Question Posted Thursday September 22 2005, 3:00 pm
this is a little confusing sorry if it's long.. well okay this year i started liking this guy named Ron. My best friend, Kelly started liking Ron's best friend, Peter. well me and kelly were really close and we are bff. ron and peter r the same way. well i've always liked ron but i don't really "know" him.. he said he'd go out with me if he knew me better. anyways, kelly & peter started going out.. they went out for about a mounth. peter dumped kelly and kelly says she still likes peter. but now i'm mad at kelly because she has been really flirty with Ron and she KNOWS that i like him. it's reall making me mad. we went to the movies last night and she was always talking to ron and flirting with him. we just recently got off the phone and she told me that her and ron were text messaging last night and that ron called her today. i'm really mad at kelly.. what should i do about my situation??
xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx answered Friday September 23 2005, 7:40 pm: HEY! OH EM GEE that was interesting ! well i think you should talk to kelly about it n see if she likes him and see if he likes her also and it would be totelii wrong if she likes him n goes out with him well i hope i helped at all xOxOx //♥\ [ xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx's advice column | Ask xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx A Question ]
EvilCheshire answered Thursday September 22 2005, 6:11 pm: This is a two sided kind of answer, and it's probably not what you want to hear but...
Kelly is your best friend, yes? The relationships between my friends is basically - if I like a guy, they won't go near him. She shouldn't be rubbing it in your face that they've been talking, especially since she knows you're into him.
BUT.
Ron also has said he doesn't like you, it's not really fair to Kelly if she has feelings for someone and he has feelings for her but they can't date becuase it will upset you.
In the mean time be Ron's friend, get to know him more and such. Don't necessarly try to steal him away. You may find out that you really don't like him and he isn't right for you anyway. [ EvilCheshire's advice column | Ask EvilCheshire A Question ]
letter_girl22 answered Thursday September 22 2005, 5:36 pm: fuck her.try flirting with peter if it will make her mad.also if shes your bff talk to her about how you feel about whats shes doin.also try giving ron some attention,.flirt with him too.pk fight for your man if his worth it. [ letter_girl22's advice column | Ask letter_girl22 A Question ]
queenteen18 answered Thursday September 22 2005, 5:15 pm: Well i think you should just start flirting with Peter but dont start liking him. that way she'll get mad and end up saying i'm sorry. and then you'll say sorry back and you can both get the guy you like.
x0Leah0x answered Thursday September 22 2005, 3:29 pm: dont worry about the length.
Always remember that friends come before guys. Friends will always be there, but guys wont.
you might also want to think about your friendship with Kelly. Why would she be doing this to you if she knows you like him? It sounds like she might be a fairweather friend. But also keep in mind that she might have forgotten how much you like Ron.
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