Hey lovies! =) I'm Julie and I'm 15, which makes me a sophomore at the lovely Branford High School. I'm in Model Congress, Concert Choir, and the Young Republicans Club. Besides being a student, I've been a dancer and acrobat for 13 years! It's basically my life. I love my friends to death and would be nothing without them! ♥ Well, I've been on Advicenators for over a year now so I know what I'm doing and you can trust me. I'm here to give you honest and helpful advice...So just leave me any questions you have in my inbox! =)
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I like this guy *dylan* and he used to (at least it seemed like it,) flirted with me last year and im at a different school this yr, and he keeps giving me the wrong email address, and my friend keeps telling him he better give me the right one and blah blah blah!! i don't know wut to do!!!!!!!!! please help!!!! :(
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Considering Dylan keeps giving you the wrong e-mail address, that obviously means he isn't interested. I'm so sorry! =(
You should move on and find a guy that will treat you the way you should be treated. There are so many others!
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my best friend has a friend she likes him so do i. she knows this. so i IM him all the time.he knows to. today he asked me if i would be mad at Steph my best friend if she madeout with him i am upset i told him no wat does this mean?????????????
help me
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It means that this guy is a player and isn't looking for just one girl to be with. He wants to "get some" and will most likely get it from your friend, Steph. I am so sorry!
There are so many other guys out there who would love to be with you and would respect you much more than this guy!
Hope I helped you. =)
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Well i got my girlfriend a really nice gift for her birthday...well not gift....more like gifts....they were pretty expensive all together....but its her first birthday since weve been going out....and weve been going out for about 4 months now....do u think really expensive is a bad or good thing? (link)
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I believe that price doesn't matter at all! I can almost guarantee that your girlfriend will love being close with you on her birthday a million times more than any gift(s) that you could buy her...Even though we do love getting them! =) She will never know how much you spent on her unless you tell her.
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i've never gone to the movies w/ a guy or anything, yeah i'm 15 and never had a boyfriend, so how do you ask them to the movies or something?
~Kylie...again~
I tried IMing you... (link)
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Then just ask him at band practice or whatever you said that you two were connected in at school. Just ask him when you see him alone so you don't have to plan a huge date! =)
Sorry...I was away (AIM).
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thanks for such a quick reply. another question, i've never asked a guy before, I mean I've always had a friend do it, so how should I talk to him about it/ ask him?
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Hey, no problem!
Umm...Maybe just go to the movies together and just be like "I really want us to be closer" and then just plain out ask him if he wants to go out with you. I'm sure he'd love to based on what you said! =)
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I'm a 15/f and I have this huge crush on a 17/m. He goes to school with me. He's a Jr. I'm a Fr. And I get mixed signals from him.We're both in marching band, so we have common interests, and i've bonded with him a lot more since camp this summer. We have this way of joking around that makes me think he likes me, but I'm not sure. I could say that if he liked me, I would be happy spending the rest of my life with him. He knows I like him, so do I risk asking him or not?
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You should definitly ask him out! You two seem like you have so much in common, and two years age difference really doesn't matter too much! Good luck, sweetie! =)
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is it okay 2 have an online relationship? he said he is breaking up with his gf! and that he wants to go out with me because we have a conncetion! should i tell my friends and family about this relationship? i am scared 2!
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Online relationships can be really risky and dangerous because the person you talk to on the Internet may not be exactly who they say they are. If he wants to break up with his girlfriend, then that's totally up to him. I'm not sure if you should tell your parents, it's such an awkward situation becaus online dating is scary sometimes, sweetie! But, if you're perfectly sure of this guy - then, by all means, go right ahead and meet him and tell your friends and family! =)
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i really need help.. so please read this =(
- my boyfriend dumped me in PUBLIC at a football game! but it was ON OUR 2 YEAR ANIVERSARY!!! =( i was so heart broken and i couldnt believe what happen.. and he was tellin me stuff like he will always love me and shit but i was like "how will that help me, know you will always love me but you are with another girl?" it was awful!! so now he is like i hate being single it isnt what i thought blah blah and i still REALLY like him a lot and he likes me but im not so sure we should go out because that was the second time he broke up with me then came crawling back.. what should i do? (link)
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I know you still have strong feelings for your ex-boyfriend, but I think that the right thing to do would be to just move on. He's a big part of your past - and I'm not telling you to not be friends with him or anything - just don't go back out with him. You both need to see other people and get a feel for the world around you. Maybe when you're older your relationship can work out better =)
Good luck & I'm sorry.
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Hi all ,i have a problem in my school .i noticed this girl that looks really good and i am scared to go up to her and ask her whats her name then tell her that i like how cute she looks and i would like to get to know her more but i am scared of getting rejected by her because she is one of the most popular girls in my school what should i do. heeelllllllppppppp (link)
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Well, since you don't really know this girl too well, I suggest that you don't tell her right-off-the-bat that you have a crush on her. Instead, just give her a little compliment - you like her hair, shoes, shirt, etc. Then you can ask her what her name is! Just take things slow and be very open and friendly towards her - and you never know! =)
Tell me if you'd like some more advice!
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this boy i like ..-tom- well we just broke up..and he got over me really fast..but i think he did becasue my so called frined told him that she liked him..but the thing is that me an tom were still goiN OUT...and then that night we got into a fight so i dumped him becasue he was bein gay about it ..but now he likes tha other gurl..an the thing is i wanna know how he could get oveer me soo fast..plz help.. (link)
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Tom probably liked the other girl while you two were going out, so, unfortunately, he wasn't too bummed when you dumped him. It's OK, sweetie! Just forget about him because he's a loser and you deserve much better! =)
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Situation: Ex boyfriend moved to another state.. i mean.. i love him soo much! i havent see him since he left... 2 months ago.. And I talked to him recently.. he says hes moving back here.. Hes the guy I lost my virginity to...
Situation: I'm engaged right now.. but I think if my Ex came back... i would do something I will regret..
I know I love both guys..and both guys love me.. so how do I choose? (link)
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Simple. You're engaged to someone - and that is the person you said "yes" to spending the rest of your life with. Don't go back to your ex-boyfriend...Just like you said - you could do something you'd regret!
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What age would you let your Child date?? What would you allow them to do with Him or Her? (link)
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I think I'd let my child start dating whenever he/she felt really seriously ready. Probably around 7th or 8th grade would be appropriate. I would have to approve of the boyfriend/girlfriend and I don't think they would "do" anything at first. Hopefully after dating awhile - then they would kiss or something! Hehe =)
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i've just made my bestfriend hella mad any general advice to make everything better? (link)
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Tell her you're sorry for what you did that made her so mad at you - and see if there's anything special you can do to patch up your friendship =)
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I am 13/f. Ever since I have been dating my boyfriend, I have been thinking things I really shouldn't be thinking. I keep getting all these...desires to do things to him. I shouldn't be thinking things like that, I'm only 13!!! How do I stop? (link)
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You can't really control those kind of thoughts and feelings that you're having for your boyfriend right now. It has to deal with your body changing - so right now your hormones are in control of a lot of your thoughts.
This phase will be over soon, hun! But, whenever you have one of those unwanted sexual thoughts, just try to distract yourself and think of school or your other friends.
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There is a Sadie Hawkin's dance tomorrow and I REALLY wanna ask the guy I like, and he knows I do, (It's a LONG story that involves a AIM robot) and everyone thinks I should, but he was absent today and I was gonna ask him today. So I am going through this very long process of getting his phone # so I call him and ask him tonight. But I don't ever call guys and I am so nervous about calling him. If there is any other way I can ask him, or what should I do if I call him? (link)
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You could ask him on AIM tonight...But I really think you should call him! That would really impress him =) I was so nervous the first time I called a guy, but he actually did most of the talking, which was really good! Call him up and just say that you know there's the Sadie Hawkin's dance tomorrow and you were wondering if you two could go together. I doubt that he wouldn't want to go with you, sweetie! If you're still a little nervous and uneasy about calling him - leave me another message and I'll try to think of some other things you can say to him or IM me at XO SWEET PEA O3 =)
Good luck!
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ok i'm 14 and a female. there is this guy in my alegbra class that sits across from me that i like a lot but he doesn't know it. we are always talking and flirting. everyone in that class tells us that we make the perfect couple and that we should go out. today my friend lori asked him that if he that to chose someone in the classroom to go out with who would it be and he said me!! i really like him and i think he likes me too he said that he liked me like a friend but i don't know. so plz help!! (link)
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You need to tell him that you like him! He probably isn't taking your relationship to the next level because he's unsure if you have the exact same feelings for him that he has for you! Spill you heart to him, girl! =)
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One of my closest guy friends just told me he fancies me. I don't know what to do, I really like him as a friend but now I don't know how I can carry on as normal with him. And what makes it worse is my boyfriend is his best friend. (link)
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Wow. You should tell him that you know he wanted to get his feelings off of his shoulders and tell you how he feels, but he really shouldn't have. Tell him that you feel your relationship with him is probably going to change now, and you're not really sure what to do. It's pretty stupid that he told you that, since he knows that you have a boyfriend - his best friend! Tell him that you and him really can't be together (atleast not now...) and you just want him to think of you as a friend because you value your simple friendship =)
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I sometimes feel the need to have a relationship, like my self-esteem is really low because I believe I need one (like a serious one)... is this normal? what should I do? (link)
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Yes, this is normal for your age, sweetie! Most girls feel like they're not pretty enough or popular if they don't have a boyfriend. In reality, you don't NEED a boyfriend - I have plenty of friends who are really popular and everyone likes them, but they aren't in a romantic relationship.
I think that it's fine for you to feel that you need a guy, but just try to think about other things for now. Your self-esteem could raise if you join a club or something to get you more involved in school and meet some new people!
Good luck! =)
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well im not sure if i can say i like him.. but i have feelings. His name is Chris hes a sophmore and im a frshman.. and i always see him in school and he usually looks at me when we are passing eachother in the halls. theres just something about him that , i dont know hes just my type. well the other day i took my friends bus and he was on it and when i looked back at him he was looking at me like in the eyes. one of his friends sits in back of me in my study and he sits alone so should i say somethin to him? i was just going to say sumthin to chris but we like dont know eachother.. and i dont know how to talk to him and i dont want to soudns weird.. id take my friends bus and what should i say when i first talk to him, should i sit near him and smile and say hi or sumhin or ask him if hed wanna hangout? i dunno:-\thankss (link)
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Aww...I think we're soul sisters! The same exact thing is happening to me in my love life right now! Hehe!
Anyways, I think that during your study period you should grab a seat right next to Chris's friend. Tell him that you've been eying Chris and want to know if he has a girlfriend - or if not, who does he like. Ask his friend not to tell Chris that you've asked any of this yet...because then it could get kind of awkward - if you know what I mean! When you see Chris in the halls, just smile and say hi. If you see him at lunch or something, try to strike up a small converstation - like if he has the same bitchy math or English teacher.
When you go on Chris's friend's bus, try to catch a seat near Chris. Eye contact is definitly key in figuring out if someone likes you or not, so if Chris keeps staring at you - he obviously digs you! Try to set up a date where you, a friend, Chris, and his friend that you know from study can all chill! Maybe you guys can even go trick-or-treating together! =)
I hope my suggestions will work for you! Tell me how it turns out! =)
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Hey everyone,i have a question. I danced with this guy i like the other night and i think he had a good time, i wanted to dance with him again but his friends kept asking him stuff so he spent the rest of the nite with them. My friend sed he talked to him and that the guy i danced wit either likes me or some other girl, but probably me. But today at school i saw him a few times and he didn't even aknowledge me, I know he's shy but i'm afraid he started to like that other girl now..what do you all think? tnx a bunch (link)
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I think he likes you, but like you said, he seems very shy. Try approaching him and saying "Hi" when you see him in school, so he gets more comfortable talking to you. Don't have all your friends attack him at once, because he's probably a little uneasy. Just befriend him for now, and then things can become a little more serious!
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