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lovesick to the wrong guys sent me into depression
i hate to say it but im horribly lovesick. i attract the wrong people.
the last relationship lasted a few months and ended in june, he was the severe mamas boy. the one before that was two years long and ended on my birthday in february, hes the sxe rocker but we fought to much. i went on a date a few days ago with a friend and he wont talk to me because i wouldnt go past kissing, drug addict. and my 'bestfriend' asked me out but hes bi and i couldnt picture us as more than friends but i broke his heart n never knew till he says he doesnt even wana stay friends, drug addict. then my crush asked me over but i couldnt make it either time, i told him i liked him n we dont talk anymore, college n an mma fighter.
-i want to forget guys and have fun with my girls but i dont have many girls, i fell for my guy friends and we got distant. to be honest im asked if im back in depression this hurts that much, i need someone to hold me and love me. day by day is a struggle with me, honestly im skinny and pretty and optimistic and called a flirt but latley i give up on appearance and going out. i deal with chronic pain and a brain tumor. i just want love to help forget, before i get into drinking and smoking again. how can i find and keep the right guy, im loosing my friends. any advice on this is appreciated! 16 female
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Just don't look for love at the moment. Let love come to you cuz looking for a new love to forget your past relationships and to fix problems in your life that's...no, no, no. Just have fun with your girls. It doesn't matter how many you have, whether it's 1, 2, 3, or 4, they are friends...you'll find something fun to do and sometimes a smaller group is better so don't dismiss it. Let your love searching rest for the moment, but if you insist in looking for someone, look elsewhere not within your current group of guy friends. Try something new. :)
Good Luck and I Hope My Advice Helps You :)
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First thing you are doing wrong is looking and trying way to hard. Trust me I have the same problem with guys, girls are attracted to those hardcore guys that are a little rough around the edges they are sttracted to the hard to get and love the challene you need to take a step back be your self and let someone come to you. you don't need someone to love you but you realyl want someone to love you..... but in order for that to happen you need to learn to love yourself first. and it sounds like you have some issues there. Try to just calm down and take a step back and stop looking, let it come to you. drinking and smoking doesn't help the depression either it only worsens it, so maybe cut back on that too. hope i helped
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