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what should i get my gf for christmass, i suck at choosing out gifts. im thinking maybe jewlry? (link)
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girls like jewlry, perfume, clothes and purses.so anything like that shuold work!
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hey guys i need some halp me and my x-girl friend are going to a school dance tonight well i like her alot but i broke up with her the last time because she was really controlling and did not want me to go any where or do any thing like on new years i wanted to go to a party with some of my friends and she did not want me to go she thought that i should go to the movies with her well it is new years you should be hangin out with you friends right? so i dont know if i should go back out with her or not can u give me so advice (link)
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hey johnny well i mean "corey" i dont know for sure. but if you guys are getting along than i would say go for it!
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I know that people say you are too young to be in love. But does that mean I can't tell my boyfriend that I love him?
13/F
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if you really feel that you love him than tell him.i dont think that that saying is really true.
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How can you tell if he actually likes you?
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well he might be mean to you, i know it sounds stupid but it can be true or he could be the exact opposite and be really nice to you. sorry i really cant help that much
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hi my dear friends iwant to know that is she loves me or not.i dont have any friend except her we study in same class.how can i know her feelings and her love for me e-g how she talk with me how she behave with me.in what situation i can figure out about her love for me .please. (link)
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ok i kind of understood what you said. try talkin to her and tell her that shes your best friend or something. or if your to embarassed than write her a note and tell her or call her some time.
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well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and we're always messing around but lately we haven't it feels like our realationship isn't the same anymore.i told him i didn't feel like it was the same and he told me he was feeling the same way so he suggested that could be the problem that we haven't been messing around with each other and he thinks we should start again,but i feel that why should we mess around juss so we can feel that spark between us again.shouldn't it juss be like we don't have to do anything like that juss so our relationship could be the same.i don't like the fact that i always have to satisfy him juss so he can be happy with us.i feel like if i don't do it our relationship will not be the same.wat should i do?should i do it or not.he's not pressuring me to do it he was saying that as a suggestion but i don't know i juss need some advice i guess and i will rate a five for juss sum good advice (link)
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well your guys relationship shouldnt be based on sex or ne thing like that. you should tell him that you feel like you have to do that kind of stuff to make him happy or whatever. it should be based on how good of talkers you guys are and that kind of stuff. you might want to try to do more stuff together like go to the movies and go to the mall and walk aroud and stuff like that to get your minds off that kind of stuff.
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I go to a school thats about.. 40% black/minority. I'm a 17 y/o senior in highschool and many of my friends are black (I'm white).. and many of tha guys I've dated are black. I listen to mainly "black" music, but I don't discriminate, its just what I know. But my uncle is soo racist and ALWAYS harrasses me. He calls me n-lover (you know) and does tha dumbest things like knocking on tha front door and saying "Chelsie, its an N, better come get tha door!"..hes so immature. My mom always yells at him when shes around (a lot of her friends are black too), but I dont live w/ her and shes hardly ever around.. I live w/ my grandparents and they dont say anything to him about it. He just makes me so angry b/c he comes around a lot and acts like hes better than black folks but hes NOT.. he doesnt take care of his kids and he has a 6-year old daughter who hasnt even started school yet which is ILLEGAL! Ugh, hes gay. I cant stand him. I just dont know what to do about him. He always says stuff like "I know this girl who would kick your ass for $20".. thats hilarious to me. One time I told my (black) friends cousin about it (hes 27) and he ended up coming to my house when my uncle was here and trying to get him to come outside so he could fight him.. and what did my uncle do.. NADA! Stayed inside like a little -----! well.. yea, what should I do about him.. I just feel like shooting him. LOL. Sorry.. long rant.
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your uncles stupid. blacks and whites both bleed the same color were the same besides or skin color. what i would do is try to talk to you grand parents and tell them that when he says stuff like that that it really pisses you of and if that dont work than start saying stuff about him
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I NEED HELP!!!!!!! WHOEVER ANSWERS THIS ILL RATE 5!!!!!!!!
okay...well i recently found out that im a lesbian...and the other day my friend (shes a girl and didnit kno i was gay) came over. we were working on our homework and then...it happened ...i koodnt control myself...i just jumped on her and we started making out and stuff....we went rlly far if u know what i meen and she said she had a great time but didnt want this to happen again,....i love her sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much and dont know what to do...any advice out there???????????????????? (link)
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well, you might want to try to talk yo here and tell her how you feel about every thing. maybe shes embarassed or dont know if she is a lesbian or not for sure.
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While i have never been for abortion, i find my self in an aknward situation. My friend thinks that she is pregnant. but she doesnt know for sure. she doesnt live close enough to a hospital to go and she cant buy a home preganancy test. I think that she is just feeling gulity because she had sex with her boyfriend and the stress i giving her these symptoms. But we have no way of knowing for sure. She says that if she is she will find the quickest way to have an abortion. I dont know what to do. (link)
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well one way that you could help her is by getting a home preganacy test 4 her and taking it to school and have her do it their they only take a few min. to do, or have her spend the night with you and her do it their.
and if she finds out she is try not to let her think about the bad things help her think about the good things. tell her you will help her talk to her parents and tell her that you will be their for her no matter what happens.
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Im 13, female. And in the 7th grade.
I like a boy named Alex, Alex has a girlfriend named "Jessica" (THATS MY NAME ALSO, so you know.) & I have gym with alex and he always calls me "Jess" even though he thinks i cant stand it, (but i really do love it when he calls me jess) and like everytime i see him he just starts yelling "OMGOD ITS JESS, HIII JESS!!" all loud, and me and him act like we hate each other really bad, but we dont really "hate" eachother, and its kinda seems to me like its like how they used to tell you when your mean to somebody you really like them. But i dont know if he likes me. But see just yesterday i told him i couldnt stand him and he was like.. "aw common you can stand me!" and we like paused and stared at eachother. does it sound like he likes me?
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yes! he likes you hes flirting with you real bad.
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how do you dump a guy without hurting his feelings? (link)
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well i dont think that their is any possible way to dump a guy without hurting his feelings but you might want to try to explain to him why and by telling him that you want you 2 to still stay friend and to acually stay friends with him =)
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'k, sorry if this gets long winded. i'll try to keep it to the point.
18f, had my bf for about a year, & its pretty serious & we care alot about ea. other. sounds good, right? 'k, but theres this guy friend (call him Greg for now) that i used to have a crush on, and i was about to get up nerves to ask him out, but then my current bf asked me. It's not as if theres anything wrong, and i love my bf i guess, but lately i'm thinking alot about Greg, and what it would have been like to go out with him. i had that crush for a long, long time, and now school is practically almost over and i'll never find out.
I don't think it would really be possible to dump my bf for him anyways, but now Greg has a gf of his, for the first time ever.
'k, sorry, lots to explain this, but after learning this, i've felt really depressed and jealous. I know i shouldn't be, first he never was mine and second i feel guilty thinking about in the first place. But the feelings don't go away. i feel like i'm being torn apart. i'm so confused. what's wrong with me? what should i do?
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well you might want to think about what you got and try to realize what it might be like if you dont have him, that "might" help you quit thinking about -greg-.and after you think about it and if you realize it wouldnt bother you if you didnt have the bf you have now than talk to greg and see if he feels the same way.
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What are the steps to get a girl from hardly noticing you to her going out with you? I am ugly so don't count on looks helping me here. I also don't want this to happen "That ugly guy keeps saying hi to me and talking to me. Its so weird. Next time he says hi to me I am going to say don't look at me"
So detailed guide in how to start. (link)
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your kinda hard on your self. she might not think your ugly, all diffrent girls have diffrent tastes in guys. you might not be the best looking(i dont know) but if guys have good personalities than that can also make them cute. you'll just have to try the whole"hi" thing and see how she acts, and try to be nice to her like open door for her(not like wait 5 min. for her to come down the hall way or ne thing, but if shes behind you than do it).
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i am really good friends with this one guy we hang out all the time we play basketball football everything we are neighbors so ya but i really like him and well i am afraid that if i tell him that i like him he mite not like me and we will grow distant from eachother and i really don't want that to happen i tried forgeting about him but it won't work als i am 13.f and he 16/m and the age difference kinda bothers me please help i will rate really high (link)
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well first i would try to kinda hint it off that you like him and if he says anything back kinda on the line of what you said than go for it, it sounds like to me that its worth it.
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I've already asked my friends, but I thought a few of you would have GRRRREAT advice. So I like this guy. A while ago, I told him he was a hottie. Nothing realy happened after that. He went out with my friend a while after, but they broke up. They are still friends and she said he would tell him to call me. I am NOT a shy person. But whenever Im around him, I can't talk. At all. My friend told me she sees him glancing at me, but I haven't seen it. I really like him and want to go out with him, but Im kinda stuck on what to do. Any suggestions on what to do? ANYTHING is appreciated. Thanks =] (link)
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you should probablly make sure you friend has no feelings all all for him, and make sure she dont mind because she had him first. and if she dont than you should ask him if he wants to hang out some time and see where it goes from their.
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I've been going out with this kid for about a week and a half now. He has a very bad reputation for smoking alot, drug use, getting in fights and stealing things. Everyone is scared of him so they don't know his good side. Actually he is very nice, considerate, sweet and ready for commitment.
Sometimes he lies to impress me though. Just one example, he told me he is 100 percent Irish but when I said I was Italian, he said he was 50% Irish and 50% Italian. He also buys me lots of jewelry to impress me I guess, but he doesn't need to.
I guess I'm just kind of shocked. But if he really feels like he has to be like that to keep me, I'm not sure if I actually want to keep dating him. This happened with all my previous boyfriends because I figure out their flaws as I get to know them and I start to drift away.
So Is he worth my time? Is it just that I have really high expectations for a guy?
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if you already notice that he is lieing thats not a very good sighn. i mean its good that he is tring to impress you and everything but sometimes the whole jewerly thing gets cheesy. i think that its good you have high expectations but you might want to wait for a while to see if he is worth your time, and try to talk to him about how you feel.
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I know my boyfriend REALLY likes me. To him, I am his number one priority and I even think he is ditching his friends so he can have more time with me.
Now, he is a pretty nice guy but he always wants me to kiss him or makeout with him. He's 14 and I know that at that age, boys hormones are racing! I can't blame him for wanting to because I know everyone feels that way sometimes.
But I'm not sure I'm ready for making out, especially in school. I don't think he is either. We both just got our first ever kisses this year. He is so nervous around me at school so he tells me to take the lead when kissing him. But I don't want to be the lead! I can't handle all of this responsibility because if I mess up, I'll feel stupid!
What should I do? Should I talk to him about this? What if he breaks up with me? (link)
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well,if your not ready than tell him, you are the one in charge. if he breaks up with you than thats his fault, he will probaly understand he might just act that way because he thinks thats how you want him to act.
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ok i have been dating this guy for awhile now and i care for him alot but i dont think a relationship is what i want from him anymore.hes to CLINGY and SENSITIVE.he always wants to just talk to me or just hang out with me alone.he never wants to talk with me and my friends we always have to be alone.i noticed i never have time for my friends anymore and im always going to be late.i have already tried to break up with him twice but he just cried and i felt guilty so i took him back now ive had it and we got into a fight about my friends a couple days ago and now im just avoiding him because i know when i do talk to him hell cry...help me what do i do?!?!?1 (link)
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hey, i went through the same thing not to long ago! i think it would be better to do it now than to wait for a long time and letting him get more attached. im sure it will hurt him, but you should nt give up your friends for him. just tell him its not working and that you two can still be friends(if that what you want), and give him tome to cool off a little.
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