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Hurt me dearly, but i think he's changed?
Hello! Im 14/f Jimmy's 16:)(lil bit older but age doesnt matter to me♥)Will be long, im sorry.
Okay, well last summer I met this awesome guy, Jimmy, well that day of my life was perfect as it seemed. We have a lot in common, after we met we started talking getting to know each other, i started to like him the same for him, but he didn't understand how much i liked him. I fell for him and he was a awesome guy. He was a player at that time it seemed, he touched me down there when we were in the pool once and i was shocked. I didn't like that. Well, he said he liked me a lot, but i found out that he liked someone else to. At that time, i couldn't handle that. He cuttted me down, and said "Well, if your going to act that way, bye bitch". (sorry for the language)That hurt me and it took me awhile to move on. When i did, i forgot about him i actually despised him, mostly because he dated one of my friends after i he told me that he didnt want to date anyone at that time.So, i was done with his ass. Well, it's the 3rd week of the new school year, and he sends me a pic of himself. I was pissed, haha so i asked him what he wanted, very mean to him. :/ Well, he didnt reply but than the next day i told him hi, we started talking,we sent pics to each other, to see if we changed any. haha he said i did. He was very sweet, and i told him how much he hurt me and he told me that he was very sorry for hurting me. I didn't believe it at that time, but he proved it to me later. He brought up that he still likes me, and i was like WOW this whole time? We met in July?! I was dating someone at that time. When i asked him what he was doing he said this: " thinking". I said "about...?" he replied "U, how i really liked you and let you go, now you have someone. I should have never let you go :'(" <- he actually put tht face ahah aw. Than i was speechless, and even more speechless when he said" i love you. I'm sorry i know you dont love me." Sooo ya we talked all night, and i broke up with my bf because im confused on what i do NOW! Can someone PLZ help me here?What do you think of this? i think i should give him a chance.
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Hi there..
It is very easy for a guy to say what a girl wants to hear, in your case.. He has said exactly what you wanted to hear.
If I were you, I wouldn't have even considered breaking it off with my current boyfriend because some old crush told you that he loves you! As far as i'm concerned, he hardly knows you are vise versa. What do you really know about this guy other then he touched you when you didn't want him to and he played you like a fool! He embarrassed you!
Imagine how your boyfriend felt. One minute your fine and next, out of the blue, you dumped him!!!! Not cool!! You've just done to him what this other guy did to you!!
Your still very young and have a lot to learn about love and not to mention life in general!!
Personally, my opinion, this guy IS just a player and obviously you were available to talk to when HE felt like it. He may have apologised but who's to say that he wont do it again. He blew it up in your face once, he's more then likely going to do it again. He is older then you and 2 years is a big diference for someone as young as you. By this stage.. he could be ready for sex. Do you want that? Will you be able to say no because he's 'so sweet'
You shouldn't have let your guard down because now he knows he's in.. he's going to get what he can out of you!! Some people just don't change!!
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NO NO NO NO.... I had a guy exactly like this. He sees that you have/had someone in your life and he doesnt like it! As soon as he gets what he is after you wont mean a damn thing. This is guys games. BIG mistake breaking up with you boyfriend for this guy.. as hard as it will be you need to tell him that you just want to be friends. if not be prepared for ur heart to be broken!!
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