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hey am lesty from massachussettes.i love talking to people and getting to know them.ihave short black hair with big hershey kisses brown eyes.am 5'2 and lovin it.lets say i love to have lots of fun unlimited.i dont smoke ,drink or do drugs.but the rest am there.the reason i dont smoke is cause i play sports and it kinda slows me down.
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last year i was like the outcast and this guy Jared liked me and he asked me out i didnt know why the heck he liked me but it soon became love he loved me. and i loved him back the realtionship lasted for 10 1/2 months and i felt like we were good and that we were gonna be together for a while longer then we were and now he ignores me and tells his stupid friends things about me and half the time i cant have a regular conversation with him.. i sed about 3 months ago that i'd changed things for him becuz i love him and he completely blew me off. and when his friends are not in school he will talk to me like he would when we were together and i dont know what to do!! should i let him go and ignore him or tell him one more time how i feel??
thanks and sryy its so long
i think it has something to do with his friends, try to get him to talk about all this. i mean i tthink this relationship has been over for a while and if you talk to him and he doesnt love you. even though he does,why did he choose his friends over you. so i uess its time you start to wrap things up.
I'm 24 years old, going on 25 and I've never had a boyfriend, I've been on dates, if you want to call taking me to McDonald's as a date...anyway, everytime I see my friends or even relatives smooching or cuddling with their significant other it puts me down, it's like a slap in the face. I've never even experienced my first kiss yet. Everyone knows how I feel and everytime they say again and again "Don't worry, you're turn will come", I am so fed up with hearing that! Any advice you can give me?
just wait , um sure the perfect someone for oyu will come a long finally. dont try to push it all together when the time is right and you meet him, you should know.
i am soo confused about this one guy. me and him went out and now we are just friends. he keeps on seeming to flirt w/ me but when i flirt back he doesn't like it! i Don't get it, i am really confused. Can anyone help me and tell em wahts going on. My best friends mom said that he is immature and if he was older he would be able to tell that i like him back, but i don't know if i do. I mean i WANT to be friends w/ him but i want to be able to flirt w/ him too. You know? but i dont get why he does that? any answerS?
o think he just like flirting period. he might not think about what hes doin so he might not know hes leading you on. if you flirt back and he doesnt like it.then he just doesnt lie u
Theres this guy I've had my eye on for awhile and we hungout this weekend . My friends say that he likes me because of the way he acts when hes around me, but hes been known to be a "player" (That hes gotten with alot of girls, not that he cheats or anything) Well, I cant stop thinking about him. I really want to go out with him but he wont make the first move and neither will I. My friend says he could make him ask me out, but if we did go out I would only see him every other weekend since his parents are divorced and he lives in a different town. I dont know wether to wait untill the chance is right and ask him out, wait for him to do something or to not even bother since it'd be a distant relationship (sorrta) Any advice from either gender would be great, thanks. f/14
y do you care what other think. if he like you and you like him..well that all that matters.be spontaneous and just ask him out and see what happens.u will never know if you dont ask.
hey well me and my ex boy friend had been going out 4 months well he desides he wants to take a break and get back to gather april 13 when he can drive but we have been having some problems since we broke up do u think there is any chance of us ever getting back to gather?
i think the relationship is getting to intense for him and he needs time to re-adjust
so talk to him, about how you feel abou all this and ask him whats really going on wit him
16/f
alrighty so this guy likes me, i like him, i told him that i did and he started acting differently *like not talking to me as much* like we've hung out, gone on a "date", talked on the phone, but lately, he hasn't been the same. like whenever i hug him he just stands/sits there, he doesn't really answer me when i talk to him or he'll just start talking to his other friends, he told me he wanted to go out this weekend and that he'd call but he never did. and i'm still worried that it's all because i told him that i like him. i really don't know what to do because i really care for him and don't want to lose him, but i'm scared that i already have. can anyone please give me advice on what to do?!
maybe he has a severe case of shyness and doesnt know what to do.like he likes you but doesny know how to act around you. you show him that you like him way too much thanhe does you.so do this.try ignoring him for a few days.even though yourdying for his attention just brush him off for 2 or 3 days.dont show him that you care way too much .also just outright ask him why he leads you on.does he yu or does he not.
I'm 13 and a half
I reely like this guy and im pretty sure he might like me to, but he also might like another girl i just CANT STAND! how do i tell if he likes me and what can i say to him to get him to like me?
x0x Lo
does he show anysigns that he might like you.likre smile at you,talks to you alot.or does he d o that with the other girl.if he might like you.show him your interested,smile at him,tease him and even flrit with him,
well i went out with this guy for 16mths and we broke up coz he cheated on me with alot of my mates i know its bad but were been broken up now for 6 mths and out of the blue i get this email i wana be mates and i still like you and all the rest of it i realy want to be mates but i know i love him to much to just be mates but i dont want to get back to gether with him coz i know ill only get hert agian and yet i also want to be mates im so confused i know i shouldnt go back but it realy herts deep down i dont know what to do please just help me i realy carnt deal with this on my own
whatdo you really want from him.is it close attachment
ok my boyfriend is about 20 and i'm about 16 and my supposelly home girl is telling him that im messing around on him with his best friend but im not and i guess he's believing this because he doesn't want to talk to me or his friend honestly i'm not the type to be doing something that bad and i don't want to break up with him because i liked him for three years and i dont wanna hurt him in ne ways
communication is te best thing in a relationship.talk to him .and if he loves you like you loved him ,he should trust you and believew you.and as for this home girl.shit her.maybe shes jealious of what you guys have.and she likes him too.
Ok, well... my best friend is a guy, and his name is Chris. He's really awesome, and we're really close. I've always thought of him as a brother to me. But lately everyone has been asking me, "Are you two going out?" and "Do you like him?" and everytime my answer is "no." but lately I've been thinking, and I feel weird whenever I talk to him now. Whenever he comforts me about stuff, I just feel... really really happy. Rediculously happy. Almost..fuzzy inside? I don't know, but I keep thinking that I'm starting to have feelings for him. But we're just friends.. friend's arent supposed to crush on eachother. But I can't help myself.
SO MY QUESTION IS: Am I in love with him? and if I do why do I feel so uncomfortable?
Signed..
JUST FRiENDS
i know your pain girl.does chris showany idea that he may like you too.i think you should make ysure he likes you back before you do anything about those feelings.if you guys are raeally close and all. and i he doesnt like you back.that may ruin your relationship.
How can I appologize to a guy i realllllly like?!! i mean give me some pointers on how he can really forgive me for being mad at him! i cant really explain because its too long..
say this.i AM SORRY FOR WHATIDID AND PLEASE FORGIVE ME.I WAS CAUGHT UP AND STRESSED.I LOVE YOU
this is a little confusing sorry if it's long.. well okay this year i started liking this guy named Ron. My best friend, Kelly started liking Ron's best friend, Peter. well me and kelly were really close and we are bff. ron and peter r the same way. well i've always liked ron but i don't really "know" him.. he said he'd go out with me if he knew me better. anyways, kelly & peter started going out.. they went out for about a mounth. peter dumped kelly and kelly says she still likes peter. but now i'm mad at kelly because she has been really flirty with Ron and she KNOWS that i like him. it's reall making me mad. we went to the movies last night and she was always talking to ron and flirting with him. we just recently got off the phone and she told me that her and ron were text messaging last night and that ron called her today. i'm really mad at kelly.. what should i do about my situation??
ps-sorry it was so long
fuck her.try flirting with peter if it will make her mad.also if shes your bff talk to her about how you feel about whats shes doin.also try giving ron some attention,.flirt with him too.pk fight for your man if his worth it.
Right, what do you do if you were friends with this guy, and you really liked him as more than a friend, and then one day, with a little message-taking by your friend, he lets on that he wants to kiss you. Then you end up with him later on, kissing a lot.
Then its so awkward in the morning you text him and say that you hope it won't awkward because you're really glad you're mates... (Let's just say it took a lot of work to get your friendship going after a mishap earlier in the year)
And he totally agrees, he only wants to be mates so you say the same... and then when you next see him...and every time after that, it's so awkward you want to scream, and now you don't talk to each other.
In fact you each seem to pretend the other isn't there.
Do you:
Forget it and move on?
Get your friends to do a little talking in-between and find out whats his problem
Do you just one day walk up to him and pretend its all the same?
WHAT DO YOU SAY TO SOMEONE?
Every time I see him I tell myself I'll talk to him but every time I have NOTHING TO SAY!!!
Please help :S
show him you want to be more than mates
hey well i have a boy friend right now n i was hearing things that he n his ex gurlfriend r like still dating or somthin n some ppl r sayin they're not but i dono who to bolieve soo pleaze help me !!
ask him
ok i asked this question earlier but i didnt see it posted. anyway i am a 25 year old married woman, i have 2 georgeous children. my problem is when i am at work i have access to a computer and for the last 6 months i have been talking to a really great guy. sometimes he calls me also, we talk about everything and he makes me feel really good. i feel like if i wouldnt of gotten married he is the man i would want to be with. to make things more complicated, i am falling in love with him. we have never meet, i want to but he knows i am married and only wants to be a friend, i did to at first, but my feelings are changing. i dont want to destroy my family life ever, but i know it is also not fair to my husband, me sitting there thinking about what if im supposed to be with this other guy. what should i do, follow my heart or do what society and everyone else would say is right.please help
so you have never met this guy and you tthink youn might be in love with him/i think that you may have problems in your marriage like your husbands not giving you enough attention and thats why you are going to that guy.think about what you really want.like your children too.how old are they.do they take away all your free time and you have none left for you and your husband.also about your sex life.is it great.what would you rate it. also what o you see thats wrong with your mairriage.you need to think realv hard on these things then if you find a poblem try to work it out.when people go to strangers for company.its to get attention that they might not be recienving form their partners.
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I love this guy and we are going out. I know he loves me back and he used to tell me that..but he hasn't lately and he's been flirting with my bestie. He's been sitting next to her in class..nowhere near me he dosen't usually do this..laughs with her, they smile at eachother and he even put his hand on her hand and they just stared at eachother. Where I'm from that's not meant to happen. I've been crying every night..should we break up?
i think thixs guy has moved on from you to your bestie.i think if you are serious about him.talk to him or fight for him.but you got to make sure if his worth it.so just calm down and think about what you really want hard.did your bestie now that you liked him.tell her about how you feel about him ansd ask if she likes him
arlight so i like this person and ive went out with him b4 we lasted a little over 3 months which was good and i liked it.. but towards the end he started acting like ajerk and a showoff and stuff .. so it got me mad.. and when he was with his friend and i was there too and he was like getting all werid with me and stuff he'd get mad at me so id like fight back and hed get mad at me and leave.. so i broke up with him and its been a little over 3 weeks since we broke up but im starting to like him again.. but i dont wana be hurt... so i dont know if i should ask him back out or just stay friends ?? i hope someone can help me ??
signed
Confused
i think you jsut miss him and you need to cut lose with him.try as much as you can to forget him,.i also thnk you are lonely and thinbk about him alot.so stop that and forget him.his a jerk.
There's this kid, who like alwayz stares at me. People say that he likes me, and my best friend thinks he does too. He is like the shy type so he doesn't do anything. Last year I had a crush on him, and everybody told him, and than faded away and stoped. Now this year, he might like me, but i am not sure. What should I do? Btw, I catch him looking at me somtiemes during class. Does that mean he likes me?
do you like him.thats the question you should be asking yourself first of all before you get to think about anything else.
me and this kid kissed at my friends b-day party and i liked him a lil bit but now i really lik him since this kiss, it didnt bug me before wen he flirted wit all the girls, but now it makes me upset. bcuz he acts lik we didnt do nething at the party and we did. and it upsets me. he was tellin ppl that we kissed and all but he didnt act lik we did. at first i thought the awkardness was kinda funny. but now its just hard to watch him flirt wit everybody and lik touch them and all and just lik act lik me and him did nothing, wat should i do i mean im just confused and hurt.
i think thats him.he may have not thought about tit as much as you.it may be something he does woth all girls.so forget him his a player.
well if you don't know my story read "very very very confused" Well I don't know whether to call my ex, to at the very least let her know what really happened and not let her believe what she was told. I have not attempted this yet, but I feel it might help me with some sort of closer, atleast knowing that I told her, regardless whether she believes me or not. The problem is when she has called she only tells me to stop talking "crap" about her, and I am not, and everytime I have tried to explain things to her she just hangs up. Well last weekend she block her number and called me on friday night, saturdaynight, and 3 times on sunday night, I didnt answer any of the calls because I didnt want to hear say that I am lying and threaten me. At the same time I am at the point that I would like to atleast set the record straight. We had already broken up, yet we were still talking, I had told her that she was the only one for me, but she thought I was trying to talk to other women at the same time, and this is were it started to get ugly and has grown into something worse. The worst thing is when you are accused of something that you didnt do, and what you had actually told someone is not what she heard. I do want to call her, but she has told people that I have been bothering her and that we were never really together, after she believed that I had did something wrong. She blocks her number when calling me, so there 's no record of her number on my cell phone, or bill. So there's my problem, wanting to call her to set things straight, but dont want let her continue to say that I am bothering her. Please I really need some advice.
BREAL,29yrs,male
i think you should do this one last time and quit if she wont listen.email her,text her or something and tell her the whole truth.i think that shes basically wants you back or she wouldnt keep bothering you.also just give it arest if she wont stop.she will one day get bored with this whole thing.ok be a man and dont let it bother you