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guy friend
i am really good friends with this one guy we hang out all the time we play basketball football everything we are neighbors so ya but i really like him and well i am afraid that if i tell him that i like him he mite not like me and we will grow distant from eachother and i really don't want that to happen i tried forgeting about him but it won't work als i am 13.f and he 16/m and the age difference kinda bothers me please help i will rate really high
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So you have the same problem I always seem to encounter... The reason you end up falling for a friend is because you already know he's a great guy! (Otherwise why would you be friends with him, right?) Having dealt with this a LOT, I'd say the best thing to do is to wait it out for a while... try and be a really good friend to him and see if he feels the same way. If you do tell him how you feel, it is quite possible that he'll be weirded out (especially because of the age difference). Just think about how much his friendship means to you, and really consider if it's worth giving that up for a couple months of dating.
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Heyy.
Okk well the same thing kinda thing.
You can not keep this from him...cause
if you have a secret then your relation
ship will get worse. what i would do
is hint that you like him and then flirt
alot. then if he goes to ask you out then
that will be good. but if he doesnt just
be really glad that your such good friends
with him. i really hope i helped =]
♥
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well first i would try to kinda hint it off that you like him and if he says anything back kinda on the line of what you said than go for it, it sounds like to me that its worth it.
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you definetly cant keep this from him. because by not telling him you'll actually make things more awkward because you'll naturally act flirtatious around him and he'll be confused of the relationship between you guys. and if you dont tell him how you feel he'll probably get a girlfriend sooner or later and then it'll be too late. trust me.. a guy moved in across the street from me a couple years ago and i fell in love with him. i waited to tell him for a long time and it turns out there was a time when he liked me but when i told him how i felt he liked someone else. hes been in a relationship for the past year and i regret not telling him sooner. sure there is a possibility he might not like you back.. but wouldnt you rather find out than sit and wonder? good luck.
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you know, it isn't your fault if you like him, but you are right, the age difference is a little on the weird unnerving side. It wouldn't be totally horrible if you guys went out. You should ask him if he likes you, and then if he says no and then asks you why, just say something like someone told me you did or something... then you can get over it. That way he doesn't know that you like him, and he thinks you were just curious. Another thing you need to realize is that you will get over him in time, and then you will find someone else. I hope that I helped and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice. Thanks!
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Mhm...I see, my friend was in the same situation. She liked this boy, he was like 17 she was like 13. They hung out all night at a party, and they looked really cute together. But age was too big of a difference. She really liked him, and you could tell he liked her too. But then when she left, my cousin started flirting with her, and ended up going out. You sound exactly like the girl I'm talking about too. Same situation and everything. But just play things out, get to know him a little more, let him get to know you a little more. But don't get too attached, because the age difference might break your heart. Hope I helped!
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