having a conversation, and I asked him what he was up to tonight and he never responded. So I finally texted him back about an hour or so later and was like "haha I love how everytime I ask you what you are up to or whats up our conversation stops. haha Were you just bored for those 30 seconds you text me? hehe Must've been waitin on a call from bri (the girl in another state). hehe" I tried to be playful with it because I didn't want to come off as rude or that my feelings were hurt, I really wanted to know why our conversations were always brief lately. He responded, "Awwww no I fell asleep!!!" To which I said, "Likely story. You fall asleep every time? ;) hehe" And he said, "No [insert my name here] you know i love you" (he only put the letter "u"...i can't just put the letter "u" because it's "text speak" ugh.) and I said, "I'm not feelin the love, [insert his name here]. :[ haha nah, I'm just pickin' on ya. I know. :] Sorry I woke you up...go back to sleep. :)" then he said, "I love you!" (again..he didn't type out "you" it was just the letter "u") and I said, "Now don't say that unless you mean it! ;) ;) haha jk. I love you (letter "u") too! :]"
So I don't know. I'm so lost and confused. I THINK he likes me? I don't know. Why is he doing this to me? It's driving me absolutely CRAZY! I try to lower my expectations to just being friends but it's really hard sometimes. What is going on in his head????????? (link)
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I would have to agree, he does sound a little bit confused, but don't get shot down he could have feelings for you. Sounds like you are going to have to be straight forward and ask him how he is feeling. He could just love you as a friend cuz i know when this happens to me I over analyze things and automatically assume they like me.... but if he came all the way down for NC to see you then there has to be something there and i just don't know if he is ready for it. but go ahead and just ask him where you two stand.....
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Im in middle school and i have problem. There are 300 cute guys at my school that have great personalities and i dont have a crush on any of them! The even bigger poblem is that none of them are crushing on me. I think some of them are cute but there is no attraction and i find that wierd considering im not a lesbo. I had a boy friend the first 3 and a half months of school and we were going really well until i broke up with him. Is there just someting wrong with me? Im mean im a girl and they are boys. And i know im more way more brains then beauty(straight A student thank you)and im not a snot or mean. i love to make people laugh(the nice way) but i just don't see myself getting my first kiss or being found attractive any time soon. please no comments on me being too young for a bf or a kiss, i already have parents and i really dont want anymore. (link)
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wow hun there is nothing wrong with not being attracted to anyone at the moment. You don't know if there is someone in the school that takes a second glance at you. Im sure all those 300 guys didnt come up to you and say I don't have a crush on you. Its okay to just take a step back and focus on yourself than if someone comes to you and you feel like you are ready than go for it!! good luck and no worries
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I've been with this one guy for like 4 years, and i'm only 19. I know I love him and could marry him but I'm so sexually frustrated. My friend Roe is so shy and nerdy and all I keep thinking about is him fucking me on his table, bed, and floor. I can't stop thinking about sleeping with him. If I don't do something qiuck i'm going to jump him. But I can't cheat...nsndknfsdsd. So frustrating. (link)
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haha this is will pass and if it doesnt I think you need to re evavluate your feelings. You might have feelings for your friend... but hey I just had this happen too... but when I kissed him I realized I couldn't do anything more because I didn't want to lose that friendship.... anyways just deal with it for awhile think about what you really want and how important your friendship is with him
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I am new at this whole dating thing, but I was with this boy I really like last night. He held our hands up to the ceiling of my car and said to see who would let their hand drop first.. He wouldn't tell me what it meant, so please, can anyone tell me what it means? Thanks x a million :) (link)
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This is just a guess but guys can be tricky sometimes maybe he did that because you arms arent in the way to look at your boobs. I dont know but guys are perverted. lol
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Okay, well. Earlier last month (September) My boyfriend and I were taking a shower and after just went to the bed to carry it on. We were both naked and all, but he never stuck it in or anything. We're both still virgins. But afterwards, I wanted to take a bubble bath and so we did. We didnt do anything in there, I just played with the bubbles and stuff. I'm just wondering, could something have happened when we were in his bed? I was on top of him and everything, and my vagina was down there along with his penis, but like I said, we didnt do anything. But his penis was against me. Also, can sperm like, swim through the water in the bathtub and get into me? I'm just a wee bit paranoid right now.
Thank you :D! (link)
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no possible way at all... and yes you are being way to paranoid.. haha you are not going to get pregnant unless he fully enters you and ejacualtes. and sperm isnt going to just swim over and enter you... way to impossible....
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Hello! Im 14/f Jimmy's 16:)(lil bit older but age doesnt matter to me♥)Will be long, im sorry.
Okay, well last summer I met this awesome guy, Jimmy, well that day of my life was perfect as it seemed. We have a lot in common, after we met we started talking getting to know each other, i started to like him the same for him, but he didn't understand how much i liked him. I fell for him and he was a awesome guy. He was a player at that time it seemed, he touched me down there when we were in the pool once and i was shocked. I didn't like that. Well, he said he liked me a lot, but i found out that he liked someone else to. At that time, i couldn't handle that. He cuttted me down, and said "Well, if your going to act that way, bye bitch". (sorry for the language)That hurt me and it took me awhile to move on. When i did, i forgot about him i actually despised him, mostly because he dated one of my friends after i he told me that he didnt want to date anyone at that time.So, i was done with his ass. Well, it's the 3rd week of the new school year, and he sends me a pic of himself. I was pissed, haha so i asked him what he wanted, very mean to him. :/ Well, he didnt reply but than the next day i told him hi, we started talking,we sent pics to each other, to see if we changed any. haha he said i did. He was very sweet, and i told him how much he hurt me and he told me that he was very sorry for hurting me. I didn't believe it at that time, but he proved it to me later. He brought up that he still likes me, and i was like WOW this whole time? We met in July?! I was dating someone at that time. When i asked him what he was doing he said this: " thinking". I said "about...?" he replied "U, how i really liked you and let you go, now you have someone. I should have never let you go :'(" (link)
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NO NO NO NO.... I had a guy exactly like this. He sees that you have/had someone in your life and he doesnt like it! As soon as he gets what he is after you wont mean a damn thing. This is guys games. BIG mistake breaking up with you boyfriend for this guy.. as hard as it will be you need to tell him that you just want to be friends. if not be prepared for ur heart to be broken!!
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ok so one of my friends thought of a good idea to get a guy to like me. he likes "bad girls" so the plan is to get a rumor started about me that i gave someone a bj and idk if i should do it or not. help me plllleeeeaaasssssssseeeee! (link)
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NO NO NO. bad idea if you cannot be yourself and you have to spread a rumor about you being sexual to get a guy to like you than he's not the one. Plus that is not going to get him to like you its gonna get him to think.. o if I ever want a bj then there is the girl to go to and you will just be a piece of meat to him. I really hope you don't do that It will only cause drama and problems for you!!!
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i was at a party and got slightly tipsy. there was this guy, whom i met for the 1st time at the party, who clung on to me during the whole time i was at the party, practically looking after me *like not allowing me to drink anymore, and kept talking to me the whole night*. then after that he hung out at my living room the whole night til morning while my roommates were around. the whole night he kept teasing me, and frequently forwarding his head towards me when i got bemused, and hugging me softly. he even put me to sit on his lap while we were watching movie. *i know, it is weird because we've really just met* well, i've never even been kissed so i ddnt know if he was trying to kiss me. he never made a move on me or something. and when morning came, he silently went bk home so my roommates wont think it weird of us spending all night on the couch.
question 1) does he sound like he's interested in me? because it has been 2 days since that night and he never called. *i ddnt call him too*
question 2) well, we're in the same university. so if i happen to stumble into him, how am i supposed to react?
i kinda like him and would like to spend time with him again.
im an 18-yr old asian studying in the states. and the guy's american.
-sorry for such a long question- (link)
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Well my saying that I go by is your only a loser if you don't try. The worst possible anwser you are going to get is " No I am not into you" Which from the sounds of it doesnt seem like its gonna happen. He may even be waiting for you to make a move. So just do and it and take a risk if you really like him. If he gave you his number then it was for a reason. Well god luck hun and I wish you the best
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I have a problem where I get attached to boys very easily, if I am talking to them a lot or hook up with them and then it randomly stops I get extremely upset. It's to the point where I'm scared to even start anything with a boy because I know I'll end up getting hurt from it eventually. So there is this boy who just graduated and is now in college who I met and he was trying to hook up with me, but his ex-girlfriend is extremely jealous and said she wanted to beat me up so I told him I couldn't do anything. He told someone he was really into me and they gave him my number, and he kept acting like he liked me this whole night. Then he texted me and we've been talking through texting, on the phone or on facebook atleast twice a day for like 2ish weeks. We both really like taking to each other and I'm worried because I think I"m gunna start liking him, If I already don't. The reason I know that I've become attached is because the other night he was home for the weekend and we were supposed to hang out, we were both at the same place and he was texting me telling me to come hang out with him. We said hi to eachother once but I'm all paranoid about people knowing we're talking because I don't want to get beat up, so I told him I couldn't hang out with him in front of everyone. So then he didnb't know I was watching him, but i saw him leave with his ex-girlfriend and I saw them holding hands and stuff. I texted him and said something about how he lied and then he told me that she kissed him..I wasl ike um wtf? I thought you were just holding hands. Then my friend told me she heard someone say they were going out again. So i flipped shit because the whole time that we had been talking he always said he didn't like her at ALL and that she was obsessed with him and follows him around and stuff, which I know can be true to a point but that night I felt like he was giving some back. So I was being so mean and saying I can't beleive how many times he lied to me and stuff like that. I drank soooo much that night (until I passed out )because I felt completely used and screwed over and i was drunk texting him that night and he was claiming they were nothing, but he was being an ass which he usaully isn't. So the next day I was still upset and tried to admit to myself that we were done and he sent me a really long message on facebook saying sorry and how they aren't together at all she still really likes hiim though. I was really mean in my message back and was explaining how I'm not just someone to hook up with, I'm not a booty call, I'm not thek ind of girl you can have on the side while you have a girlfriend and he was like omg i know i never ever thought that i really like takling to you and then we had like a normal conversation, so i guess we're giong to keep talking. But i KNOW this is bad idea. but the thing about me is i like having a boy to talk too, and i have no one right now except him. How can i continue this and prevent before-hand me getting hurt in the end? cause i know i'm going too, I just want to prevent my sadness now instead of when it happens. (link)
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I am exactly like you... I get attached very easily you are a very dependent girl and just want to feel loved. Thats a problem because it will get your heart broken. As hard as it is you have to move slow to see if he is really true. Screw the ex girlfriend she has the label ex for a reason and she sounds like a big bully who only knows how to talk and not walk the walk to me!! find out more about this guy you can always tell how a guy is. Right now he seems of a bit of a player to me. but his ex could be quite a physcho and just causing shit. you did see them together tho so please take it slow dont sleep with him and dont give him your full trust. Put that wall up but dont act mean and crazy. I know how you feel and how hard it is but just act cool!
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Okay i am dating this guy, and i mean we are doing fine and everything, hes just younger than me and things.. and my ex boyfriend? we haven't been together since probably last valentines day? and the guy i'm dating we have been together for like a week now.. but my ex is telling me he wishes that he could take that part of his life back where he broke my heart, that he still loves me and he always will and he misses me and he wants to be with me and that im the one for him?
-bad part about it is, he has never said anything like that before to me? so i really don't know if i should give him another chance, or what? i mean i still love him & no matter what i would do anything for him, and he has told me he has changed and his mom even said he has? and he cried over me the other night, and he tells me EVERY day that he means that! except last night, he told me that he will always feel the same way about me, but he just doesn't want to hurt me again or anything, and he wants me and him to be friends and he just dont want to date at the moment, but yet he said he still feels the same and always will no matter what? and for a year straight i always wanted him back, and he never would consider it? but now that i have a boyfriend i think he has finally realized what he wants, or maybe he is just telling me that? i dunno..so what should i do? please helpp me =( (link)
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The same things happened to me. I got my heart broke. Well when I was in the process of moving on some other guy came along that worshiped the ground I walked on was so good to me. Well the guy that broke my heart found out and he didnt like that to much because I wasnt there on his back burner to be a booty call. So he told me he was in love with me and asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes because this boy still had a good chunck of my heart. I broke up with this other boy thinking it wasnt right to be with him if I was still in love with him. Well I dated him for about a day and he broke up with me. He even admitted the only reason he asked me out is because he was afraid I wouldn't have sex with him now that I was seeing someone. So pretty much he screwed me over.!!! you gotta follow your heart and do what you think is best but I figured telling you my story might give you a little insight. Well good luck I wish you the best!!
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Hello,Okay so I used to "talk" to this guy .
He kinda started talking to another girl and then told me he wanted to be friends.Now we are literally best friends.and He stopped talking to that girl and He is now talking to his ex girlfriend ,who he says he still really likes.
The other day,me and him were hanging out alone,we were on his bed and he made a move on me and we first started making out then it went a lot further.We didn't have sex because I said no ,but he was definetely about to make that move. We both recognized that it was unusual ,even though I still like him as more than a friend.The next day,me him and another friend of ours were hanging out.We were watching movies and he was flirting with her nonstop.Like holding her hand and rubbing her leg,etc.He didn't hookup with her or anything like he did with me but who know's what would have happend if I weren't there?She was sort of making the first moves on him though.Anyways,my point is that i still like him .He claims he likes his ex girlfriend,yet does all this stuff.He is also my best friend and it's never good to like your best friend.What should I do? (link)
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this guy sounds like a complete horndog to me. reminds me of one of my guys who would actually go and have sex with my best friends and me and those girls are no longer friends. First of I would let your girlfriend know how you feel so she quits that nonsense right away. And then you need to confront this guy don't straight out tell him you have feelings for him because then hes gonna think he can just get down your pants all the time. But tell him it really did make you feel uncomfortable that he was all up on you and then the next day your best friend right in front of you!! man that brings up memories and I am sorry girl that sucks and no one should have to go through that. Follow your heart and Im not gonna judge you if you want to continue to go for this guy because I know how you feel. But please don't sleep with him until you know he feels for you.. because no guy will ever respect you if you can't respect yourself and he will never give you a relationship if you are already giving him what he wants. be careful girl heartbreaks suck. goo luck!! keep me informed. tarebear_whinery17@hotmail.com
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I've been dating this guy for a while and i really like him, but there is a downfall, he makes a lot of really perverted jokes, like my best friend will yell at him for it he'll quit for a few days and start again.... What do i do?
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Well that is his choice to what he wants to do. Its called freedom of speech. Your in quite a bit of a mess because you dont want to piss you boyfriend or friend off but your friend is being a lil selfish and I could see where your boyfriend is being inconsiderate. But what you could tell them both is hey you guys are putting me in a predictment here. Keep this petty stuff to yourself and stop doing it around me. Let him do what he wants to do and in other hands have a little bit of respect and don't say them all the time around her. I have been screwed over alot though be careful not to get them to be too close of friends. You dont want anything happening but you should have to go through all this fighting. Ok good luck
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Me agian..and sameguy this time. Only since July, about 2 months after he knew I liked him...he says things like "You should workout".."you should exercise more.."
Why does he say that?...like why does he care now?...we been friends almost 2 years and he never said it before then..><
He confuses me > (link)
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He sounds kinda like a ass to me. I would tell him "NO if your not happy with the way I am than don't be happy with me at all. I am happy with myself and thats what matters not what you think. You either accept me for who I am or not at all." You deserve way better in life that, no girl or guy should be treated like that by a friend or boyfriend. He could be trying to tell you that cuz he wants to date you when your skinnier but really is that what you want out of a boyfriend, if you anwser yes than girl you need some help... haha anyways just think about it..... dont lose weight for anyone but yourself.... ok hope I helped and good luck
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where do guys like girls to put their hands when making out? i usually just hold the back of his neck or run my fingers through his hair but are there any other creative ones? lol (link)
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I do what you do too, but there are other times where I will put one hand on his cheek and one on the back of his head. or pull him in with your arms wrapped tight around them they really like that. you will get a great reaction haha. also sometimes I will rub my nails down his sides or stomach but not to hard..... but um that one is probably gonna turn him on just fair warning. and the other one when I just want to give him a sweet passionate kiss I take one hand and put it underneath his chin and pull him in. hope i helped....
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okay... so i use to have a major crush on this guy and then all of a sudden, i see this whole other side of him that im not liking so much. yesterday i told him that i also like girls. then last night i asked him what he felt towards this girl that im into and he said he thinks that she is cute. then he asked me how i felt about him and i told him how i use to like him. then he started talking about the other girl and he was a little jealous because she likes me more than him. then i asked him how he felt towards me and he didnt reply. then i texted him again that there are no double standards since i told him all of this. still, no reply which was expected now. then i told him how i wasnt sure that i could trust him with the other girl's secret that i told him earlier that day. i really do regret telling him her secret but i also wanted to know how he felt so i figured if i told him then he would come out with everything. now i just feel that i put my trust into someone too soon. i reallly dont care how he feel towards me, i mean i know hes a manwhore. and i know what his type is and im not that because i don wear slutty clothes. i really need to know what to do now, now that i blew everything because i had a little crush on this guy. where does that leave he and i? i cant just blow him off because he knows too mcuh... he know her secret that I told him. and if he went up to the other girl and say too much then im screwed. this girl wont ever speak to me again. (link)
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Well I someone told you their secret because they trusted you, you tell someone that secret because you trust them, how do they trust you if you can't keep another secret. You got yourself in a mess. That was completely wrong to choose a crush over a friend that is probably gonna be there for you longer than this manwhore you refer to. I'm sorry to tell you this girl but your introuble. I really would go up to the girl and tell her what you did, apologize for it. Hearing it from you would be better than hearing it from a million other people. You did it and now you need to face up to the consequences. Your tough enough to tell the secret then you are tough enough to see what happends. you need to tell her. good luck
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